4 Signs Someone Is Manipulating You..

Haven’t heard from the lawyer or Joe about this 😂😂😂

He is a narcissist .

It looks like everything he says screams I'm a piece of shit liar

I'm scared of the shape of your mouth. It's like the Cheshire Cat's in Alice in Wonderland.

I just found the podcast really boring.

I stopped watching Nilkitutorials because something was off. I kept thinking to myself this looks like a dude. I stopped watching because I felt like I was judging. Find out it was A DUDE!

He sounds like Juelz Santana

I have always wondered why people use the word “you” in describing a personal story. I finally understand!!

I speclise in complex trauma and severe, trauma-related mental health issues, including ‘personality disorders’.

(By the way, he was imprisoned for attempted murder, etc., not a ‘minor assault charge’. 🖤)

There were so many red flags in this interview:

•Clearly disingenuous, as can be observed throughout with both speech and non-verbal communication 🚩

•Demonstrated strong traits of narcissism 🚩

• No empathy evidenced 🚩

•Total disregard for impact on victims 🚩

•Blabbered repetitive spiel undoubtedly learnt in prison (saying we want to hear / the ‘right’ thing) 🚩

Shallow affect 🚩

• Still appeared angry towards his victims, despite 25 years passing 🚩

• Actively engaged in victim-blaming 🚩

• Condoned his crimes 🚩

• Implied victims deserved the violence/ trauma 🚩

• Separated himself from the attempted murder via use of linguistic barricades 🚩

• Minimised this attempted murder, false imprisonment, battery and robbery he committed 🚩

After being released from prison the very first time, he went straight back out to commit this attempted murder he is speaking of.
(Pattern of reoffending) 🚩

With the lack of effective rehabilitation in American prisons and all the glaring red flags, I’m not surprised whatsoever that he immediately reoffended with even greater aggression, resentment and sadistic tendencies.

People can change, but they only do within the right environment and with the necessary tools and influencing factors.

US prisons need EXTREME reform.

wow i never realised the importance of referring to someone through pronouns or nouns in this type of context

Yea when I watched him after the news I was like yea this guys a manipulator

Flint Dibble, you're next.

The you and I switch stuck out to me

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Emceeing = ?

I love your content man ❤

Everybody pay attention. This video and the person in it are giving us an A+ prime choice example of a logical fallacy called “confirmation bias”.

This dude tells us how in listening to Sheldon Johnson’s podcast he detected deception, on an unconscious level, which was so disturbing to him that he just had to shut the podcast off immediately. And lo and behold!- a month later, it turns out he was completely right. Vindication! His reputation is made in triumph! Right?…

First of all I’ll point out that other than his word we have no way of knowing WHAT this guy was thinking while he watched Johnson on Rogans show. Indeed, we can’t even be certain he watched that episode at all. But let’s for a moment give him the benefit of the doubt- he did indeed watch the show and he did have this “premonition” of recidivism. Question- how many times has he had this feeling about other people? How many other people have given him this “vibe” and it turned out that there was absolutely nothing nefarious at all going on. That his prejudgment was just that- premature and unfounded. But of course, on those occasions by definition there is no story to tell. So there is nothing to report and so we don’t hear about it. And so it’s very possible that with all of these potential false positives his actual success rate in detecting deception is 20%. Or lower. WORSE than random chance.

This is the classic conundrum of confirmation bias- you only notice when you’re right, and you forget every time you got it wrong.

I will tell you this- in scientific peer reviewed studies it has been repeatedly proven that police officers, FBI agents, prisoner of war interrogators, etc. (people who think they are exceptional at distinguishing the truth from lies) are no better than 50% accurate at detecting deception. That’s no better than flipping a coin.

Next time, if he posts a video like this BEFORE his premonition comes true, THAT would be significantly more impressive. Otherwise it’s impossible to discount confirmation bias.

Something to ponder…..

