When I was afraid of girls.

I've been afraid of girls since I was 5 years old in kindergarten. I'm 26 now, more scared of them than ever. Still can't even make eye contact, and I feel like I'm bothering them just by being in the same room. I'm not sure why I'm like this, but I always have been.

Guys, I hope u can help me!
I do have a crush on a guy but he doesn't talk to girls at all he is always quiet for some reasons as more over he is an introvert person, even when I tried to give him his papers back of the exam he was so shy and he didn't even know how to talk to me like he was so calm 😢so I don't know like is he afraid or he simply doesn't like me ..... ( we are in the university, so I found his behaviors so weird)

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I'm simp at all women are pretty 😅
I like girl but I'm embarrassing 😖

Well, that was sad, but I think everyone has a teenage romance failure to tell... I have some.

Great Video! I had a similar experience to this and I really connected to your video.

...i am 14 am i huh

Understanding that fear is a common experience can really help others feel less isolated.

Im AFRAID OF ALLAH!!!!!!

Bro you're lucky, I only have few female friends cause when I speak with a girl or my female friends I don't know what to say to them I just say hi and leave 😂,I'm 19 , I never had a girlfriend and I don't know how to flirt with a girl

My first problem:
I have trouble breathing
im scared of them because if theres a girl next to me and i try to gasp for air they might think im sniffing them.

”One man drowns while another man dies of thirst”

XDDD jajajaja story of my life, jokes on you i am still afraid of girls

“theres a girl here”
Mattias responds with: Your logic is flawed and has become undone

I’m gynophobic

Are ya winning son?

I don't care about girls. I don't feel a thing for them

This video helped me, thanks

¨I have spent my whole life scared. Frightened of things that could happen; might happen; might not happen. 50 years I've spent like that. Finding myself awake at 3am. But you know what? Ever since my diagnosis, I sleep just fine. I came to realize it's that fear is the worst of it, that's the real enemy. So, get up, get out in the real world and you kick that bastard as hard as you can, right in the teeth.¨

-Walter white

I feel in the past 5 years since this video droped it only got worse.
More than ever men are afraid to talk to women.
Feels like trying to disarm a bomb.

You gotta feel sorry for that girl,she was little stalkerish but she did everything to make it happen and was empathetic and got her heart broken.

I can relate because a somewhat similar story happened to me recently. Except I'm 43. God help me.

i was on that type of situation rn, CAN SM1 HELP ME I DONT WANNA MESSED UP

I just match their energy and they respect it lol.

If you are not afraid of girls you are not awake

So …… how did she find him????

Bruh dude has Gynophobia 😂😂😂

Ya know everyone is saying she's a stalker, which yeah she did ask a friend of his his information, but she actually was a pretty good friend to him. And she respected his space when he was unsure.

I still can't. I'm 47. Help.

One part of me thinks that she just didn’t know it wasn’t appropriate to go to someone’s place without them being the ones to reveal that information. After all, his friends or whomever she contacted seem to not have given her the memo as they freely shared his locations, and Matthias never confronted her about it either (and even hung out with her, multiple times!) so it’s possible she was very ignorant of social rules and thought, well, no one has said anything yet, so this is fine. Unless there’s more context missing that did include the talk and she just ignored it.

Sounds like someone ate the wrong shrooms.

I remember girls doing this when I was a kid - young adult too.

Gotta miss it! I've not had women really do that as an adult. It's a shame.

A lot of things are said to "supposed to" happen, but they aren't really necessary. This is an old video and from your art related videos I can tell you've gotten a better understanding of actually listening to yourself and doing what is "supposed to" happen. Relationships don't just start when you tell them to, romance is essentially a genre of stories, often conflated with life and how are "supposed to be", and not everyone asks for it. And when things don't work out the way they've been told or seen in stories, you'd think you have a problem but that doesn't mean anything. You were not ready for a relationship is what people would often say or you just simply never asked for it. In cases like these people are confused between what is "supposed to happen and what they would really do, coupled with the fact what the outcome would be and if responding like this is going to be bad, either for yourself or the other party. People can certainly improve eachother but that's not exactly what love is, it's simply just caring, if you flush out all impressions and ideas you've been fed about what love is, you'd know it's simply just preference, no romance, it encompasses all types of love, be it familial, friend, pretty much anyone you care about. And the relationship you talk of here doesn't develop any different from a friendship, where instead of a familial connection to care, it's a stranger who you start to know. None of this really has anything to do with "romantic relationships", it's the caring part, tho this story is different and idk if it even includes this all talk about caring. She really just appeared in your walls uninvited.

I lose all of my confidence when trying to talk to her. I can easily talk with random strangers who are males, however even with familiar females, i get so nervous and panicking. When I have a chance to talk to her, I just want to get more far because i feel nervous. But after all ,i want to talk to her.

The more I watch this the more I realize “oh gods I really was aro/ase”

This was hilarious good video

My reason is just I don't afraid of then I just hate them for some reason.

Im a girl

Matt, haven't you heard yet? We don't want Manic Pixie Girls to save us anymore. We want Rebel Goth Girls to save us! Because guy have matured... 😐

I have been reading some of the other comments, and I just realized how similar I am to other people.

First of all, she sounds kind of stalker-ish. Secondly ignore it the stalker part, I had a very similar experience not physically, but emotionally if that makes sense at all.
Now that I think about it, every girl that has had a crush on me, I ended out making cry because of my ignorance (I don’t think I did anything bad, I just did the wrong thing). But everything is better now, I avoid girls all together.

Get 😂

So you became a douche (and didn't start off good, of course)? Wow, great.

Most guys find girls threatening because they attack and injure boys or they might sneak up on boys quietly without hearing a sound if a boy sees a girl they should run away

And i'm afraid of men, since childhood til nowdays. When you're a woman its hard trusting a male.

What is a girl?