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Emotions are extremely powerful - influencing our judgement and actions. Especially in anger we tend to make quick and rash decisions, that may end up hurting us in the long-run. As Tim Ferriss says "Write that email tomorrow, when you've cooled off. I've written too many angry mails to people working for me, which ended up causing nothing but trouble." (Paraphrasing)
It is hard to separate yourself from what you're feeling, remind yourself that it is only momentarily, you will calm down - it is a skill after all. However, "stirring up water to catch fish" is using that very hardship on your enemies. Most people can't control themselves once they're pissed off. When they break out into a hateful tirade, like Napoleon did on several occasions. A Talleyrand will take advantage of your lack of control, masterfully being the very source of your anger.
Thanks again for another awesome video. I find myself going through a few of the older ones weekly to keep the strategies at the top of mind> It's amazing how relevant these laws are today even in a connected world. Continue your excellence!
ОтветитьFor me this is the more important than other laws, I have mastered this training to talk to people who is overtly power hungry, and if you can be calm while others overact you can get a step ahead, as Robert said. Thanks again.
Ответить+illacertus . Great videos, it must of taken alot from you to put these videos together. Is there a time that we should be expecting the videos of the remaing 9 laws?
ОтветитьGreat video. I hope you will do the other books of green :)
ОтветитьI don't know why you do all this but I hope you know that a lot of people are so thankful for you investing a part of your day by doing this. But they don't have an account.
ОтветитьHi illacertus, I love your videos, thank you taking the time to make them. I find the content is really entertaining and beneficial. I know you must be busy but if you have the time would you mind letting me know what software or web site you use to make the videos, as I work in the field of Cardiology and want to make some video's for my students. Thank you
ОтветитьYour videos have changed my life and now I see my world with different point of view. I watched all your videos at least 3 to 5 times. When can I expect the next one? Happy Holidays and All the Best Wishes for New Year! I don't know your version of success and it will be yours.
PS; I prefer use the word 'and' instead of 'but'.
Great one..!!!
ОтветитьReally great stuff. I can't seem to find part 2 .. ?
ОтветитьFantastic series, but where is part 2 of chapter 39 - emotional reaction?
ОтветитьTo kill a narcissist...
ОтветитьIllacertus can't see the part 2 emotional reaction video?
ОтветитьYou, or Bob Greene, forgot one thing: there are Berserkers who are better than ever if you outrage them. Identify them, Prince, before they anger and do not give them the gift they seek.
ОтветитьForgot to add the reversal
ОтветитьGreat stuff thx
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