Why Some Exes Never Come Back

a month or so in NC. What does it mean when your ex every now and then removes some of your photos (not all of them) from their social media? Are they trying to make me break NC or are they moving on?

It’s going on 5 years we haven’t spoke, my mistake was deleting and unfollowing her…I don’t think she would know what to say anymore. I still miss her like crazy, psychics tell me we’re “twin flames” but I don’t know anymore, still to this day I can’t love like I did before, still don’t date and also the worst part is even if I wanted to date I was never very good with the ladies plus I’m picky…only SHE was the only who ever understood me, when she unfollowed me I’m most certain it wasn’t easy for her too…but if your interest theory is correct then what does this mean? It seemed like we both didn’t want this but she still let it happen…

Okay so heres the situation hahaha. Me and this girl were only talking and seeing eachother for 4 months. I got overly into her because of that Damn anxious attachment style and over whelmed her in the last few weeks especially. I do believe she was really into me but there just was an imbalance in the end. It’s been 6 days no contact since the day I basically pushed her to end things by being so needy for validation. I know what I’ve figured out what I’ve done wrong and I’m living my best life currently and doing a lot for myself and being more active on social media again. But I don’t know if there was an emotion connection there for this to really work. What’s my next step?

What if it’s not an actual relationship? He’s way younger and an avid reader of the Art of Seduction. He says goodbye but if I contact him about a month or in the last case we went 5 months no contact, he had me blocked! We will see each other and have sex. Ugh. Been a year of this push pull crazy Shit! I didn’t text bomb him just called his BS out. Last “break up” a month ago I said ok you don’t want to be sexual then I’ll move on and find someone to spend my life with.
I told him it’s fair to me because I have real feelings. I have moved on , I’m talking to other men and even slept with someone else. So I don’t think he’s coming back and that is good thing. Worst thing he did was tell me he loved me. Then he admitted to sleeping with someone else without a condom. Yuck.

My ex recently contacted me to say his sibling is angry at him for dumping his mother onto her. I knew before this call he did that bc he did it to be with the married woman he left me to be with. His addicting to promiscuous girls and married women is why he left me for yet calls me when he has problems that he is dealing with. My position is he brought this onto himself and why does he not tell the married woman his problems. When it comes to her he treats her like a Goddess and me like the dumping grounds for his issues. Why only me for this a???

Why the hell will you want someone who doesn’t want you . They already planned the breakup before you . They already moved on before breaking up with you . Sometimes they contact you to know if you still there but don’t ignore them , show them you are better off without them , you don’t speak those exact words but you show it but not been mad at them and same time not been so excited they called , I did it to my ex after she reached out . I thought I wanted her back but after she reached out I realized I don’t need her . Guys listen to her to move on . Go listen to corey Wayne on how to not mess up the new relationship on the way , I promise you something better is ahead

Sometimes ego is a one of the reason , my ex did contacted me , it took more than 6 months around 8 , she contacted me saying a lot but I kept my cool , I mean she didn’t know the exact words to speak . Ego and pride is another major reason assuming they contacted you

Old schools .lady not good .

My ex and I have broken up before. We spent a year apart. I reached out and we got back together. This time I haven’t tried to get him back. It’s been 6 months. It’s getting easier. He was super unsure and upset about breaking up but I don’t think he would put himself out there through fear of being rejected.

We broke up 3 yrs ago and he s still with the girl he monkey branched.. he used to text me to catch up very often but now it's been 20 something days of no texts..what do you think?

Long distance gf (college girl 22) broke things off yesterday. Weve been together from last year ive supporting her financially after 8months in the relationship i stopped February after her Bd. I lost my dad New Years Eve she started acting brand new, she blocked me the entire January reached out before end month when i usually get my paycheck i felt like i was being used. After her BD February i stopped supporting her financially. The last two months ive been tellin her im gon send her cash and i dont. She said she has deleted my number has no space left for me in her life, she can do without me there are many men out here “I believe I can get a new boyfriend anytime anyday,” her words. I begged her to stay she didnt respond. Im now two days in no contact, I’d like your advice.

Well I was obsessed with getting my ex back, after 56 days I got her back. But after 3 weeks I’m getting bored with her.... But I learned so much reading psychology and watching your videos and will keep studying to improve my relationships

What means if I am over her and i know that i can leave without her and i am doing great but i still love her and i can’t reach out to her , i really don’t get it ...?

