If You Think You Have No Chance To Get Your Ex Back, Watch This!

I will never have a chance with him and if he comes back I will come and give an update.

Watching this kinda confuses me due to my relationship being super short like 2 months but it was super duper fast, She was saying i was the best guy she ever dated she loved me an how i would be a fantastic husband in the future etc, I know all this may not be true but she did say it. One day she was talking about taking a trip for Xmas then next day literally came to my house burst into tears saying i needed to do this in person im no 100% in on this an i think we rushed im confused etc. I that night did message her just saying i was confused an was worried she was self sabotaging because things started to get more real and i think she was making the wrong choice but its her choice an i wished her the best. We never argued we never fought the ending was out of nowhere for me i never saw it coming i didn't react emotionally when she broke up i just said okay i see i respect your choice i dont understand you have said all this stuff did you mean any of it etc then she left. The fact its only 2 months scares me that she will never come back to me, I think she maybe going back to her ex she was living with for like 3 years if thats what makes her happy thats okay, I just feel how short of a time it was i have 0 hope of her coming back an that makes me sad. We had memories an so many good times literally id say no bad ones. Ive been in NC since the day she left focusing on me etc but if i was a rebound is there any chance she comes back i cant stop thinking about her why does this hurt more then some relationships ive been in for years that ended im so confused, Anyone been in a similar situation?

Is not about if I have a chance, she doesn't have with me anymore!

Whats helped me is anytime i wanted to text them. I put that text on a note instead and it feels good just to type it out.

To anyone going through the guilt and shame of knowing you could have done better to be the best version of yourself just know life is a journey and not a destination. A partner should complement your life not be your life. If you put in the work to better yourself you will attract new love. Don’t obsess on the idea that “if only you could woulda shoulda”. The reality is it wasn’t that time for you and your life. Own your issues and better yourself and you WILL prevail. True love is not easily replaced. If it was meant to be it will come back and if not you will find the person that’s right for you. The worst emotion is hopeless and I feel it stems from making your self worth be based on someone wanting you. Invest in yourself and build up your worth for you and you will see it radiates and humans are wise to seeing things of value. You can do this. I myself am going thru it. I have been here before. Having been thru this before I can tell you every relationship has come after I worked on myself and every relationship has been a better fit than the one prior. It does get better. Trust me!

That’s such an interesting point about people with dementia… my dad has it and is in a memory care unit with other people who are much more far gone. The primary thing any of them talk about is their husband/wife and children. I love that you brought this up, Victoria. ❤

I know the things that were wrong in myself that I need to fix. I have so much work to do.

Is that cutie still around

A rich man can marry a million women, but the poor man can marry no woman.

"most of you will hear back from your ex." yay.

we had a wonderful relationship. we were trying to be mindful in many aspects of our life including our relationship. we had goals for the future together. we treated each other with so much respect and talked to gently to one another. it was the best thing I've ever had with somebody. we checked all of these marks you mentioned except for the mental health one. she had a lot going on in her life. and tbh I had things I needed to work on from my past ( I had been going to therapy before we started dating) but for some reason things got so tough between us. she cheated on me and then we rekindled. went to couples counseling and truthfully tried to mend things and it was great for a while up until the moment where I was going back home to visit her (we were doing long distance for a few months) and she abruptly broke up with me. i did all the things i shouldnt do during and after the break up and she blocked me everywhere... but then I did no contact and she unblocked me and reached out asking me about things she could easily google. or if I had used her card. then she shows up to my gym (she got a subscription there knowing I go there) then I ruined it by asking her questions and trying to get clarity over what happened (because i was so confused and felt out of control) so she blocks me again. then months later she unblocks me on Instagram (but I had her blocked because I didn't want her to see what was going on in my life) and keeps it unblocked for a few weeks, then blocks me again. have I lost my chances? our relationship mattered so much to me and i thought it did to her too but i can't understand or know anymore. its been months and i don't see any progress from her side:(

My ex is a narcisstic drunker

He returned - we stopped contact because he didn’t want a title - he returned only to push his fwb position again

