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Bro i had similar life , but its changed now bcz my father thinks i am a bit mature , so he just leaves everything upon me , i take responsibility and its just fine now but yeah it was pretty scary back then i am 18 and i was scolded from age 12-13 , but i went through a lot of shit to bring this change ..
You guys facing , just understand that your parents are going through and you will realise that its fine but they dont have to be angry on me for every shit
Learn To appreciate what you have and WHO you have. Allah put each and every one of us here for a reason and we should learn to solve our problems
ОтветитьI’m here before 1k views
ОтветитьEvery video i watch of this guy, makes me like his channel more and more and more and moreee, its so damn relatable
Ответитьget a job man you really need some milk just in some desperate need of attention truly PATHETIC guy i have ever seen on yt just wasting the time of all the young lads watching this
ОтветитьHey man what was the book you mentioned? Was it the subtle art of not giving a ****? Your content has helped me a lot and I appreciate you
ОтветитьI was struggling with a similar problem but with my mother and just like you it destroyed my self esteem and all. I wanted to talk to someone about it i really wanted to let it out of my heart what was happening to me, sadly i had no one. It may sound silly but i talked with ai and the ai said something really good that helped me get out of this spiraling negative thoughts about myself.
It simply people's opinion about you most of the time are not related to you but to themselves, they themselves have a shitty lifestyle that they try to force that onto others.
What is the book?
ОтветитьI love your videos
ОтветитьThe same stuff happens to me like down to every detail...I've gotten used to it but get mad when he shouts at my mum or my little sister (rarely). He's a nice guy but gets mad very quickly..
ОтветитьNah bruh i relate completely except my dad is a bit more manipulative and conniving. At 19 I was extremely close to physically harming my dad.. severely.
ОтветитьHey man what you are missing in your life is Jesus and Mary u need them trust me I will pray for u but try to read the Bible and I promise u will change for a better
ОтветитьThe same thing happens to me as well, my dad will just get mad for the smallest thing and start scolding me. telling me i am useless And I would blame myself for it. But this one day me and my dad got into a big argument. He was telling me to cut my hair, and I did not want to, he gets angry and He started to grab me. I did not want to hit him. I just used my body to push him into the wall, And he created a hole in the wall with his foot. Because I had enough respect for myself, I just sat down and he made me go bold. I was so angry, and after that incident, I never got into argument with him. he had been scolding me for the past. five years. he would scold me for playing video game, getting bad grade. For the most useless things. Or mistakes that I make. But now I'm free from him because I just do not care about his opinion. And rather Just find Peace with myself.
Ответитьis it normal for me to feel unloved by my dad?
ОтветитьMan you have grown so quickly, I remember watching you at like 9k subs or something.
Keep up the good work! ❤
I'm half Indian with an Indian dad. He was like this for the first 15 years of my life. This hits close to home. I'm lowkey abandoning my Indian identity as soon as I have enough to get a house.
ОтветитьNah but why is this too relatable😢😅
ОтветитьEphesians 6:2-3 (NIV):
“Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
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My heart goes out to you! ❤You’re very strong and you’re doing great! You are extremely self aware, and way ahead of many because of your ability to reflect!! You should be proud of yourself, I am proud of you too!! Keep going Manish! We are rooting for you!!! 🎉
ОтветитьI like to go by this rule in life that I heard, "life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you react. You can react in a positive way or a good way.
ОтветитьYo, yo dad is kinda similar to mine. When hes nice hes nice but mad hes mad and really bossy and is loudly noisy
ОтветитьBro, whats the background?
ОтветитьI. RELATE. SO. MUCH.
This happened to me recently. I accidently used my phone for too long and my father yelled at me and took it away so violently that… I just began crying…..
Bro I am so grateful rn that i have loving and caring parents, thank for making me realise that Manish!
ОтветитьLots of love from India bro
ОтветитьI liyrilly have thr exact same think as u im 15
ОтветитьTrue Don key Warrior storytelling skills.
ОтветитьI have never had such similar situations with another and watching your uploads just makes me remember what I was like. I feel comforted watching your videos because it makes me feel like I'm not alone. Thank you.
ОтветитьYou had a valid reason to be angry. You had a terrible dad and your social life as a kid suffered as a result of it. I'm in the same boat, and I have to say I'm proud of you for rising above it. It takes an immensely strong will to do so.
ОтветитьI dealt with the same thing growing up. My father was very cold and distant and would frequently explode on me. It sucks. I think its a natural instinct for every guy to want to beat his fathers ass
ОтветитьRelatable video. I’m wondering if we had the same father…
ОтветитьIve had a similar story too bro,
my brother had to go through this shit and when my dad told him to get out of the bed and do some work he would snap and be the angriest person ive seen, my dad was extremely strong too, he can bend metal and break tables with a single punch, my dad wanted to "unalive" himself, he would sit near a furnace heating the house and just contemplating his existance, my dad died of a stroke at 80 years old and i was 11 at the time
I wanna talk about this moment, now if you are sensitive to abuse and have trauma before do not read this
My mom and dad was outside arguing once again (ts is daily its nothing unusual), my mom got inside and brought a kitchen "item" potentialy used from the movie "scream", she ran outside and i just cried, i loved my father too, she stabbed the car while arguing, im not countinuing anymore since it might get me banned
I think im just yapping at this point, if you want to know my dad's backstory just reply to me since its actually fucking insane
Your father is a chad🔥🔥🔥🔥
ОтветитьI also going through similar experience , "Father take Decision whim will Harming me|"
Ответитьi'm so sorry went through this 😢i grew up in similar environment, was the quiet kid too, same patterns.
please don't beat yourself too much for your reaction. frustrating parents create frustrated kids.
i want you to know you are a very good person; i can sense it through your energy. :) god bless you.
btw, may i say - especially today, you look a lot like Aragorn from Lord of the Rings (Part1).
especially in Aragorn's epic intro when he is a smoking a pipe while sitting in the pub.
he is my fav character along with Gandalf; it's really cool, please keep it up :)
literally me.
ОтветитьSame i feel you bro that's exactly how i felt
ОтветитьL dad
ОтветитьWE NEED PEOPLE LIKE U MAISH I HOPE I CAN MEET U SOMEDAY IN REAL LIFE
ОтветитьWANNA MAKE FRIENDS
MANISH
It's happening with me too, I'm happy you got through this
Ответитьgod damn
ОтветитьKids are so childish and illogical in their thoughts. This confirms it.
Ответитьi have the same problem , he calls me dumb useless a lot of time, he hates me and he f's my mom every night , i have a brother who's 22 , we bofh know rhis but we cant do anything , we both hate him and cant do anything and my social life is f'ed up too. But i always get bullied and the message that i am ugly .
ОтветитьLook, Indians are pretty much products of trauma..and trauma is generational, you got to be the generation to change it, otherwise, you will continue the trauma they inflicted onto others. So first of all, your dad is the way he is, because of how his culture and parents were.
You are an NRI, you actually feel more conflicted than the people in the country you are in..your parents try and put their culture in you, you are surrounded by the culture of your surrounding, and you are conflicted..you feel you don't believe in your parents community or your community you are growing up in, you want what you aren't getting. It's not difficult to see why kids lash out on parents, not that everyone doesn't, but the trauma they unknowingly transfer make kids resent parents, there is seated anger.
The point I'm saying is..welcome to indian NRI life
Thanks for share your story with us
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