I have another slightly unique situation. We have a shared cloud storage that I pay for, she has all her photos and stuff that I’ve told her to remove because I mostly got it for her to store them. I told her she should remove them before it ends, but it’s all still there. I don’t want to break no contact, but should I reach out before the subscription ends and she loses everything?

I basically come here for the guitar intro and to be asked whether I have been a good little soldier - can we resurrect this catchphrase plz and ty ;)

We dated for only 2 months however it was very intense, his interest level was very high.
He ghosted, I texted him 7 days after he said he’s going through family stuff. I started No contact again on day 6 now !
What are the chances of him texting me?
What should I do when he reaches out?

hello last week my bf found out that I have another phone and he broke my phone ,he got mad ,I called the police and he got charged the day after Abe came to my place and he chilled with me but after that time he stopped meeting me completely I tried to call him so many times he only answer once every 15 times I call and he tells me he needs time and he wants to work on him self what should I do I did miss him so much it’s been already 8 days

People exes dont come back.... If they do it's for security, stability, comfortability, dried up options, and loneliness..... Its not because they love you as a person. Its for what you can provide for them

Life can also help people realize that although they mean much to another, that doesn't meant that they have to stay with them - if they are not engaged or married to them. :) In the end, I realized I didn't have to keep him and I moved on. I'm glad I learned that wisdom after I had dumped an old ex, who we both had chemistry and compatibility and he had gone no contact trying to woo me back. It didn't work. Eleven years later, I met another man and he has become not only my closest human friend, next to God, and now he's become my husband and the father of our children. So you are wrong - there is a fourth type of breakup. In the case with my ex - I never lost interest in him. My interest in him remained high as he did for me. In the end, I realized, I had options and I was not going to have him as my husband for life. I kept my word. I never will go back. My husband is my love. ^_^

Does this apply to a girl you like also ?

Hi, it has been 3 weeks since the breakup.
We had contact every 2 days, regarding her stuff she had in my house. Now we dont have anything to tañk about and she reached to me 2 days ago, asking a dumb question. I was polite, but i dont know what will happen

4th category: Its ez to nc & get him back, but he is sleeping with his bm, which is disrespectful to me & will not be tolerated.

Had 3 serious relationships, i begged for the 2 to comeback and completely moved on on the 3rd. The 3rd wants me back maybe because i did no contact without knowing

Please don't listen to all of the videos of your ex coming back that's all fake and giving people false hope.

They don't comeback and they don't care they just move on no matter how loving and caring and you are they will discard you like trash and move one within 6 months and forget all about you.

Do yourself a favor just stop and work on you and make money and get someone better or just be the best person you can be and move on.

I feel i am one of those 3

i knew my ex was never coming back the moment he broke up with me. he told me all his hopes and goals for his life. i said yes. they were good life goals and we both have the financial means to meet them and more. and then he left me exactly because i agreed to what he said he wanted. its been 8 months and he still hates me.

It depends on how the person that left did it, and how much of a double cross it was. Just like leaving a job, or betrayal of another person in any form. I personally don't believe in shutting someone out, but that's just me. Even though I long for her, and what we had, she made sure to ruin it forever- if she did comeback - I couldn't bare to see or hear her- there's just too much hurt, of how a person you were so close to you can drop you like garbage for a better gig. Once trust is gone it's gone-

You made a great point. I never wanted none of my ex 's back.

☹️ Now I'm sad. I didn't realize the percentage was so low. I feel like I've been waiting, trying so hard and watching all these videos for nothing. I'm mind blown, shocked and sad.

I’ve never gotten back with an ex but I’ve had ex gfs reach out years later after they broke things off with me they’re always trying chat and go out but by then I’m no longer interested .

She ended things mid normal texting.out of nowhere, she didn’t let me talk or contribute. She just said I didn’t know how to be happy, and that since I might end up elsewhere (I talked about Transferring for work never talked about doing it and told her I was staying for her) I went from a secure, confident person. That helped her through 3 job changes and her getting back on her feet, and growing. I allowed space and time, she truly became the best version of her. I took a job promotion and I did well however, I became way to stressed, anxious, burnt out and negative.
She tried to tell me to get the help as work took the best outta me and the relationship suffered.
I called her from a blocked number 20 days after the relationship to apologize. She acted as someone I did not know, and was ruthless.
I wanted to let her know I was working through things with therapy and my doctors and that I took a stress leave. She was uninterested and said it shouldn’t have taking losing her to do that. We were together over a year. We talked and texted daily we did so many things such as hiking and having great times. I just became so burnt out I didn’t or couldn’t enjoy things or also became slightly co dependent.
It’s been 2 months now I am depressed and have lost weight and myself while she is on dating sites.
I wish we could talk this out as our relationship was the best I had ever been in and I just slipped due to stress and anxiety and I changed for the worst.
But dumped 5 days before Christmas out of the blue, here’s your stuff ….. did I mess this up or how do I show her I’m trying and not leaving this city ? I was a great bf then mental health got to me I still showed up but I was a shell and numbed out

What's the point then?

less than 10%? oh man..

