You Push A GOOD MAN Away If You Do Any Of THESE 14 Things

" A lot of men you scaring off needs to get the hell of anyway"😅😅 hello ,hi ,listen ,lots of facts here ,blast it out coach Steph👍👍👍

Thank you, Stephan, for this video I needed to hear these messages I myself will say I am the prize men need to chase me but now I have a clearer aspect of what you are saying.

I can roll with all of those points. Fair, rational, and most importantly, they make a lot of sense. Hi-five Mr. Fine with your clean self. 😉💯

Speak 😎

I don,t want to be a MURDERER, so I will not be killing LOVE,DESIRE and VALUE ,no sir

I love this one! Excellent topics! 💯💯💯👏🏼❤️

That phrase sounds so funny coming from you, I'm finding it difficult to get offended 😂. Just sayin

I'd never say i am the prize!! So a good man isn't a prize for you, yes he is. I think im worth it and worth more than what a usless man has to offer!! By useless man i mean the ones that want sex assp cos that will be all they want in the end.
Oh and my dad told me i was much better looking than my sister. I think he could see how she pulled me down. I've always thought we are both good looking.
It is natural in life for men to lead lol

I'm from Trinidad 🇹🇹 and I here some women in my country saying if you treat a man bad he'll run you down and I never liked that, it's crazy. Long time I hvn't tuned in, I truly enjoyed this content today. Blessings Mr. Stephan Speaks. *Don't lose yourself in a relationship. *A good man wants peace. *Get healing. *Don't have a bad attitude.

Tbh Mr.Stephan i just dont care anymore. I say that in front of God i just don’t care about men. Good/ Bad im not attracted to men.

Stephan, what you said a man not even wanting to go home made me think of the British sitcom, "Keeping Up Appearances" and specifically the episode where Richard is facing retirement and he begs his boss to let him work some shifts so he doesn't have to be home with his wife as much. Makes for funny television, but that would be horrible in real life.

Good women /good men, none is better than the other, so a help mate is truly to build u up, really love means being a servant into each other.... U gotta wanna pray with ur partner, and be affectionate with them, I think when ur friend tells u they don't want to hang out with u, they ain't gonna commit, he can't give u what u need they don't want u, it's pretty clear indicator ..... They ain't gonna and that's what will scare off a good woman........ She just gonna be like hmmm ok as u wish.,.... But the secrecy is a big big big turn off red flags ......... When she asks him if he got someone else and he don't answer, u have to think he's probably got a person and trust he's just ur friend and don't want u so pull back ur energy cuz they don't want u .... Cuz the narcissist wants u to love them and they ain't finna give u a damn thing, now u could have a good friend who just wants to be ur good friend , but if if they actually trying to get with u, narcissist gonna love bims gaslight n bread crumbs u to get what they want so , be mindful of it , me I'ma be just friends with my just friend until he shows me he wants me , but sometimes she's not negative she's guarded, because MY LORD told me to not let my heart. Get broke so it's not negative it protection......
How a woman know if there is no communication...... I pray that the man that is for me , will lead me but he got a tell me what he's doing if I'ma give up the control after being done in for so many times I have to feel safe and I mean completely and NOT feel my guy pulling back n running away...... I BELIEVE long conversations because few moments of short minimal conversations don't go dept .... Where is the trust and nothing flows I think it requires maturity , and having boundaries is not controlling just for the record ....... And he gotta be what she needs before she submits, they together need to pray n have serenity none con control, we got a make better choices n be brand new every day

Some men do the same thing by using your pass to throw back at you

but he keeps telling me we're not in a relationship, we're an US

Exactly ❣️

Hi, just wanted to chime in regarding ‘the prize’ label. I would agree that both the man and woman are a prize to each other no doubt. However, scripturally speaking, woman was created for the man. That may be the reason women say that perhaps. 😊

Steph,

I cannot WAIT for you to find your person, get married, and reveal her to us. ❤️
So that we can meet the manifestation of EVERYTHING you're teaching us ladies.😍

We're waiting.
And she'll have lots of questions to answer! 😆

So I listened to the whole video 😂but it was Usher feeding us women cherries 🍒

🚫❌ Off my to do list 😂

A good man is a good leader ❣️👍

Truth my Brethren 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Stephan some women lack of interest because some men have too many very close so call platonic sometimes sexual female friends 😢

Some men show interest but they don't communicate but at the same time they're moving too fast... Desperation isn't for me..Some women like myself i haven't dated for over a decade and when a man happens to like move too fast its a red flag for me koz am slow i mean i like taking things slow no rush.

