He says he's not ready for a relationship! | Talks with Tony

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Hi Tony! love your videos and your southern accent.

This is so sad on so many levels. Black men when they get money want white women or women othr than themselves. Most black men are so caught up in colorism. As black people for most of us especially we have so much to learn about loving ourselves and our people. Really a sad dialogue for most black men

You Always Speak " The TRUTH" Tony

Thanks for the lesson TG!

This really dragged on.....but I get it🙄

What if a man says "I cant give you what you want right now" i.e relationship and move in because he's getting his 2and business off the ground. And he doesn't want to rush because he's done that with his ex-wives and he doesn't want that to happen to us. Am I being stupid or should I give him time?

Lord no more it’s wayyyyy to much work

No I feel Indians have had more pain than anybody . They still suffer

Kobe

It’s easier to be alone Iam sorry so not worth all the games

The apostle Paul said, " I wish everyone could be like me." I can see now why he said this. Worldly trends have made the word relationship so complicated. The apostle Paul died unmarried.

To be honest, there are over 20 ads here and TG can’t finish a sentence before another ad starts. There’s an ad almost every 5 mins. I love his message but the ads are killing me. To many

I really hate men now i need help for my soul

NOSE-stadamus 😂😂😂😂😂😂

This makes me wanna cry bc I have been doing things wrong.

Let him gooooooooooooooooooo

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If Tony matched me with a man I’ll probably cry initially lol... He gone be doing the Lord’s work! Like God gives us what we need not what we want.

✨🙏🏽✨ Gratitude for the wisdom.

Tony you lost me on this one . Did you answer the question?

I know with my baby daddy I have always like old rap songs and soul music growing up but never thought I would get with a black guy. Its definitely a different experience then with a white guy .I am more interested in the person heart honestly as well .

It's true what he says about race. I always thought it was obvious I was half white/black but as I have gotten older people mistake me for mexican, puerto rican, fiji ect. Even the father of my kids did not realise I was half white. I look back at my photos and understand why it can be easy to not realise. I look just like my dad and hes dominican (he does have very dark skin) but I honestly didn't realise till about 5 years ago that I could be mistaken for a different race 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

LOL, I have $75,000! Thanks for sharing, blessings!

The richer you are, the less you want your food cook- TG

Wait...he say, "the more money you make, the less you want your food cooked" ...😂😂 This man is hilarious

Blessed Day!- Tribe
Please ladies — Just keep Focus —
On “ YOU”!!! - Do NOT chase the man!! May as well run in circles and loose weight.. A Queen knows her worth.. Vice versa for a man!!

"The mo' money you make,the less you want your food cooked".😂 TG

What if he messaged me saying he believes I'm not ready to be his wife I been r gaged for 4 years now got pregnant of him at 21 I was a virgin to him changed his life from smoking weed drinking to giving his life to God im a Christian but not religious I have Relationship with God ! And anyway he is 25 im 25 too his older then me by months. We gave a 2 year sold beautiful little girl he would say I was changing and that im cold and warm anymore like I used to dosent know if I live him or I don't live him he thinks im playing games. But the truth is he knows I love jim I would beg to stay many times I tell him to leave beacuse he would always say he never had money and I found out last month he had over 30,800 saved up the first ime I left him was when our fiaghter was 6 months old beacsue he made me lives with his parents for 5 months. And I left him beacsue he couldn't even get us an apartment of 300 monthly and then he called his mama one day and asked to cash out the 3,300 he had in her account. Well this time I left again beacuse he was approved for 225k for a house which impossible to find, and I find out that he has 30,800 saved up and who's account who know shut with his credit report and doing the calculations plus hearing him tell his own sister he has saved up around 30,000 I left him again. He had not called at all to even ask for our duaghter

When Tony said he knew her name and how she looked I was like wow, she must already have been thru some athletes etc. If she already has a reputation, I imagine that’s what the 25yo saw.

I think this goes a lot deeper than just a man not wanting a relationship. He wants a relationship with the finer things in life. and because of his mental stability and illusions in his mind, he sees women of color as a struggle bus. Not knowing he is also on the struggle bus and yt ppl see him just as damaged. But he is willing to sacrifice himself as well as his own kind to get what he wants if he ever gets it.

