I still love my ex after 3 years, how do I move on?

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Im suddenly missing my ex again after 3 years! Maybe because i havent found anyone better since 😔

I still love my ex after 25 years.

Over 3 years -. nothing but pain 😔

I still miss her and the three year anniversary of our HORRIBLE breakup is coming. I feel so lost, so hopeless, so undateable because my heart still wants her. Even after seperating what was my fault from her mistakes in the relationship didn't make it easier. I still wanted her despite the emotional neglect she gave me, the money she drained from me, and so much.
My friends said I was a better person before meeting her, but no matter the objective reasons I shouldn't want her get trampled by how I feel. I'm so lost and can't afford good therapy either.

All of this compounded by the utter lack of romantic connection I've had since and letting myself go, becoming shy around women, and more. I just don't know what to do anymore.

I dont think its tying up validation in that person its the moments you had that you cant find with someone else. For whatever reason they just made you the happiest.

I have a messed up situation. Me & my ex broke up almost 4 years ago and I've been dating a few other guys after him in these 4 years, but even after all these years, everytime when I meet someone new (I've dated 4 guys after him), I feel guilty and I feel like I'm 'cheating' on him, even tho we broke up years ago. I often also think about him but it's just all so messed up and I also don't understand why my mind wanders to the thoughts of him...
Do you what might be the cause?

27 yrs? 💔 Yea. Still love him; have love for him but I am not in love with him. 27 long years. At least we still can speak to eachother. I don't know about being around eachother because it's too magnetizing. It's because he was my 1st love and he saved my life... that's the main reason. I don't think of any other ex's at all; just him. He ran to me when I needed him; I really needed him and he had his friend drive as fast as he could to get me; made sure he wasn't driving so I could hop in (a 2 seater Thunderbird) and literally lay down on him, seat laid back to hide and feel safe. I calmed down in about 2 minutes of listening to his heartbeat; the sound of the motor rolling down the highway with his arms wrapped around me tightly and he kept saying, "I've got you. We are outta here" I can't tell you how much him saving me meant to me. We never broke up either... just slowly drifted apart. I'll always love him.

Im going on 5 years of pain i try to forget but she's constantly in my dreams.

the thing about me is that i dont miss the person i miss the memories and knowing there is no one to remember them with.
its like lets say u group with ur uni or highschool friends and keep memorising and talk about those old times and have a laugh and shit but u cant do that with all experiances u had with ur ex to anyone other than them cause nobody knows them.
you can still love your new gf-bf but those memories will be always sad like ur childhood, i think we will miss most of the things we had as we age even the bad experiances.

My first ever relationship was for only 3 months.
It has 1.5 year after that,still I'm not able to move on.I remember him sometimes and it hurts
excessively.

3 years? That's cute. Try 7.

We broke up because of finances that’s all but I can’t move on to save my life but why

I had a few opportunities where I could have reconciled with her I wish I took them 35+Yrs ago

ive been in love with a girl i never even went out with and its been 10 years now! what's going on!

Not even to date him. He was my best friend. I would love to have him in my life in some way