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My condolences

17 months, nothing yet and I've tried everything I've done two video calls with you and one with victoria, an email chat, as well as another breakup coach. And that's not even getting into all of the different therapists, acupuncture, literally everything. I've even gotten into two other relationships that were short-term. I still miss her like hell and haven't heard anything

Does this work in LDR? We’ve already broken up, he wants to continue talking and be friends. I said that’s not what I want. I told him if he contacts me and it’s romantic, I’m open to it, but if it’s platonic I don’t want it. Did I ruin my chances??

What if they come back just to hurt you one more time?...They do it on purpose..

How do you do no contact when you live together and also work together in the same office ?

After about 6-7 months you mostly don't want them back but the sadness of them never actually loving you, them not being the person you thought they were, hits you hard.

Craig. This marriage example is exactly what I’m going through right now. Thanks Andy. 11 years. Walked out the door no explanation.

I got ghosted. Gave it 5 weeks and moved on. Soon as I decided I'm moving on, got a couple cool ladies I'm dating and life is way better. Now I text her only funny stuff once a week. Zero mention of us just dumb neutral stuff. If she doesn't like it then. Block me. Please

Coach Margret died?

Going on 4 and a half months now. Not a word

It's not a thing whether or not they come back. My thing is that they most probably will come back vaccinated.

From 5 yrs ago…..?

im confused about the Andy story at the end though - like there was no mention in the story about a divorce during those 8 months apart

So if she started dating an old ex even though they “broke up” (which is not how i thought marriage works) then is that not a breaking of the marriage and technically cheating?

Since when do you get to take a break in a marriage and start sleeping with a past partner?

As a young Modern Men that has never been married and observing the landscape today, this makes me very apprehensive to jump into a marriage one day if i have to one day deal with my spouse “breaking up with me” while still married to me. Sounds super backwards

I didn’t think we’d get back together months ago and now I know we won’t. I’ve been in no contact for a year. She reached out a couple times with breadcrumbs and i didn’t take the bait. Now it’s been 8 months since she reached out. I have not reached out. Worked on myself and she still isn’t back. I gave up. Now I just watch these videos to find a reason to have hope and it’s not working.

I feel like this because it's been a year we are apart and he still hasn't gotten back together with me, unfortunately I cheated on him with some of his friends and I regret it, I didn't realize I love him until he kicked me to the curve in 2023, i feel so mad at times he hasnt come back, i tell people he is an asso that likes to drop women

Sometimes, the dumper is the problem and they are in fact the ones that need personal growth. I went to therapy expecting to have a lot of work to do and came to the realisation that i was being gaslit by my ex.
Sometimes personal growth is realising that you can do better and moving along regardless of breadcrumbs from the ex.

After 3 months it’s a hard no from me dawg

We love you.

Be honest… did they ever really come back. And do you really believe they will be back.

I left my girlfriend of 15 years alone and she killed herself. No lie.

I’m going to stay broken up and move on. My ex narcissist female wanted some space .I’m giving her the rest of her life.

True b😢ut the only way my x came back I tried all the steps of coaches on tube yes it works .
But what really worked to bring her back was prayer talk to Jesus!
No bull!
But unfortunately I messed up I went back to my old ways.

I agree break up I never felt pain like this and I’m 55 horrible I’m a mixture of avoidant and anxious is that possible I matched my avoidant at the end I was a bit of anxious as he was doing stuff I didn’t like like white lie about stuff with his son

Men come back. Woman don't go back..

Sorry for your loss

She said I don't even want to see your face

I'm sorry for your losses

Everyone says do the work do the work what does that mean

Don't want him

I’m sorry to hear about your parents Craig. You are so strong and helping others is absolutely amazing

its been three months, when they broke up with me, and i made the breakup worse, i argued, reached out to her parenst and stalk on their socials. yeah one month in no contact she unblocked me on insta then tiktok, and now messages, i havent heard from her are have they followed me on socials since. Although i apologized the last time we talked, but she seems fine on socia media. I did get over her the fist two months but recently all that had came back, idk why craig i need help...