The rich will customize any &all orders. Lol be it people, places or things...

I know this is about men, but here's my side as a women:

Don't know how to explain my husbands preferences. He's one quarter Hispanic on his father's side (and looks like it).

I'm darker than is dad. I'm also darker than his mom, who is a brown skinned woman. He has dated mostly non-mixed black women. One of his most serious relationships was with a woman as dark as a Sudanese.

BTW, his father's current wife is a very dark-skinned women. Guess, my husband and his father just like phenotypically black women, if I may; their opposites.

So, was I going for an exotical man? Did I seek him out? No. I find dark-skinned men the most attractive as a group. They seem to feel the same for the most part, but my husband pursued me.

We've been together since we were very young, with a break, and I have never really thought about it until now, since lots of people seem to be talking about it.

Dump him if he ain't ready.

Been seeing this guy for maybe 8 months or so anyway he told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship so instead of staying friends with him and to give him the benefit of having access to me. I removed myself from his life. He wasn’t ready for a relationship so he doesn’t even deserve my presence. Removed him on social media and now I’m content knowing he wasn’t the one for me. The right guy wouldn’t put you in a position like that.

Not “grab me some booty”😂😂😂

Europeans and the wealthy love bloody meat!? 😂🤪☺️😫.

Tony don't call us Zebra's lol yoh please! From your South African viewer.

“I don’t match make no mo” 😂😂😂😂

When they say, just looking for friendship and see what happens...Leave that alone, too, if you are looking for more.

Thank you!

I gotta comment!!! I'm here for the comments! SO this guy asked for my number, the first day I gave him my number he texted and called right away, everyday. Then, the texts/calls only seem to come when he's in crisis and need me to "talk things through", next thing I know, he's asking me to cook dinner and introducing me to his family as his "friend" (over the phone) and telling me he wants a WIFE. My intuition told me if he wanted you to be wifey, he would introduce you as such. I told him you don't get the benefit of my time and being there for you emotionally without a title. His reply was "I'm not ready to be in a relationship." I say to myself, you sure aren't, goodbye! So glad I stuck to my guns on this, everything confirms that my intuition was right to let him go! Pain is still fresh though.

WOW !!! MEN ARE CONSCIOUS & ADAMANT ABOUT THE GOALS THEY WANNA REACH EVEN SHORT TERM STUPID GOALS. OUR JOB AS LADIES IS TO BEWARE BY STAYING ABSTINENT SEMI- UNAVAILABLE WHILE CHATTING WITH THEM. SPOT DATING SOMETIMES. PAY YOUR 1/2 DONT HAVE GOLD DIGGING QUALITIES. IT SHOWS QUICKER THAN U THINK. THANKS TONY. IN THE BEGINNING, I ALWAYS TOLD MY TEEN GIRLS DONT GIVE A BOY/ YOUNG MAN TOO MUCH TIME ON THE PHONE. THEY GET THE WRONG IMPRESSION. "MAMA IS ALWAYS RIGHT."

My husband of 5 years just told me this 🙄

He dont want her!!

Tony is right man my son 19 years old 6 feet tall and this is facts. Still a virgin waiting until marriage I had him so dang busy.. 3 degree black belt 🥋 and played at the YMA for a basketball team and he was also in swim team. I worked full time grandparents and family made it happen.His fathers side as well. We had him in private school for the first 12 years of his life until he had a bad experience at an all boy’s private school in H-town Texas.. He wasn’t bending his “Christian views” if you know what I mean. He didn’t have time for nothing. Only had one girl and she left him because she had that ready right now spirit and he didn’t. We got her a ring but my son wasn’t fast 💨 enough for her and she had already had an “experience”. He used to call his self a “savage nerd”., until he matured. Makes straights A’s, currently in college never took a break even throughout the summer season, his choice.. Due to the way I raised him he was stated to me “no days off mom”He has a huge social media following of over millions on of views I won’t post because I don’t want to get bl%cked 🤣.. no shade Tony. lol.. So moving on.. He is waiting and focused on becoming a millionaire. But I’m a blk mom make it happen than talk to me about it type of mind set.. “Car content” Tony is right again!! I know I’m hard but if he works hard and stays in school mom and the whole family spoils him.. It really does take a village.. Home schooled him after school 5 days a week and reading assignments on Saturdays if he don’t have a black belt compaction, swim team or basketball. He loves those video games though so of course he doesn’t that as well. People watch him playing the game.. Kinda socially awkward. Doesn’t talk to people if he doesn’t know you and is extremely shy I’m just the opposite. He father warned him about woman and online woman they hit him up all the time and he ignores them all his dad not me.. He is exactly how
Tony is talking. Wild ikr he stand on business..

