2 Be Better Podcast Episode #06

I need conflict resolution immediately too. My anxiety always makes me think if my boyfriend walks away even if it’s to calm down I think he won’t come back. Even if I know he will.

Oh my freaking god I can’t handle how cute and wholesome you too are! Even when you’re talking about bad things you’re still cute! God it’s so unfair. 😂

Buffalo Wild Wings! Ugh now I want some 😂 I almost always end up with a craving when I watch y’all’s videos.

Had a spontaneous date yesterday. They happen pretty often honestly

Ugh I hate the “you can’t take a joke” thing. My whole family did that to me but their “jokes” were just plain cruel.

Whenever you guys crack jokes I die laughing. You guys are funny and I love your sense of humor. I started watching on Episode 16 I believe and now I’m binging all the episodes from the very beginning. I’m trying to catch up 😅 Just want to say thank you for all that you do and l appreciate y’all!

I also deal with things by crying and it's really hard for my partner. Thank you for saying it's okay to have to cry on your own and that he doesn't have to be there while you're going through it. I really needed to hear that!

I’m immediately going home to ask my partner if he would appreciate me leaving while I cry from reacting to an argument. He has a really hard time with it too, not exactly sure from what reason yet. But I’m trying to get better and I know he has a hard time accepting that I’m not crying because of him hurting me. Thanks for that super simple idea 💡

I don’t think I have ever had a spontaneous date unless I was the one that planned it. With my now husband we have been together for 11 years.😢

I was thinking Frank at the same time she said it. Go with Frank.

Omg the way you said he made u feel the way you guys didn't do anything sexual right away....My ol man and I this is us we recently split...I miss US sooooo much 🥺🥺I've sent him your videos

I totally went back for that sentence n then u said say it again 😅

Never, ive never ever ever been taken out on a spontaneous date.

My husband took me out on a surprise dinner (probably our last fancy date before the baby is born) on Sunday night. He told me to dress up nice and we drove to our favourite resort restaurant where they have their annual Christmas light garden all set up for the season. It was lovely!

It will forever be known as "My Pocket" now! 😂😂😂

I'm a wrecker driver here in south east Texas, and I'm usually the one people wanna point the finger at as being the bad guy because they did something that caused their car to get impounded and we get rude customer's CONSTANTLY!!! So I always tell my good customers thank you because sometimes they may be the only good customer I have for weeks 😒

Dont zip up the balls 😂😂😂

Hey guys. I have been listening to you guys for awhile now. My boyfriend and I listen and hear you guys. A lot of the tools you guys use and the way you guys think is a refresher for us. We think like you guys do and we do learn as well. We appreciate you guys so much for all the advice you guys put out there and the tools we didn't realize we could also utilize in order to grow our relationship. You guys are amazing and I love you guys❤.

Going from a very toxic on both sides relationship I definitely had my part to having someone who will sit and talk with me through the hard times is weird. Learning new things and ways to handle my trauma and my boyfriends trauma from his ex has been a struggle but so far the conversations have been amazing and relieving for both of us. Listening to you two speak to each other gives me hope that I can be what he needs and he what I need because if we can communicate through things, things can be better for both of us.

Listening to you guys is like putting a face to a voice in my head. Thoughts and ideas gave but can't implement and you 2 do that for me.

This just randomly started playing after s2e12. Congratulations getting this far. Dont stop❤

I don’t know if I watch more for the advice or for the banter and sideline conversations by this point 😂

Wooow. “Not using a topic of divorce As a weapon. “ This triggered me because in my current relationship - it just started officially but he has been in my life for 3 years- I have already made a few mistakes where my man has wanted to leave and was positive there’s habits I had that he believed I cannot break. I would like to analyze this in myself further and discuss it with my partner so we can be stronger and understand we shouldn’t use it as a weapon. Thank you

My mom and I live together for financial and health(mine more than hers) and my man moved in with us then his sons moved in. I learned I loved being a mom and wife but I also learned I CANT be mother, wife, and daughter under the same roof. My man and I broke up for awhile and they moved out. We are back together and looking for our own home before we live together

I AINT EVEN THE NUTTERS YOU GOTTA WORRY ABOUT! It’s the shaft just chillin and YOURE MINDIN YOUR BIDNESS JUST GOT DONE DOIN THE BIDNESS AND GOTTA GO TO THE STORE AND HURRYING AND IT BITES YOUR SALAMI LIKE A GATOR ON A ELK AND NEXT THING YOU KNOW YOURE ON THE GROUND REVERSE PUBERTY AND ALL WITH A NONCONSENUAL NIP ON YOUR WEINER DONT AND I REPEAT DONT FREEBALL
Any way
Love yall
Thanks for coming to my Ted talk

I have a question in regards to me being allowed in a conflict saying I need time to process this. I would like to come revisit it later. My husbands response with the fact that he thinks I am emotionally selfish because it's always on my terms and never on his terms. So how do I balance that.

I love that he calls his boneless wings "chicken nuggets." 😂 I tease my husband about that all the time!

I relate to the moving in phase and slowly realizing their habits, my ex did the same thing except he would put his boogers (sorry lol) on the sheets on his side of the bed. I was so disgusted by it but I didn’t have the balls to tell him that it was disgusting and that I would prefer him to do it into a tissue rather than wiping it on the sheets… so I feel you on that peaches (btw I’m re-watching your videos from day one, cause I’ve been here since day one, there are a lot of things I missed so I’m glad I decided to do that)

Thank you this is the very 1st episode I listened to all the way through. Was at a point I was not sure my marriage was going to make it. And now today we are working better and building better then we were! So thank you thank you thank you!. Oh and I have started back over the episodes so I really can work back even better.

We are getting back we will be married 14 years this month together 19 1/2

The mice thing blew my mind. I'm 24 years old and have no desire for children. The men my age are typically weak and have no skills. I've noticed that I am more aggressive towards men. Part of that is trauma, yes, and part of it is what was covered by the mice experiment

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Love you guys

I agree with the "don't plant the seeds for divorce". Before my husband and I got married, I had bought him a keychain and on the keychain it says " you're mine no refunds or exchanges". Once we got married we made that our motto. I adore y'all's podcast and it has helped my communication skills tremendously in my marriage; as well as with friends and family.

Can you put it in the comments, please and thank you

I love listening to your podcasts, I've learned so much about myself and the work I need to do to be better ❤

''I feel like your respect changes for me when you are upset with me'' - weh!, That made me reflect very hard on my attitude towards my wife when I am angry/upset. That was a powerful phrase for me.

So me and my partner and still a fairly new relationship

We'll hit a year in November

Hes my best friend

Your podcast has helped us get closer and talk more

We still take advantage of not having kids and having time for ourselves

Our last date night was Thursday and we went to outback in sweatpants and just got to enjoy joking around and be together

I just started this journey with you I'm really hoping to learn how to deal with myself and how to be better for my man

you guys have the romantic relationship i want. Because i have this relationship as a friend and im watching him greive his last relationship and its hard watching it...

my grandparents and my parents both taught me that just because i am mad at you doesnt mean i do not love you

I can’t find it I restarted the video but maybe someone can catch it and reply back here. She said something about how women set the dynamic of everything? Is that how she worded it. I keep trying to find where she said it. I’m hoping it’s not in a different podcast lol.

The waking up to the crying at some point in the morning happened to me but instead he was cutting himself. I was 19 and he was 22 with a 4 or 5 year old