How Other People View The INFJs

In good company, as an INFJ, I'm admired. In bad company, there's intrigue, then jealousy and then danger.

INFJs hate robot voices.

With all these videos I can finally relax, I honestly thought I was weird and I was probably autistic, now I understand myself more

I am an INFJ, One day I was driving behind a woman who had a flat pancake tire, she pulled into a law office and I just happen to be going the same way so I slow down and make sure that she’s aware that her tire is flat.: She waves and says thanks! The next day, I find myself behind the same woman with the same flat pancake tire, she pulls in to work, And I roll to a slow stop and say to her, looks like your tire is still flat, you must have a slow leak… She says leave me the fuck alone

I am not "afraid." I am not afraid of hurting someone's feelings. I AM ACUTELY aware of the results my conversation will yield. I am considerate that what I say could change the world of the person I'm speaking with. I am constantly assessing and weighing their words and how I should respond so that change is not negative because I know it could be. I am constantly and accutely aware of the power of my words. Please stop saying INFJ's are "shy", or "afraid ". The truth is absolutely the inverse.

Also, INFJs are not lonely outcasts yearning for company but "afraid". Come on! I am not giving up my view from thirty thousand feet because I'm "lonely." Why are regular people so focused on safety in numbers. I was a loner even as a young child but I was not lonely. Still the same.

People think we are weird and strang. You need to be patient with us. We can be fun. This video is true.

It's not that we hate criticism it's we're often aware of our own faults and are in the process of trying to self improve so when someone uses wrong diction to describe the situation it will set us off

Damn thank god i m an intj ! Love my « Quirks »

I just found out i was an INFJ and to say my whole life now makes sense would be an understatement! I NEED my alone time, have no interest in small talk, hate any confrontation around me i could go on.

I completely understand this. Not 100%sure , however I do match about 90%of the text. So. I’m older now about to be 53 And I’ve learned to cut people loose that drain my energy to regularly. I’m more investigative at this age to avoid getting taken advantage of so much. Remember. We are large targets for narcissists. So be careful

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Thanks 💜

I don't know why people are Harsh on small talk, small talk is like 4 play to a deep conversation.

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What a hard life being an infj 🤍

I'm an INFJ and I've given up on most ppl😅

I didn't know until recently that there are other people in the world like me.

By reading comments I see there are several "sub types" of INFJ.
I must be the typical INFJ because this video is me 100%.

A friend told me that for a long time, she used to see me as very serious and dull.

"people pleasers" yes, unless someone does something vile beyond comprehension then we break and show them the storm they're actions put into place.

Why is the background music so loud in everyone’s videos (not just these creators) for INFJ’s? It makes it harder to listen to this good and true content.

When did this start happening? We didn’t have this when we were younger?

INFJ's can never be a people pleaser ,they are mostly straightforward and non filtered mouth ,they say it exactly as they feel ,they are the true Alpha mostly

INFJS have a hard time with the sheep stuck in the matrix.
We are much smarter than most in my opinion.

Being a "people pleaser" is definitely NOT a characteristic of an evolved INFJ. I think this is showing the side of INFJ's that do not have good boundaries (which are essential for any empath). An INFJ who has done work on themselves is one of the most powerful personalities on the planet - remember, Gandhi, Jesus, and Mother Theresa were all INFJs. It is a hard life, but there isn't a personality with more integrity, and when the INFJ learns to appreciate their gifts (reading people) the world is their oyster.

I wouldn't marry me either, a pathological people pleaser.....

A few years back I did the test and got INFJ, I didn't know or care what it meant back then, but in the present I've been reading a lot about that true INFJs struggle to identify within one personality since they can show traits of all of the other... so now I'm starting to believe more in it and seeing what true impact it could be having during my life time 😶

In my core, I know I'm an INFJ and I always get it as a result in the MBTI test, but I also emulate the ENTP traits as a way to help me be more confident and charismatic. Its really odd to me and it also makes me really complex to a lot of people who get to know me. But being more ENTP is pretty fun while still having the core nature and vaules of an INFJ

This is me.....1000%

I found that the most relatable thing I see discussed among other INFJs, is this struggle to find the balance between wanting to be alone in our happy place where we feel secure and unharmed by the drain of being around people, but on the other hand feeling like were missing out on being involved in peoples lives, and being able to become the person who actually cares about them when they feel nobody cares enough to listen. Wanting to feel like youre making a difference and an impact on peoples lives directly counters our primary craving to be alone and shut ourselves in from a harmful world of draining people.

A lot of people wish they were INFJ but I feel like if they knew the paradox of having Ni and Fe they would see that its a very contradictory thinking pattern and its not easy to learn to control and prioritize without discipline.

I really wish I was an ISTP

Rubbish. They don't read people's minds

I love being an INFJ now that I am 80 years old! Truly love how GOD MADE ME!!❤️‍🔥

Reading minds or understanding how someone thinks.. Yes, infj is great at doing that.

If only i were that nice 😂

It's less about being shy and more about making it worth their time in a constructive and cooperative manner.
The words people use are important, but it is as much or more about how they say it - tone, speech rhythm, and the choice of words all matter.

People judge us a lot. Makes me feel put out. One expression throws me the heck off. It helps to not look at them all the time when speaking my mind. Sucks being the odd cog in the social machine.

Being an INFJ I hate when people dilly dally and have no interests except trivial nonsense .Those people are so unaware .

Very accurate observations. ❤️ While listening to this, I felt as if I was reading a book about myself. 😊 On some occasions it is a difficult thing to be an INfJ - we didn't choose to be this way. Yet, the closest friends know who we are and accept us and that is very comforting. Thank you so much for this information

this is just the "book" about infj. i expect like the first impression or how people who has an infj friend think about them.

Am i an INFJ or do i have debilitizing social anxiety 🤔

What is the difference 🤷‍♀️

Perhaps fitting my spouse and I somewhat , although we have all been betrayed by our own illusions\allusions plenty in life ( not unlike everyone else ), also secretive to the max , one preferring perspicuity , one leaning toward lighter chat . Both value and require our individual alone time . We think highly and believe in the inherent good nature of most if not all others ( with caveats\reservations toward closed off predators ) . Anyway , we also have our differences and independent processes which reminds us of our own frailties and required continued growth , thank goodness .

I just hate unhealthy infjs

We are experts at "reading a person between the lines"

Tea, Coffee, Or...Not Me?🤡

Ppl see them as weird, off, incomprehensible, inconsistent, aloof, creeps, moody, weed smokers and on drugs, unrelatable, strange. Very few nice things to be said about infj's.

Tbh as an INFJ i somewhat disagree with the statement about "give INFJs every detail about what you are discussing" It differs from subject to subject but in general details (especially logistical details) make me lose interest in the topic FAST. Now if it was every detail about how you felt or your theories about a topic then that's way more interesting to me.

If you think it's cool being an INFJ, you're not an INFJ.

Only 1o1 please