I met my first ex at 18, he was 33, I'm Black 'Caribbean' British, he's American/Hawaiian but from the South of North America, he has a very fair/light tan skintone, he approached me, and pursued me, he propsosed within the first three months of meeting, he said he wanted a family with me, but as soon as I got pregnant for him at 19, he was 34, he left me, and he took his engagement ring back, I left college to become a single mother, our child is mixed but her skintone is slightly deeper than mine, I'm a deep toffee tan medium brown skintone, with yellow undertones, he said our child was too dark to be his, which is crazy because she has his features, she looks like him, but she is more on my side with the skintone, I suggested that he should take a DNA test, I hadn't been with anyone else, so I knew with 100% certainty that he was the biological father, but he refused to do a DNA test, he left, he was absent for 16 years, we bumped into him when we were out and about one day, I was shocked, absolutely shocked when that happened and to my surprise, he actually stopped and gave up some of his time, time out of his day, to actually talk to our child, and he accepts our child now, without a doubt, without questioning, he hadn't at that point, not done one thing for his daughter, I still can't believe that, that, that actually happened, that day, since the age of 16, they have been rebuilding their father, daughter relationship, I stay well out of it, I don't get involved but years ago, when I needed him, when we both needed him, when our child needed him, that hurt us, when he left, what he did, what he said, that hurt me so much, it hurt our child over the years, she would often wonder why she didn't have a father, what he did to me hurt me so deeply, it affected me really badly, that's when my mental health started to go down, and I started to have a lot of problems, I've had a lot of support and help, from my family and from professionals, so I am very fortunate and very grateful that I have had that, that has helped me to get through a lot of things, I met my second ex at 22, he was 38, he's Albanian, a White Eastern European, I got pregnant for him when I was 25, and he was 41, he tried to get me to have a termination, but I couldn't go through with that, I broke up with him after that, which wasn't the first time, I had tried to break up with him before, we were on and off for 8 and a half years, often he wouldn't allow for our relationship to be over until he decided for it to be over, he always said, our relationship would only be over, officially done, when he makes that decision, not me, which ultimately he did in the end, one of the times before that, when I tried to break up with him, I broke up with him, when he tried to drive me to the clinic, I was adamant I wasn't going through with a termination, and I nearly had to jump out of the car, I was so done after that, and I really believed that I was done with him, at the time, I ended things again, but he came back, again, I didn't realise we were going to be on and off for many years to come, but at that time, he came back, and he was really begging, proper begging for forgiveness, he couldn't stop apologising, and he was so so willing to finally make a commitment with me, with an official engagement ring, so I took him back, at the time, I really wanted a marriage, and a commitment, and with the engagement and the engagement ring, I thought he was being genuinely serious, during my pregnancy, he said he would be supportive, but he kept accusing me of cheating and being unfaithful, that always hurt my heart, it still does to this day, when he would say things like that, hurtful things, it made me so so upset, I'm not the cheating type, sometimes I couldn't understand why we were together, he was not good to me, I tried to get back into studying and to do something for myself, to build some sort of a career, or to get back into some form of work, even if it was part time, I wanted to do something for myself and for my children, but he wanted me to be a stay at home mother, one of the things that he was panicking about, and why he didn't want to commit to me in the first place, was because I am a black woman, he thought I would be putting his daughter at risk, if I was seen out and about as a black woman, with his child, he never took me to meet his friends or his family, but he wanted to stay by my side when I was pregnant, I don't understand why he did that looking back at it now, especially after seeing all of the things, that have happened since, and with where we are at now, I can honestly say, I regret taking him back when I was pregnant, I wish I didn't, and that I continued on with my pregnancy without him, our child came out of my body with white