Nope NOT this type of woman here,
No games ( life is too fragile 4 this)
not playing here
NOT Entitled
selfishness behavior
An Insecure woman
( normally it’s a overly private man) open & transparent people have no hang ups ( loosing him is worth more than losing yourself) good men deserve peace as well as good woman
bad attitudes, too difficult woman ( it means to B vulnerable) Controlling women the man has to lead absolutely if he doesn’t it’s (ZERO) attraction towards him
NO SEX IN THE RELATIONSHIP & causes the man to not desire the woman
controlling women (relinquish control) he has to step up
too dam independent (allow him to pour into u to restrict ❤, desired & valued) not showing desire or interest a real connection when they see the 1 he’s not scared off
Putting him on s pedestal He needs to know that U find him in a higher value than other man but that he is not higher than GOD ABSOLUTELY STEPHAN no belittling, of any form is awful 😉👍

If I made a mistake & taking ownership & the woman weaponizes the man U r soooo right on in my view 😉🤭
Why don’t we just accept the real man/ woman just as they are!🥴😊Billie Joel said it best I❤U just the way U R😬😳🤭

1) u are playing hard to get
2) entitlement attitude

Family guy reference lol oh I love your delivery of so many of the topics addressed here. Thank you for keeping it real ❤

A good man and a good woman are both a blessing to each other ❤❤❤❤❤

Where are those good men you are talking about? How come I can never find any like that , they all play games and aint serious😭

Time stamps please

Thanks for this content. It is useful for both sexes. Grateful that 'u r here to help us get better.''

My sister did a good job, with her husband. He did a barbecue outside for her. She has a good relationship with her husband.

Stephan, I appreciate your energy & advice. 💯🙏❣

" Learn how to stroke his ego as a stripper" 😂 yes ,yes and yes ,hopefully he throws his entire salary on me to😅because that's how the end up giving away all their money in strip clubs,ladies don't u think that men are so dam difficult,what the actually crave for is CRAZY !!😮

Why are you single Stephan? ❤ 😅You're a great catch! It's hard in 2025 to find men wanting to date intentionally. 😢 You have to be independent if you're a true blue single woman 😂😂😂

This was excellent and it all makes sense.

It's a catch 22. People make love a game. Men" like the chase" vs if u give in too easily, you're easy or desperate. Guys want to be the givers right? ....then they should never complain about gold diggers. Men like to test....isn't that a game?
Overall, People gotta know what they want.

Love shouldn't be a game in the first place; but people make it a game

I feel like he always unsure with me all the time

h8h2.....I know women play games. I don't date them so I don't know everything they do; but since you do date em, you give me all the details.

Why is it so difficult to get over someone, my boyfriend ended our 3 yrs relationship few weeks ago, and ever since, till now, I still think about him and I’ve done all my best to get him back, but nothing worked. I miss him so much, the memories and everything we had, I wish I could spend the rest of my life with him. I just wish he could come back. I’ve been so down this past weeks. I can’t focus anymore. I cry everyday. I don’t know why I’m saying this here. I just miss him.

Men are from Mars; women are from venus🙄 How in the hell is ANY relationship gonna work WITHOUT communication?!
Isn't this a tough world WE ALL live in? Grow some thick skin, learn how to deal with the tough issues in life and quit whining. Women are forced to do this EVERYDAY!
NOTHING builds confidence and strength like the Bible...I'm telling you guys; you need to try it.
When you have a STRONG spirit, there's no room for ego, jealousy, hatred, etc..same goes for women.
When people get their heads and their hearts straight, all this childish behavior goes out the window, period!

