Ex's Mind In The Curiosity Stage After Breakup

What if you can’t do no contact because you have a baby together? What other things can I do. ? Anybody have a success story?

@realcoachlee does this apply when my ex is always watching my whatsapp status's .. i post pics of myself an some of me an my son.. has she hit this stage do you think

Should i delete ex pictures in instegram? She did it but i didnt

It's been over a month since my boyfriend of a year and I got into a heated argument and he hung up on me. It was my fault. I was speaking angrily and disrespectful to him. I have reached out and texted him and sincerely apologized. I have tried to call and speak with him, but he is ignoring me. I don't think no contact is working. It's been over a month now and I haven't heard back from him. I really love him and I hope that we can reconcile & he will forgive me. It's easier said then done to just be able to walk away and forget about someone you truly love and want to be with.

Looking forward to the next video in this series.

I stayed no contact with her for atleast 3 weeks then she reached out to me saying i found my self then i said call me she was saying i wont go against my parents she was giving me cold behaviour and then she said i love u and letting you go 😢😢 she just remembered our bad memories i treated her like that all those stuffs she didnt remeber our happy memories we alwasys fight on chat but were happy when we meet should i stay in no contact for 2nd time im too confused tell me plz yeah im working on myself but sometimes i remeber her 😢 she also said me on text she wont comeback ever again😢

Thank you, Coach Lee, for always holding our hands and guiding us through our heart breaks!

I deactivated social media after she left me. Can’t see you, can’t see me 😅

I wonder if there’s any difference if the ex has Asperger’s (on the spectrum but high functioning).

My ex told me early on in the break up that he's not looking for anyone just working on himself. 🙄He does a lot of breadcrumming. Lately he just sends links to news articles, it's like he thinks I'm Martha Raddatz or something! Fortunately my social media account that he was linked to started giving me technical issues, so I created a new account and use a generic picture for my profile photo. He doesn't know much about what's going on with me, until he texts with questions.

My ex wife started seeing someone else. Hurts like hell. Maintains no contact but I’m mostly feeling sick . Hoping her new love interest fails, but then I take it back. The right thing is to wish her the best.

I doubt you didn’t beg but sure🙄🙄🧢

I have been in no contact for 3 weeks. He reached out because our birthday is coming up. His birthday is the day before mine. He sent a text in the middle of the night to " remind me"... I guess as if I don't know when my birthday is? Which is crazy 🤣. When I didn't respond he waited a hour and called me. I didn't answer. I felt that it was too late at night. So the next day I replied with a thanks and that's it. Haven't returned his call. Staying in no contact. This happened last weekend. So far so good 😊

Coach lee thank you it's been hard and you have no idea how much you have helped me and I can't imagine how many thousand you have helped you are an amazing person

I've been with my ex a year and 3 months and I'll tell you she put me through hell I'm back. And I went back I was gluten four punishment.

My wife texts me everyday and tells me she loves me. But we are separated and shes in another state. I think i am enabling her to stay in the other state with her family by being her freind and talking to her so much. im going no contact to let her know what she has at home

After the break-up I've asked him to block me on social media, so that it's easier for me. He's not able to see anything about me. He won't unblock me as I requested it. He's in a rebound relationship now. Earlier I chased him, begged etc.. but I suddenly stopped and went no contact.
How will curiosity or anything else work in this case?

We had a 5 years relationship with very strong bond, but distance and lot of external circumstances caused a lot of stress, and he got "emotionally tired", although we still love each other (he said that).

3 months relationship, 1 month begging and pleading and promising to each other to see (he was willing to see me but cancelled two times), yesterday he blocked me from everywhere after the 6543th dispute. I accused him of being a gaslighter right after via email. I even put someone else in cc in case he spammed my emails too. I do no contact now. I feel my own emotions heavily. I hope I will heal soon.

I dunno, maybe I'm a rare breed. I'm a very empathetic person, and when I left my ex and found out her anger turned to sadness and regret and she was crying and missing me, it made me feel like shit. I hated it, and I wished I had talked to her and worked things out. Not out of pity and sympathy and because I felt sorry for her, but for my existing love for her and it making my heart break 😢 I wish I knew how much I hurt her. I wish I could have stopped being stubborn and fixed things, but I walked away for 5 months, and now it's too late. I lost her for good and I still love her very much... more than I ever loved anyone. We don't speak, and each day, I think of her and regret my choices 😥

No contact always works, my ex reach out to me after 6months , but I have new lover😊

What if I did cheat?

He wanted to have a conversation after the break up, to tell me "some other things not concerning the breakup". I told him i needed time and space before we could have that conversation. I told him he could ask me again to talk if he always wants to but after some time has passed. And then i went into no contact.
But now i'm thinking i've ruined every thing. He knows why i'm not reaching out so he won't ask himself about my silence.

today was the 1st my ex messaged me in almost 6 weeks. didn't say much. Just said she had my stuff if I ever wanted to meet to get it. and she said sorry. said she heard some songs and thought about me. she gave me a couple updates about her life. I didn't say much just let her talk.
shes still not coming back

When i hear the same things again and again from the social media I feel bore when he is already toxic people should not say him wrong.I don't like this I did not leave your videos.

People or Angeles should not compell him they know that he is drooling people are also making fun so I don't want to hear the social media.

Coach lee i did not leave your videos you did not say any wrong thing.

Im going through the same byt i messed up tried talking sense into my ex mind but she is so bull headed abd dont know wgat she wants now im doing no contact hust to makr her mad

It's been two months since he dumped me by phone. I don't think he's curious about me at all I'm blocked on everything except Instagram.

