A Mentalist Guide to Social Interaction | Tom Indigo | TEDxBismarck

Here because of someone who made me realize I need a doctor.

I smoked my social skills out the window so im hoping this will help.

For a lifechaning book on this subject, see:
The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane

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Thank you

Grateful for self.. and this video!!!

Is this meant to advice for work environemnts as well.

You laid it out exactly how I needed. Thank you, man.

Autism brought me here

Autism brought me here

School's starts next week and definitely my lack of social interaction has brought me here.

you are god!

I'm here bc our face to face class is about to start.

Nice

It was a nice talk. Learned something interesting. Thank you so much Tom🙂

Really helping me

I have to meet my crush's friends in two days and I rlly don't want to mess it up... 🙃being introverted sucks sometimes

Everyones on social media which is anything but social so spending hours a day being anti-social then when actual social interaction occurrs you are prohibited

Million dollar content but only 45k views

I have never thought that being vulnerable is showing your genuineness toward a person you are talking to.

If you show you vulnerability and get upset because another person or people took advantage of that, remember it is not you, it is them - sociopaths. So don’t get too angry or upset, notice situation and find gratitude to whatever happened. Because thanks to universe you were given an opportunity to kick toxic people out from your life and learn ❤️👌😌peace

I am not sure what it is but I never knew what to say around people most of the time. I listen to what they are talking about and I never know whay to add that isn't awkward weird. I tried it before I just get a look and a awkward response and things move on again... it is do tiring..

all I do is listen. I have nothing to say back is the problem

Great!
Being an active and patient listener is really important 👍

This video changed my life

I never really learned how to interact properly in elementary school due to a lot of friendship issues and overall bad friendships that negatively affected both me and others. I also happen to have adhd and go on rants a lot and I’m trying to become more self aware, this was very helpful

I packaged it alright!

Good video, belongs on the main channel really.

"it's easier to present our best self on screen"
Me: yeah yeah •-•

Give your life to Jesus Christ. Believe and pray:
God, I know I'm a sinner. I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, died on the cross for my sins and arose again on the 3rd day. I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord and accept Him as my Savior. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

It's about making a choice. Really believe. Speak it aloud and mean it.

Em, you also need to be that good looking to show compliment to a stranger or they would think that you are a weirdo, wouldn’t they?

The guy seems a little off on stage. Wonder if he’s tried taking an acting class.

Nice talk. Thanks a lot.

Great tips. Thank you!

This is basically the 80/20 principle applied to social interaction. These few tips will give you 80% of the results. Good advice

im sure he was using magic to hit on girls in the street. totaly pick up artist thing...nice! B)

Well said!

COVID-19 Brought Me Here.

This is a valuable speech but if I would look around standing on a bus and I would compliment to a stranger, I guess that would be that cringe situation that the stranger and the other passangers would remember for a long time. Once I did something similar, although not complimenting, but it became a painful regret.

isn't it people pleasure mentality?

Great speech. .I can't understand why the viewers number is so less. ..

The MLM recruiters that hang out in Target watched this video

I can do 1 and 2 not 3 though

Ted talks are so boring

1. Be bold
Unlearn your social fears
Notice and compliment people
2. Be a good listener
Be active, dont hijack the convo
Nod 3 three times to stay alert
3. Be passionate
Everyone is unique, try to learn sthg abt them
Be passionate when ure talking

This was great and simple to grasp

This guy was awesome, reminds me of my older brother

Great video!!!