I am so glad I do not care! Thanks😂

Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you Stephan 🙏🏼

Most of this I agree but being too independent I have to speak up. In my personal experience men have forced me to be Too Independent. It wasn’t by choice. I was raising 3 very small girls. And all I ever got was being told to be Independent. I had to learn to change my oil in my car because I didn’t have the money to pay for it. I had to learn many things that a woman shouldn’t have to learn. Their dad was a dead beat dad. Didn’t want Any responsibility at all. And used me as an escape goat so no one got mad at him. So making me look bad was the right way for him to go. Re-married 10 years later and things were great till I went to 3rd shift on weekends. I did that because we had a daughter and she was starting school. This way I could be there for her during the week and he could there for her on weekends. Things changed and he began acting like he didn’t want to be seen with me anywhere. I was left out of all family activities. And when I was off we stayed home. Never doing anything together. 22 years of marriage, I got divorced because why be with someone if you feel like they don’t love you. Moving on. We stayed on good terms for our daughter sake. But also for ours. Things were better because I could ask him if he could help me with something and he would just as I did for him. After 7 years he remarried a crazy bat from hell. Cut me off totally. With no explanation. Our daughter was in her 20’s and she told me what was going on. She was pretty mad at him for making her tell me because he told her he needed to let me know and decided not to. They lived together a year before getting married but she was leaving him 3/4 weekends a month. Every month!!! Then coming back. They got married a year later and she continued to leave him regularly. Then a year later they got married and she went through his phone and saw he was texting a girl. The day after our daughter had her son she walked out again and divorced him. 3 weeks later they’re seeing each other. This went on for months. He’d break it off or she broke it off. Then we started talking again and he actually left her because of me. But went back once again. She found out we were texting by going over one day and she went through his phone yet again. Three days later I found out a note was left on his carpet that was about him and I. He calls me up and began screaming. Well I let him know I had nothing to do with what I was being accused of and then hung up. A day went by and he told me she left the note and said someone that knew someone that knew someone left it for her. Big lie! As he found out. He got her to confess that she wrote it and left it herself. Going on until November she was still showing up. I had broke things off with him over and over telling him to get his head straight because this wasn’t doing either of us any good. Then after two weeks he’d show up at my house or would call using our daughter as a reason to call. I caught her over there the day after Thanksgiving so I told them both off. I was sick of it. That crazy bat told a lie about our daughter’s husband when she had no proof or facts. Yet he chose to believe it anyway. Then started acting as if she was the victim. She severed his relationship with our daughter. Then walked away. A month later he shows up at my house wanting to fix things. Really he just wanted me to help him get our daughter back in his life. Which I did. Because it was the right thing to do. I found out later he was waiting on the crazy bat to come back again!! Thinking he could fix things. Our daughter will never have anything to do with her again. And told him that. He keeps trying to get me to come by and I tell no. I’m not wasting my time on anyone that has made it clear we have no future together. My point here is, men have made me become independent for one reason or another. But then get offended because I am?! Or feel intimidated by it. If men don’t want a women to be that independent then don’t force her into it. Some of us have realized that if we ask for help then we’re needed. If we don’t ask we’re too independent. There is no happy medium. Stop blaming women because dum men have forced us to be stronger and dependents on ourself.

Playing their game is more what it is.

DUDE I just commented this 3 hours ago
3 hours ago on … hold on… I’ll post the video below. It was called something like,” he has to earn you”. Ooooof.
I gave up dating men back when rocks were soft, but I just gotta ask....why are WOMEN the prize, and not the MEN? I mean, I'm fiercely feminist, but why do men have to earn women but women don't have to earn men? What d'yall think?

Hoooold on... Weaponizing the past the way you described is more of a defense. I see how you've treated me before, so yes I'm willing to accept that you're trying to be better, but not right off... I have to make sure you're being genuine this time. I'm scared 😶

Thank you, Stephan. Your videos have truly opened my eyes to some of the flaws I wasn’t aware of, and they’ve guided me to grow and become a better version of myself. Your words inspire me deeply, and I’m so grateful for the wisdom you share. May God bless you abundantly and protect you always.

@meetstephanspeaks great video 🤗🥰 grateful for your time 🙏🏼🤎