Getting a new girl is much easier than getting your ex back.

Its been 3 years he left me and we are in a no contact situation after three years i added him on insta and he expresses his feelings for me he says he loves me i told him dont say this to me if you are not meant to it but he says he really loves he really do but after meeting when we meet after that he never contact me he starts ignoring me...mm

I believe I’m in a fake brake up…he’s contacted me in less then 2 weeks. I have an an anxious attachment style I believe and I do believe I’m making mistakes.

NEVER WORKS ON WOMEN ...THEY R ALREADY WITH SOMEONE ELSE ..BEFORE THEY LEAVE ..FACT..!!!!!

I think I messed up really bad… I begged my ex…. Then reached out 2 days later after being blocked for no reason…. I broke it 4 days after that and he changed his phone number 😞 smh I blew it💔 it’s been 2 weeks… I hadn’t heard from him.

I don't want my ex back! I'm doing great today! There are too many fishes in the sea so I don't want my ex back! actually I had a relationship after her.. now we broke up again and still I don't want her! Looking forward for another relationship

Was dating someone for about 5 months - summer came and she pulled away -- she started messaging less and less and shorter and shorter.. some days she'd shelve me - the summer came and went - wasn't until recently when I decided you know what? She's not putting in any effort and my attempts at meeting up were avoided - why respond to non sense how are yous when i know it would just end up in nothing. Currently she last asked how my week was... I didn't respond - it's been 5 days. I don't know what to do anymore.

I sent a few really angry voice messages right after the breakup and I called him to apologize.
He listened to me and then said he could not give me what I wanted right now and seemed to want to keep in touch.
I went NC and it's been a week.
I'm afraid my anger sealed my fate.
Did it?

I went into no contact my ex reached out a week later to wish me a nice weekend but at the same time he had already started dating someone else. So no contact backfired in a sense, but he had already decided to move on prior to that anyway

😂😂😂that dude …

In the 3rd month of our breakup I ran into him. We decided to talk because he did not give me closure and I had tons of questions. He said had I not come to his place during breakup, probably he would have calmed down after a while and reached out to me again. In my defence, It had been weeks since I asked him to meet me. He broke over text and I had questions but no answer. He told me that he has moved on and he was very happy after a long time when we were together. He also said that one message which was really special to him was where I confessed to him (it was during the breakup). I was confused. Because I still wanted him back I reached out to him two days later. He blocked me and asked me to move on. I am beginning to wonder if I was being delusional and he said all those things to soften the blow? He unblocked and then blocked me just few days before we met. So, that left me even more confused.

I think I have anxious attachment style even thought I don't necessarily display every signs of it. When I take online tests for attachment styles my results shows I am avoidant. When in relationship I display lot of secure attachment traits. I am throughly confused. I recently got to know about attachment styles. I think my ex is avoidant.

Personally I think when there's true love and a true bond, don't matter the mistakes or whatever, at the end those who truly love each other come back together in a way or another. The ones who got lost weren't meant to be, it's not really a question of tricks

64 days since being left on read here….mistakes admitted and attachment style realized.

Why reapply to a job that fired you? Are no other business you’re qualified for hiring?

Think of it that way, fellow Army Soldiers. Much love!

We'll have to see. I caught here unblocking me on her socials today though. She was thinking about me 😁

Need help my ex told me last month on the 10th in a text because she was angry with me and fed up with the way I was behaving to not ever contact her again that we were done because I was controlling and and almost always wanted to know where she was, because I don’t have a job which I’m working on getting along with learning how to drive and getting a car.

She said she wants someone who will spoil her and treat her like a princess.

We both have disabilities but her mom has guardianship of her and she told a friend of mine that we are not getting back together because her mom doesn’t like me now.

She has gotten on dating apps now and I allowed all my insecurities from my past and all my self doubts to get the best of me and cause me to act, be and talk different.

Can you please help?