I wasn’t officially dating but was together with a girl for almost a year. She randomly ghosted me then had a boyfriend. He was a piece of shit and had a family behind her back and they broke up. She reached out and said “I liked you and felt like we were dating and something held me back, I don’t know what it was but I regret it more than anything.” Talked through text for a couple months then hung out a few times. Asked if she wanted to go do something and she asked if I meant like a date. I told her not officially a date but not as just friends. She said no that she doesn’t see us being more than friends. I told her I like her too much and can’t do that. Haven’t talked to her for almost a month but her mom told me she constantly brings me up and says that I would “be a good husband” but also says I hate her. I know she likes me and I like her too but as of now I’m doing no contact hoping some time and reflection will make her feel differently. If not I hope I can move on and find somebody else who will appreciate me. Here’s to hoping things change.

19 days of no contact

So both of us have no social media, does that change the dynamic?

I don’t have social media. So they can’t check on me. So….cool…… He’ll never know

This actually works man! I really didn’t think it was not going to work. He told me it would take a miracle to take me back. Initially I went into no contact because I wanted him back. But after the first week, I started doing a lot of things for myself and started to focus on my own healing process. I was slowly getting better. I was journaling my progress as well. And guess who contacted me in 13 days, my ex! He said he missed me and realized he didn’t want to do life without me and when I tell you, he was really singing a different tune. But now I’m at a place where I’m at peace with being alone for now and focused on my goals. But coach lee was correct on everything. He admitted to feeling all these things during all these stages as the dumper. But we are on friendly terms now.

4 months of separation of the ex husband of 18 years, I was in NC for 3 months but my NC is not that strict due to kids, he now started going out and drink! I can’t wait to see him sick! He’s underlying diseases!

Don’t beg, don’t chase, don’t write, don’t call. No one should have that much power over you. They are NOT better than you! Stay in no contact - it works! They must feel your loss. Give them space to miss you. They may not reach out to you but I guarantee if you were a good person to them, in 3 months they will be thinking about you. They may not reach out but they are thinking about you. No contact has worked for me in every relationship- EVERY SINGLE TIME! Learn to love yourself and put yourself first. You’ll heal quickly and only once you put energy into yourself is when they will come back!! Stay in no contact no matter what. Listen to Coach Lee!! 💪🏽

He coach make video on how to stay away from women's and build your career and build ourself.

Amazing stuff

I broke up with my partner because he just did not take me as his priority, and treated me like a nobody. I just want to move on but I still have feelings for him.

He is healthy he knows about the diet.

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She needs me more than i need her. She proved it when she contacted me and asked for me to fix her car. Even though im capable of fixing what ever is wrong i know as soon as i do i will be played like a sucker and will loose even more respect from her than the reason why i left in the first place. im done being some ones punching bag for when ever their life isnt going so great and as time goes on im starting to feel like i dodged a bullet.

It's been a month no contract but the thing is is this going to work if I found out that he's been dating somebody from his work and a month ago when he broke up with me I said is there another woman he said no so I don't know as I've been told he is dating a girl at his job so of course I thought that was the reason he broke up with me we were together a year and a half but at the time he said to me he only broke up with me because he's depressed and the money situation was making him like that now that I found out he's been dating this girl at the job no matter what he had told me a month ago I of course I'm thinking now that I know that it was the girl but what should I do then still continue no contact is that going to work he does have all of our pictures and videos on social media and it still says we're in a relationship I'm hoping he comes back I don't know what to say on this I am doing no contact and continuing like you say in your videos any other thing that I can do to increase my chances for whom to come back should I post more on my social media is that a better thing to do or don't post so it's like I disappear what's the best thing to do when it comes to social media is it best to show him new pictures and this and that all the time on there or should I basically disappear from social media would that make you wonder more can you please let me know thank you

The first time, it was nearly 6 months with no contact before she reached out and we reconciled. This time, she texted me again after nearly 6 months, and said she missed me very much, but after I promptly answered and told her I missed her too, she was silent again. I guess her curiosity was satisfied. That was 2 months ago but I know I'll hear from her again.

I broke no contact. After 4 months. She never responds. She loves Ghosting me.

She cheated i caught her and she broke up with me... We spent four Months trying to talk over it... Its already 8months post breakup and ive decided to go no contact been on it for 2months now.. she hasn't reached out yet...is the no contact still effective

I tried for 5 months to resolve some issues I genuinely had and got positive results until I rushed getting back together. She asked for some time apart and that she'd reach out when she's ready. 8 days into NC, she reached out about something she didn't have to. I was polite and got a positive response saying she'll update me. It's been a little over 3 weeks since then. She added a "Hard to say I'm sorry" to her playlist, but can't tell that I noticed. A few days later, she posted something publicly on Snapchat for the first time, but I didn't click on the notification. Now she disabled her WhatsApp "last seen" status. Looks like she hit point 7 and 8 of the video, but let's see what happens.

I didn’t do a thing wrong. He thought he could breadcrumb me and he thought it was acceptable. Months of me chasing? I had enough. Ended it. But he’s sending texts “I’ll always love you” blah blah blah.. I didn’t answer. I’m not validating that crap. I may have ended it but he ended it when he devalued me and disrespected me by cheating. Im not an option. Im not putting myself out there anymore.

I think I mah have pushed her back in to relief stage yesterday as I went to her house after a 4 hour drive and was so tired and irritable and I couldn't help myself and tell her mot to message me as I cant do it as a friend

I went no contact for 4 weeks. She reached out to tell me how she just wanted to get married to me but my dragging my feet made her pull away. I tried to explain the trust issues and how I too was in pain. We texted back and forth for a couple of hours about regrets and wrong doings. We said good night and I have been waiting for the last 6 days and haven’t heard from her again. I thought if I went back into NC for a couple of days she would reach back out. I think maybe that was her way of seeking “closure”. I should have just been short and sweet with the text I know that now. I’m a fool ugh. Any advice?

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