I’ve really done the work. My relationship has been 12 years long last year he rejected me I have stopped doing all activities no family outings I only respond regarding the kids I am finally at a point I can let go. I don’t want to be breadcrumbed anymore. I paid my home off then I am up for a promotion at work. I plan on getting all this Botox in the next few months. I got complemented on my hair color 3 times today. I was totally ok with moving on this time and then he calls and every day for the last two weeks he uses the kids as an excuse to call me I fell for it once and went over he literally had me over to use a glue stick for our daughters project she’s 10 she didn’t need my help. Then he made coffee and I was like I got to go and I left. As far as I’m concerned im only there for my daughter

Hi Craig, I'm sorry to hear about your folks. I lost my mum 2 years ago due to pneumonia and my dad 7 years ago heart attack. My fiance broke up with me in November... we were gonna get married next year. We had a wonderful relationship... I always made her laugh but I guess i wasn't enough.

I'm going through the high anxiety right now😢 she's falling for the rebound and we blocked each, only opening is our one mutual friend 😢

My father died from covid also coach craig. Hope your ok.
Day 65 NC after 8 years. Even though im doing the work books and seeing a local therapist it feels so hard.
Ive just got to trust the process but not speaking to her over the holidays and christmas has been agony. It feels like ive lost part of me and my hearts been ripped out.

After 3 years of working on myself I can honestly say, I don't want my ex back!

I've watched many videos over the last few years..

..The tale about your exes daughter, and the loses you talk about here really made my heart ache to know that you went through these things.

Thanks for sharing, it only makes what you say more relatable

Always appreciate your content!

Hope everyone has a happy Xmas despite the heartache.

I've just been burned for the second time by the same person. She says never to talk to her again
She had pretty messed up things going on and couldn't give me a reason for breaking it off.

She was warm and loving one minute, then out of NOWHERE went dead cold and angry, then threatened to call the police even though I was in the middle of packing to leave. I'm not sure why she got like this. There wasn't any indication she was upset before, I think she may have just done it so she could see someone else as everything else seemed great beforehand!

The last thing she Messaged before blocking me was that "there was nothing to talk about further, it was over and she needs to move on." And that "there was no reason to contact her ever again".

Left me confused, angry, upset, abandoned and frustrated.

She also minimised our time together claiming that we only knew each other for half the time we actually had. I almost feel gaslit.

I had only just spent the day with her mom for the whole day. She basically gave me the full "what are your intentions" test throughout the day, but seemed impressed and wanted her daughter and myself to be happy.

It was like the person I knew had been murdered by this new "her" and she had taken her place.

I hope this never happens to anyone else, as it was so abrupt. If there were issues I knew about then I would have worked on them as best I could because we had the deepest connection I've ever felt.

RiP my ex. Your soul and heart will be missed

I hear you in 1992 I lost my fiance ( highschool sweethearts since the age of 14 ) and our daughter in a car accident that I survived and I thought that was a pain I would never experience again ( my first love and first born ) until now the pain I am feeling since my wife of 18years left is 100x worse, Nancy and Kirsten didn't choose to leave me they were taken, but left this earth loving me, my wife is different she chose to leave

I'm 5 days into NC. I had to stop talking to him because he didn't value me. I did everything I could to make him happy... He always thought that I would never leave and I did. I'm only one week in... so we will see.

I did everything wrong !!! Please pray for me ❤

Wow I didn't know coach Margaret passed away, she is wonderful! I'm also so sorry for the loss of your parents, I am sure they are AMAZING considering how great you are!!! You're in my prayers coach, you're truly amazing, God bless 🙏🙏🙏

I totally agree. This is by far the worst thing I’ve ever had to deal with. Time makes it a little easier but I’ve lost 22 pounds in a month and a half. I’m not sure if I can even fathom her coming back to me. How do you trust them again? That’s the hardest part especially after the beyond mean things she’s said. I still don’t even know why? That’s the other part that kills me. Just trying to better myself.

My wife has just filled for divorce. l don't know how to handle it is it to late.

Stay away from them and grow your power stronger and move on with your life

The way to do it.stay no contact with them

What if your ex returns you your stuff does it mean there are no chances of reconciliation?

12 year relationship down the toilet