skin, looking exactly like her father, she is mixed, but she can pass for being a full White Eastern European/Albanian, she doesn't look like a typical mixed race, half black, half white, person, and you would not think, by looking at her, that she has a black mother, which he loves that, he was present at the birth, and he actually asked me, if I was sure the doctor's gave me the right child, and he was there, in the hospital with me, he was my birthing partner, he saw her come out of my body, later, when we were out of the hospital, he went and organised a DNA test, without asking me, one day, when we were at his place, he just came in, into his room, and shoved a stick in my mouth, without warning, without any pre discussions, and made me sign the papers, right there and then, he told me that I didn't need to know anything about what I was signing for, and to just sign the papers, when I saw DNA on the paperwork, and I asked him, was this a DNA test, he started talking down to me, and questioning me, about, am I worried about the results, am I scared what's going to show up, which I wasn't, I didn't cheat on him, not even once, the result's came back, and obviously it was 99.9% postive to her being both of our child, which I already knew, this man is so foolish, our child is his clone, his carbon copy, his twin, so, that happened, there was that, one of the many things that he did, and so much has happened with us, it's unbelievable, my mental and physical health has been severely impacted and badly affected by my exes, but especially by my second ex, he mashed me up, psychologically, and now I have a rare medical condition/illness, which I believe was bought on through stress and emotions, since we broke up, I've remained single, I'm 38 now, I've had a lot of problems, I'm very behind in life, and I'm not where I would like to be in life at the moment, I've been in and out of hospital, I struggle with mobility and body issues, energy levels, pain, sickness, feeling weak, my food pipe is paralysed, I struggle with a lot of things, I have a lot of problems, I struggle a lot, I isolate myself often, I go quiet and I don't talk, I don't keep friends anymore, sometimes I don't even talk to my own family, I'll only communicate with my children, I keep myself to myself, but lately I have been listening to Mr Tony Gaskins videos, and they have been helping me, a lot, this week, I actually had the courage and the confidence, and the strength, after spending years and years of crying over my exes, especially my second ex, and isolation, to delete and to block my ex, I'm not involved with my first ex, at all, so it doesn't apply to him, but I still love my second ex, do not ask me why, he left with no explanation, and I've been single ever since we broke up, I still have him in my heart, I honestly do not understand why, it doesn't make any sense but that's just how I feel about him with my situation on this, I have always wanted closure but I do not think I'll ever get that from him, we do not communicate whatsoever anymore, he really hurt me, he really broke my heart, I'm still very much heartbroken, I cry all the time, about our relationship, with my second ex, and with what happened between us, I feel like I don't really have anyone who I can talk to about my situation, I don't understand what happened, why did he approach me and pursue me in the first place, and treat me like how he did for all of those years, he broke so many promises, he didn't follow through with so many things, I gave him so many chances to change, he tried to get with my older, lighter skinned, prettier sister, but my sister, who I love, rejected him, and I forgave him for that, I forgave him for so many things, he took back my engagement ring, later, I found out that he cheated on me in our relationship, I put up with so much rubbish, with him, from him, I was loyal and faithful to him, and I stayed loyal and faithful to him, even when we were on our "off moments", I honestly do not understand what happened with us, I'm so so confused, still hurting, even though we broke up years ago, but these videos are helping me, not many people make me laugh, but these videos sometimes, they make me laugh, I can be so so sad, for long periods of time, I just cry, and cry, and cry, I get so so upset, I carry so much hurt and pain inside of myself, I'm trying to heal, trying to move on and trying to let go, as much as that hurts, I'm going to try, even though my body doesn't function like a regular person anymore, and I've lost my confidence, and I don't like myself, and I feel so so ugly, and I feel like I'm the worst person, I'm going to try and move on, heal, work on myself and get better, somehow 😢💔🌸

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