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"Fineral"

How many aunties does this guy have that every sat hes off?

Holllleeeeee

This guy is a mess…

Makes me see just how different humans can be.

That 2nd couple, the woman needs to ask herself, "How fun am I to live with, and why doesn't my husband want to spend time with me,!?!" I can't say I blame him! She needs to chilll OUT, and do some self reflecting !

If Red flags 🚩🚩were people the 1st guy would be pictured in the dictionary!

He is a narcissist. Leave him.

Is there a new season coming????

First guy is clearly a narcissist.

My 2 cents:

First couple: guy is not interested in the relationship, he is interested on his own ego, focusing on correcting people, when there is no right or wrong.

Second couple: The woman is controlling and can’t communicate her needs properly. Also people have lives out of the relationship, you aren’t the only one person that he is gonna care about. And it’s a funeral, isn’t like watching games every Saturday night with friends.

Third couple: the woman already started it all wrong. This is a partner, not someone to project your inner child in order to heal them. And her frustration seems to make sense, cuz all the time he acts like he is not even registering what she is saying. Which makes me question if he really likes her.

Fourth couple: the woman on brown shirt needs to understand what boundaries is. It’s not flexible. If she is willing to maybe open the relationship which is clearly not the case, she needs to enforce her boundaries and walk away. The woman on jumpsuit does not take her partner’s boundaries seriously, and crossed a line that hurts the trust in the relationship. Even if for her is something small, if the other one is bordered, you can’t just do whatever, and expect your partner not to be hurt. Both need to check is they are really compatible.

This guy exudes arrogance beyond belief. He’s a first class a-hole and needs a good kicking

The first guy is exhausting but simultaneously.. I do recognise something in him. I am on thr autism spectrum and I also can get defenisve or focuss on a word that someone sais when it is about something I feel, said or think and is not accurate. Cause I feel very misunderstood and think it is the opposite of what we try to achieve, understanding eachother. So in this case it is very difficult to get somewhere in this conversation as this man is very litteral and these people try to use words to capture a feeling or a bigger picture which feels for him like a totally different thing. He is extreme in this but it is defenatly a trauma response od never being seen or understood correctly and a very litteral or inflexible way of looking at a bigger picture. Still I have learned this is a tendency that brought me in trouble a lot where my intention was to make myself be better understood by overexplaining which word I would use to describe what I think/feel. Now If I notice this occures.. A discussion about a word. I can say.. Sorry I might take this too litterly but do you use this word in this manner? As that is how I interpreted it. And often they don't and explain actually they were just not precise but had the good thought. This prevents arguments about misunderstandings when in reality there isn't any.. There was just a different interpretation (narrow or wide) of a word that was intended to relate. Problem is if someone tells you this especially if you ask for help and you don't take any accountability than it seems more like an avoidant strategy or a manipulative strategy.

The first guy is not a red flag. He is the RED SEA experiencing a tsunami.

The woman in the first clip looks so exhausted...while her combative partner looks fresher and more energetic.
That is one sign, in my experience, of being in a toxic relationship.
Women should be nurtured by men and not run to the ground and taken advantage of.

Hey devalued being called out for swift devaluing ....lmfao 😂

When a client says "i learned that here" its like icing on a cake. Tells up they are listening and applying!!❤

This show allows me to appreciate a relationship with peace and helps see red flags sooner

Huge respect to the participant‘s. Such universal experiences

Blonde dude has just numbed out. He’s probably tired of getting yelled at for breathing in the wrong direction.

I can’t believe the therapist doesn’t talk about his narcissistic personality style

This video is so relatable, I’ve been trying to distract myself after my breakup. We were together for almost three years, and it’s only been a month since he left. I can’t stop thinking about him and wondering if he’ll ever come back.

We don't have to know if this is accurate or not... but it has to be useful

First guy is Narcissist for sure!!!

This Therapist is beyond patient with this guy. She shows true care and empathy. She wants him to be accountable......he is incapable of this. He is stuck and She truly wants to find a solution. What a pro she is ......she is exceptionally good at her job.

I really enjoyed seeing people work through difficult relationships situations

I’ve seen the first guy before. He makes me extremely grateful for my husband. 25 years of that woman’s life… she should get out now!!

No wonder that poor woman looks so tired

This makes me so grateful to be married to my husband. We've done a lot of work to get to a healthy place. Im just so glad we've both grown.

run Desean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One thing that I have learned when I was a teenager is that you can never ever fix someone!

I’m a happily married marriage counselor and this therapist ROCKS! No BS. Love it.

what a shock....one partner doesn't want to be 'polly" and the other does so the relationship is over.

I really hope the first dude watches his behaviour back and is extremely embarrassed

The need to have and control things is the source of all suffering. Let go.

Are these real people? Not just actors?

This guy exchasting

The first guy is so right. It's frustrating to be misunderstood. To have words put in your mouth that you didn't say.

Is this real?

How eye opening. Goodness the lady who saw her little self who she wanted to save in her partner. Then when her partner turns into an ideal of a child years down the line she wonders why and doesn’t correlate her reasoning for choosing him. That’s something. Humans we are something.

This show is AMAZING! Love this therapist. Some of these are so hard to watch.

Woah the first guy is super defensive..narcissist idk what it is!! He gives me abusive energy.. condescending tone makes me uneasy

If you repeat back to someone and it’s never right, that’s a tell for NPD.

Nope can't live with somebody like him (first guy). He always has to be right.

I need to reawtch this show

Love this show

This show is great. I’ve seen all seasons and it gives me hope for reality tv. Trashy tv is fun and all but this show gives us a dose of realism. This sounds like a corny ad but damn

The black lady energy😀

Love this show. It used to be free to watch. I watched the first season and maybe the second one.

does anyone know what ever happened to the first couple? This dude seriously has issues.. and such a gaslighter and narcissists. I mean i don't know how much of that attitude was for "the cameras".. for the wife sake i hope it was..

The last lesbian couple was annoying lol why do ppl wanna be poly? Lol just be single!!! It's easier