5 Things Secure People Just Don't Do

Stand aside not wanting to upset people … soooo grateful ❤❤❤❤

Holy cow I'm not perfect and I'm ok with not being perfect..❤❤❤

Oh i am so ready to believe it and feel it from the inside out!!

Get it Julia!

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I am ready to feel more secure

I’m late to the game but… I’m so ready!

I am not perfect
I am a hetro male and I often feel that so many people

Both depends on the situation 😅

I want to be more secure within my self. I don't want to control everything I have set boundaries and have said to women ( I am a hetro male supprise supprise !) that derogatory their behaviour is
I don't think I am awsome.Just sick ok being emotionally kicked in the guts

I am not perfect.

Thank you sooo much for these confirmations😇😇😇-Xclusyph Icon

from the movie : The Devil Wears Prada - Miranda Priestly - ultra control freak!

I talk about myself a lot so that I do not give others the chance to delve into ,y life in areas that I do not want to expose. By tAlking about myself, I get to control the subjects that are discussed.

Get to the point already

I'm neither of one of these styles and a little bit of all of them. So what style am I?

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Good morning! This is great thank you so much! It’s a good self quiz to see how much more secure I have become in my adulthood!

Holy cow 🐄!! I’m not perfect and that’s just perfect 👍

As an extrovert, it takes mindfulness as well. Thanks

I do like to be prepared and try to control the situation. But im introverted and dont like to get into conflict so i pass things off. Basically i sometimes feel like a doormat

I dont think i talk about myself to overcompensate for my flaws. If anything i know i have my own flaws and dont want to come and bite back at me.

The part about judgment really resonated with me. "Judgment is the first thing i see in you because its the last thing i want to be seen in me" i think i tend to subconsciously judge others because it made me feel good to point out theur flaws instead of noticing my own shortcoming

I like "perfectly imperfect."

I disagree, with the first point… If you have PTSD or autism or Asperger’s, or some kind of trauma, and you’re still a secure attachment style, you can still need to know about the lighting or who’s gonna be there, etc. to gauge any threats or comfort

I know a guy at my work place, his name is David. He is the kind of guy who is so secure of himself, yet so humble , honest , intelligent, gentle & considerate.

I'm ready to be secure. It's time.

I'm not perfect and that's perfect!!

Thank you for this great video❤

I am attracted to a very secure guy. He is so secure of himself. He is intelligent but humble/down-to earth, decent, considerate, disciplined, self-controlled , professional at work, hardworking and respectful. I know that deep inside he
Is a good man. But he is 42 & I am 62. He is someone I care to love, respect & share my life with. I know that I will be safely loved by him.

im ready! im so ready.

I am so ready to act and feel and be secure yessss❤

I am not perfect and it’s just perfect ❤

Some things you DO need to control and guard, like your Boundaries. Controlling your own impulses is a good thing as well. It's called Self-Discipline. The word I prefer using in relation to insecure people is COERCION which can be overt and covert.

Secure people often had a secure start in life via supportive family. If you are insecure, it isn't your fault if you came from a family where emotional & or physical violence was the everyday reality.

Finally,,,I'm so gladly to relate or shall I say happy to know that I can relate with the mindset that you're sharing,,you feel like home,,,luv ya girl, thank you for being you

I'm ready to become more secure and to self-sabotage less!!!

I agree with all the points. Very well pointed ! Love the pointings !

Ready

One more, able to ask for things.
I appreciate being trusted enough to always have work. But asking to be paid for it, has always been difficult for me.
How about, loving someone who will love you back?

I am soooo ready ! ❤

Secure people don't make comments.

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I'm ready

I m ready

Show up! Share! Shine! Love that!

My goodness this is helping me so much thank you thank you thank you I'm going to take some time to reflect it is time to end some cycles baby❤
Edit: my confession is that I control too much I noticed it not so long ago by talking to my partner and asking him ,but didn't no how to replace it with something healthy I tried so hard to just let go and research about my attachment style. Wow another edit: and it comes "I never seem to talk about my success and be proud of myself" come to think about it I always played small to let others shine because I didn't think I deserve to....well I think I can go on about my confessions and my unhealthy behaviors I got some inner work to do 😅

Which one gave you an a-ha or a big shift?