Just because that guy got convicted doesn’t mean everything he’s saying is right. If you think you can tell whether someone’s telling the truth by the way the talk or carry themselves then you’ve already lost the plot. Listen to your gut but don’t let that confirm anything 100%. Don’t let emotion cloud your judgement. Be aware something doesn’t add up but don’t assume anything you don’t know.

Rogan has gotten so incredibly bad at evaluating people these days.

Charlie literally everyone knew and accepted that there was abuse going on in Hollywood, only a total moron would pave not realized that even before the “MeToo” movement

the most difficult part to get past the manipulation is josh dubin believing in him, if you trust josh dubin like rogan does, you might think "if josh belives in him, i'll give him the benefit of the doubt".

this is my first time watching your video on this but i feel like you're going to mention someone using language that removes their role in actions,
this guy on rogans interview was using all kinds of phrases like "she got caught up in it" and crap like that whenever something he was responsible for happened

Thank you for the part about turning our judgment on ourselves. I always think I’m in the wrong. Way too many times have I given people the “benefit of the doubt” and my instincts ended up being right

I admire you for being able to go back and continue watching this for a teaching moment. When these liars hit my liar cord I can not continue watching them. It makes me for real squirm. Thanks.

Thank you a thousand times and more for this video, subscribing!

It isn't right for me 🕊

Good on you. I didnt see it

Bro has anime villain teeth

What is MC-ing?

What gave me the massive red flag that this guy hadn't change.. is when he described that he was very organized and was very strict on following rules within his gang/operations. He was basically stroking his ego and explaining why he was/is so good at the crime lifestyle. In the same breath he said that it was in the best interest of his gang to let him go. That sealed the deal for me

YOU is a projection
Any life coach or mentor that doesn't say I or WE is a Charlatan

Not at all justifying Johnsons actions, but the man he killed was convicted on the charge of raping his 7 year old daughter on 3 different occasions, because his wife wasn't putting out.

Got 5 years probation for the rape.

He was probably playing punisher/ vigilante and I can't at all judge him or pretend to be morally superior. If I grew up with the mental tools he had, I'd most definitely be playing "agent of karma" and would likely wind up in prison for something similar.

Though I'm not at all a Christian or a follower of the mainstream religions at all (besides drawing wisdom from where I find it in these mainstream texts), this bible quote is my favorite, "Do not take revenge; Leave that for me."

Think of the NBA. Everyone in the world knows how to shoot a basketball, but until you place them in a situation to where their knowledge is put to the test, everything they say should be suspect.

Fantastic analysis. Thank you!

oooo wowww thank you

AAAAMAAAAZINNGG

Josh Dubin? This dude cant read people for sh!t what a DMFKR. Out here tryin to champion for criminals to be on the street

He is not a victim. He is a perpetrator!!!

i like your large mouth

NO CHANGE OF HEART!!! We all need Jesus man, and we NEED TO FOLLOW HIM SO WE ACTUALLY CHANGE!!! Just “finding Jesus” or “finding religion” because it serves you is nothing. You are still a mess and it’s going to hurt you and everyone you care about. We’ve all FOUND someone who “FOUND” Jesus that where the only thing that changed about them is they now think God is there to get them off the hook.

His 14 year old Son murdered someone as well.

You also have to notice when he said i need my money he nod his head saying "no" but he trynna get everybody else to agree with him and say "yes" you have the right to assult someone for your money.. hes waiting for affirmation.. but his body obviously is his biggest tell.. he contricted he words with his body language

i don’t care about you economic status. how you were raised. i don’t care we are all humans who need to control our emotions and emotional outburst. low impulse control is a difficult thing but people need to overcome it otherwise you have no place in our civil society

You attempting to manipulate us into thinking that you knew this guy was deceptive. Yet you dudnt make a video u til after the second events. Nice try.

Why my Mom goated at this

your commentary about the implied meaning of "catch a case" is very insightful and interesting. never realized it but it's true! Shows how our language can often shape our worldview and way of doing things without us knowing.

You manipulated me with the thumbnail

Great video. To be fair though the system was rigged against him lol. Because he ended up murdering someone doesn’t negate the egregious sentence he got.

What does mc-ing mean?