Can you discuss when situationships end just because they didn’t want a title

Dynamic duo... ❤❤❤

I am so incredibly sad and hopeless 😔 Saw my ex the day before yesterday and yesterday at a party. The day before yesterday it was ok, we talked and I was confident. Yesterday was a disaster: I was anxious and hoped that he would come back to talk to me - he didn't. Then when I saw him talking to a woman, it was too much and I left. Since then I just cry 😔 I had hoped that he would feel more again when he sees me again, too. Now I think I've destroyed all chances by being not my best self and it's breaking my heart again 😔

How does it work when both partners are watching this and both are practicing no-contact and moving on? Seems like DIW-Dead in the Water. Others preach disarming the anger then go into contact, which seems logical and emotionally-sound - at a minimum.

Thanks Craig and Victoria for sharing your knowledge. Hello from Ireland ☘️😊 I subscribed to Craig's channel about 4 years ago after a 6 month relationship ended. Looking back, I'm blessed it didn't work out. I was infatuated and not in love. Now I'm back again after my 3 year relationship ended. I'm hoping this time I have a success story as he is my best friend and soul mate. Unfortunately he has psychosis which has caused him to break up with me. I'm giving him space and time ( all while feeling like I am going to die from pain and anxiety 😢). Wish me luck .

Mine is in a new relationship. We were together for 5 years.

I sure hope you are correct. This waiting is PAINFUL😢

My ex move on now so they no hope

Damn how long is this NC thing supposed to work?? Been almost a whole month and nothing :( we share the same best friend. She hangs out with both of us separately... Should I cut our best friend off for NC to have greater effect? Ugh so tough

I love your videos but what should I do I feel like the no contact rule is being used on me by my ex he has not be talking to me and I also have not been talking to him what should I do.

Hi there, she accepted to be friends again yesterday,what way shall I follow?text her to go out for a coffee or offer something else or wait her to text me first offer things to do?I'm confused when and how to act can I have some tips please thanks?

I broke no contact after 2 months and texted my ex “thank you for dropping off my (item). Hope you are doing well.” No response. I regret it. Did I ruin things?

There is no talk about a farewell letter, to pull the dumpee away from the dumper to make them miss them.

That was us we talked marriage family building we were together year and a half happy traveling then he became depressed from his immediate family and loss of grandparents and his parents became sick and then he’s an avoidant attachment style and he took it out on our relationship. So he suddenly broke it off he told me to let go he will always run he’s okay with us never seeing each other ever again it hurts like hell but I’m giving him exactly what he wants

Unless they’re a dismissive avoidant. Sorry. They almost never come back.

Do we need to have up social media ??

Need a coach for my ex also he said he’s willing and I am willing as well ..

Where is me margarete

These videos most definitely help me get through my breakup

No contact only works when you've both invested a significant amount of time/emotion betwixt the two of you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and so too does showing the initiative to better your station and enhance your life. This person will have erred...make it so. Don't pine, wallow, or deign for their approval. Vie for yourself...demonstrate that you can live with and without them. They come and go. Fk em...let them walk away and make a mistake they will ultimately regret. It's good to see you feel heartache however. It means you are capable of loving another...and you learn most through these collective failures. Personally, it is one of a myriad of reasons why I, as a man, will never marry because nothing lasts...and in my experience...they don't seem to like having all of my attention. 😅🤣

I’m curious cause I don’t eee many videos about this. We were in long distance and I was unfaithful, after finding out we still talked daily until recently someone from my past messaged my GF. We completely broke up. That next week was her birthday and I ended up staying two nights with her, then took her to the airport and picked her up the following week and then we had a Valentine date the following week. Since then it has got from “if we get to a point of I rekindle” to “I’m trying to move on and I hope you do too. We haven’t talked in a week now, trying to finally give her space with no contact.

So do these videos work or help for a situation like mine or is it just hopeless? I love her more than anything and I am working to be better in hopes we can heal as individuals and hopefully come together and work towards a strong relationship.

