If Men Opened Up About Mental Health | Cut

"Women have it harder"😂😂😂😂

Not to devalue his choice but hating pink, wanting to get dirty and not feeling comfortable in your body does not make you a man.. I think most women feel uncomfortablenin their bodies, I know I do.

Talk doesn’t help me. Former athlete here. Represented my country internationally. Living with chronic nerve pain since I was 14 that ended my career when I was 17. Multiple surgeries, screws in my back, hundreds of injections etc etc has put me in a position where I can’t walk, stand, sit or sleep without pain. Family left and moved abroad cause they were tired of me not getting better. Had my first suicidal thoughts when I was 15 and haven’t spoken to my family for 15 years. My dad died a year ago. Lived with extreme self harm basically cutting up my whole body. A way to inflict pain I understand and that I feel I deserve since I’m such a failure of a man. 35 today and live with addiction and all the above. Sadly it’s my only artificial rest my body and mind can get. It’s been too many years of anguish and my brain, soul or heart can’t take it. It’s all dark and I’ve been through 20 years of this. For me it hasn’t gotten better. Maybe for some it will, but for me it hasn’t. I have given up, something I never used to do. At least I’m a man to admit that.

why are yall putting women in these videos?

I mean we would open up if society wouldnt shame us when we do and our wives would not hold it against us. Women play a role in this

Sometimes i just wonder if im capable of finding true love in life, some ppl would say your only 24 and stop crying about it its stupid, its not... its something i think about very often and then i realize that there is actually nothing about me i would want from myself or i would like myself for, if i was someone else.
I try so often to do the right thing, amd then i just achieve the opposite, if im too clingy i could seem like a creep, if i give to much space, i dont care, if i speak open i just sound negative and depressed...ugh.

Today its just so hard to appeal to others and now i dont kniw what rlse i should write here,all i want is someone normal to give me a chance too

5 likes and ill do it

My father is 70. In an only child… he feels I don’t need him anymore and that he is a burden on me since he was forced into early retirement with no $ to support that. I sold my house and moved with my father to support him. He has COPD and isn’t doing well.He is so suicidal and I don’t know how 3”/3 to show him that I’m here for him regardless of anything. He is my dad, my best friend and my hero. I don’t know what else to do

My father is 70. In an only child… he feels I don’t need him anymore and that he is a burden on me since he was forced into early retirement with no $ to support that. I sold my house and moved with my father to support him. He has COPD and isn’t doing well.He is so suicidal and I don’t know how 3”/3 to show him that I’m here for him regardless of anything. He is my dad, my best friend and my hero. I don’t know what else to do

thanks to all the great fellow brothers speaking out in this video! love to you all 💪

I’m ready to go

This is a really sweet video, but the fucking betterhelp ad imo is extremely out of place. It feels predatory to people who are vulnerable and wanted to experience this video, plus it's betterhelp. I'm not 100% sure if their standards have gotten better, but I still remember how shit of a quality they were a couple of years ago and how many non teraphists were there.

Just wanted to let everyone know I'm finally giving up. I've had enough, not with anyone else, but with myself. I hate my brain. I hate my thoughts. I hate what my thoughts do to other people and for always messing things up. Today's the day I die and I'm finally ok with that.

I try to talk to people but it seems like they don’t really care so I stay to myself and bottle everything up. Sometimes I do wish I was free

Tough times dont last but tough people do <3

Shame on @Cut for having BetterHelp sponsor this video. Manipulative and reprehensible

I have had sucdal thoughts
I'm still having the thoughts

has the video been taken down ??? there is no video ?

You know what amazes me? The fact that every sector on the internet which teaches about depression and its consequences has the most wholesome comment section. I struggled a lot in my life and next year im gonna start a yt channel about my experience and my appeoach on gaining happiness again.

Fucking man up. Whatever you do.

I am a boy. I will admit I'm young. I'm 13 years old and I am blessed in life. It's so hard to stay afloat and I have felt overwhelmed recently for various reasons. I don't want to die or commit, but I wish I was never in this world to start. It just feels wrong. I've always been blessed and I have resources. It feels like other people have it worse than me. It feels wrong because I've always been happy and successful. I haven't said any of this to anyone and it feels like I don't have anyone to talk to. It feels like I'm wearing a mask on my face constantly, and it's so heavy I'm struggling to hold it.

"... no."
"That's good!"
"😆🤷‍♂️"

Learning how to balance self-compassion like prioritizing your needs first over others while also being selfless is the only way to counter unhealthy expectations of masculinity like stoicism.

Remember that acknowledging others & recognizing your own flaws does not make it a weakness.

If most guys practiced the art or skill of proper communication like opening up & expressing their emotions properly it can help provide well-being & build confidence which makes them less likely to struggle in maintaining good relationships with other people.

They/them made suicide a queer thing😑

It is such an reflection of our society....Most people in this Video are Lqbtqia+ and i dont even want to know how many of this people thought/tried to End it , because of the fucked Up people who were around them.

I hope you are all doing Well and If you need it get some help.
That is a sign of Strength not weakness❤

Why do all these guys talk and look like girls

Letting women get a say in men’s mental health is wild

My life just boring, sad and useless, and I don't see meaning, but I don't wonna die, I scare about death. Curious, what be tomorrow.

The part that got me is the guys that said they couldn't take their own life cause of how it would effect their family that might have already gone through a prior suicide. Not that they wanted to live for themselves but that they have to stay and be strong to not hurt their families. If that doesn't tell you how men have to be strong regardless of the struggles in life, idk what will.

Please don't

Back when I was in Police Academy, I was so drained and mentally exhausted. I attempted by jumping off a window; when I hit the ground, it felt nothing at all.

Now I am suspended for 6 months + the regret of pain and the embarrassment I've caused to my family and the academy. So shameful.

Thank guys for opening up. Learning your struggles a bit & how you feel is what’s helping me personally, to better understand what it’s like on the other side.

Now 2 months later. The irony is that this is one of the least watched videos as it's probably just not interesting to the majority

I’m 17 years old, about a year ago I was in a very rough spot in my life where I put a lot of problems at my fault. I almost took my life at the age of 16, glad I didn’t. I have talked to people.

It is actually funny how people set up a suicide prevention line that we are to use when we are close to the inevitable. Funny thing is when near suicide, the decision has already been made.

I felt this guy's cuz one year of my life quite literally everything I had just came crushing down, I didn't get into college, my friends no longer talked to me, my family relationship was nonexistent, I was sexuality assaulted, broke up with my bf, and got fired from my job. All this happened within 3 months and I was so ready to end it, I had my dad's shotgun and wrote so many letters but I just couldn't do it I don't know why but my finger felt so heavy while trying to shoot I just didnt.

That BetterHelp sponsor is a big yikes.

Damn I remember opening up too two of my best friends about depression saying that I wanted to basically wasn’t in the right mental place and…well I didnt get the right feed back from neither one of them and from that day on I knew where we stood on friendship.

Weak men

This is one of the best, if not THE best, video you guys have done (obv from a man's perspective) in years. Thanks to all the men who agreed to be in this video. Obviously all the women that came before (in many other vids) bearing their souls are also massively appreciated. This one just hits home for me. Especially in the new era of the orange asshat... it's important to understand that some guys have feelings.

Just ended my relationship of 5 years, since she wasn't right for me with her own problems to deal with, and to protect her seeing me going down. Lately I'm not myself anymore. The only reason I'm not ending it, is that I don't want to burden my friends and family.

Mental health is the most important health people

I think about it EVERY SINGLE DAY