My 2-year relationship with my ex ended abruptly. begged and pleaded for a couple of weeks, but it did not work, so I went full no-contact for two months. we reconciled and things were great for a few weeks. she turned out to be a liar and manipulator which fed into a lot of my insecurities wondering if she lied or cheated during our relationship. we had a couple of cycles since then but it just never worked out. sometimes a relationship ends for a reason. move on and become a better version of yourself. if its meant to be, it'll happen. coach craig kenneth videos helped me through nc and i'm hopeful about the future!

What about if they still are still contacting me but being cruel and if I try not to say anything they start saying I'm doing something wrong

She blocked me on everything, i was hurt, and i over persued. Might have said something negative once. Im dieing inside. i want the love of my life back. But she looks so happy now its been 2 months since the break up, and im just now forced to do no contact as I'm blocked. Im in so much pain😭

I'm focusing on my income, volunteering at the animal shelter, fostering animals, getting my CDL to drive trucks, controlling my anxiety, and working through past trauma so I don't repeat the same emotionally unavailable mistakes again if my ex comes back, or if I find someone else. I want to create a life I am happy with, and that another person thinks "I want to be part of this guys life"

Craig, I was with a single mom and she left me for baby dad. I couldnt stop thinking of her and eventually we met again a year and a half later. When we met I was guarded and had convinced myself i couldnt be a stepdad. Well we are in long distance, and she started talking and banged another guy within a few weeks of me being there. It really messed up my mind, and even though i feel like I should write her off for doing that, I havent been able to. Im afraid she will get pregnant with him and ive been panicking. I dont know what im supposed to do, I still love her and ive been doing no contact for 3 weeks but our last message was on a bad note with me expressing my distaste for her actions and her saying she wasnt going to contact me again. Well first of all she saw i moved to the town where my ex was and she was obviously jealous, then I asked why she messaged me and she said it was to tell me she wasnt going to message me again. Then I said she didnt even need to tell me that cause doing another guy was all the evidence I needed. She then said shes going with what flows these days, doesnt owe me any explanations and that she wasnt going to block me but I can say what I need to say to her. I did not respond to that message and it's been 3 weeks since. What can I do man, do I tell her to talk to me when she changes her mind? I havent been posting anything on facebook in reference to her either. All i can do is lay around and eat, I dont want to go outside, not only is she dead to me but shes sleeping with another guy and its destroying me. Please help

Hello 👋🏼

I had a Skype call with Craig this morning. He really helped me see things more clearly. He said some things to me that were tough to hear in the moment but I feel so much better and more confident now that I’ve spoken with him.

Genuinely wondering, does watching their stories on Instagram consider as breaking NC? (Not liking or reacting, just watching)

Could you do a video about a dumper who has depression and broke up with you because of that?

I was engaged to a Narcissist for 5 years, and I finally left him 12 years ago. NEVER TAKE BACK A NARCISSIST, unless you want to be in a movie. ONE FLEW OVER THE CUCKOO'S NEST...

How long are you saying to go no contact? I have been no contact for 8 months this time. Other times 3 months. He would text wanting sex & I said no. Then he went silent again. I will only consider taking him back if he comes correct.

I really miss Margaret. Craig and Victoria are great too, but I really miss her presence as an older woman, since I am a younger woman myself. Her tone always seemed so sage and calm and comforting.

I still go back to some of her videos to help ease my anxiety when I can’t sleep. I remember in one she says, “honey, you are not that unloveable” in reference to the fear that our exs would just forget about us. It made me burst into tears to hear that. I really thought I was that unloveable until she said it. I also really miss when she’d bring in an article to read.

my ex is engaged now, no chance lol. oh well, not like it matters anymore!

I say that chances are 50/50 at the end of the day no matter what!! It's a coin flip!!! There is no guarantee no matter what!!! Providing you stay in no contact!!!! Time heals!!! Go on with your life!!! Cross that bridge if and when you get there!!!

If I go no contact with ya'll are you gonna buy me dinner?

My ex is married now. My chances are completely gone. Sad part is , I love her