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Fantastic. Thanks for posting this.
ОтветитьFabulous
ОтветитьHi do u have any info on father child connections!
ОтветитьThanks a lot for upload this lecture, it is amazing to learn from this expert
ОтветитьIt is amazing how completely the infant drinks in the state of being of the mother, especially the highly sensitive one.
ОтветитьAmazing, thank you for your work Dr. Schore!
ОтветитьActually that is all bullshit every cell in your body is receiving information when will science finally catch up
ОтветитьKohut is turning in his grave right now! :(
Ответитьis that his vape pen in his hands? great work. thank you very much for sharing.
ОтветитьThank you for sharing this brilliant insight
ОтветитьInteresting talk when I think of my own foundation and it was abusive had tragic consequences for my life but looking back I can see my parent couldn't even know whether they had a left brain or right brain causw there life was being threatened as she tried to care for us out of having nothing and no needs met herself
ОтветитьI do not have the wherewith all to defend my dislike...I see we will have to agree to disagree.
ОтветитьHard work but very interesting.
ОтветитьIf Dr. Schore is so excited about maternal attachment skills, why aren't we hearing him mention connecting with early childhood educators and therapists? It's great to tell psychologists, but by the time a child gets to therapy, that child is older and a lot of damage has been done.
Ответитьat a loss for words.
ОтветитьGreat. Too bad the camera has not captured the slides. Would have been better if we could have access to the slides he is referring to while presenting.
ОтветитьInteresting that the mother must not only avoid modelling negativity, but that she must also model joy and excitement.
ОтветитьYes, but can he go twelve rounds with Russell Barkley?
ОтветитьDoes handedness have anything to do with right brain dominance? Is there any association with emotional attachment and handedness?
ОтветитьThank you so much for sharing this. I am currently pregnant and my fiancé is going thru legal issues that may cause him to only be able to see his son on holidays. I am very disturbed thinking of how this could effect his attachment and development from ages 0-3 years.
I think of the connection and bond with dada being loving then just not present. I think of the I miss daddy and why isn’t daddy here. I’ve seen other people’s young children go through this.
If you have the time to answer this: I am wondering how traumatizing is this for a child. It is up to his parole officer to grant allowance for him to be a father presently daily or to not allow him to see him for 3 years. His father is so loving.
I’m wondering if there are any Articles or references for this information I could send his parole officer to Inform her of the benefit of his father being consistently present for him. And the detriment of choosing to only allow a child to see his father on holidays and not have that consistent supportive relationship.
I am scared how this will effect his attachment and development through life.
Thank you 💛
At 21 minutes in I love this!! I was havin a sad day and I got in my car and jammed to a song and sang and my baby started kicking inside me like crazy🧡I’m 31 weeks today
ОтветитьThank you, Dr. Schore, for this fascinating lecture. A statement stayed with me: "We have become too left brain in our cultures". Absolutely! This world is desperately in need of empathy and healthy relationships. The vast array of dysfunction in family relationships is so alarming. So many kids are exposed to abuse everywhere. Children are the most vulnerable. It is comforting to know that the brain has plasticity and even if a child was exposed to childhood trauma, there is a chance of emotional and developmental recovery if this child becomes exposed to love later in life. There is a possibility of reverting insecure attachment to secure attachment. That is surely a groundbreaking and life-changing possibility!! Thank you for sharing this lecture. It was wonderful, so informative, and fascinating! Surely, a light at the end of the tunnel, when one thinks about the immense damage abuse causes.
ОтветитьMakes sense, interesting lecture.
ОтветитьThis was extremely helpful and informative. All this body of research in 50 minutes! appreciated.
ОтветитьThanks, yet I question three things: 1) why isn't this video showing all of the evidence that Dr. Schore is mentioning? 2) Is this science or evangelism? 3)Is the only solution for people who did not have perfect parents to pay lots of money to therapists weekly in pursuit of an impossible dream of resolving their defective attachment styles? If the answer to the third question is yes that points to a conflict of interest fed by confirmation bias on the part of licensed practitioners which may not be fully supported by real evidence in cured patients.
Ответитьso then Melanie Klein’s object relations theory was right
Ответитьwhat confusing to me is the following: we form attachment with caregivers, then we feel secure and explore the environment with passion, and when we feel guilty or shame we go back to mothers to freely express our feelings, but as adults what replaces that? a wife or a husband or a child or maybe a house, is it healthy to tie our security to these relations? what if a wife decided to leave we will grief and might regress badly, do adults need security, of course but it should be elicited from super powers like mothers to children.
ОтветитьThank you Dr Schore, for such an incredible summary of vast amounts of clinical understandings and research.
ОтветитьWow! Without Jesus's all encompassing love for me and healing in my life, including my brain, I would have been doomed to a life of disregulated misery. But praise God I am whole.
ОтветитьA deep understanding of attachment theory has made all the difference to me in understanding how early trauma impacted my development and cascaded through my life. At least now I can stop blaming myself for my struggles. Trauma beginning in the crib made it impossible for me to fully develop security in self or safety in the world. I know I'm not alone with any of this.
ОтветитьThe major error, No mom/no me.
No safety, no joy. No attachment rattled the wiring, and attachment order. People have failed, their children, with latch key (no one at home) concepts, abandonment and lack of modeling no mirroring and no god, no love, no mom, creates disorganized attachment and a very mentally, and biologically, disorganized life !!!!
No mom/no me.
I went word by word on the transcript . Holy moly . Also as I was going It all applies to my mom and my dads upbringing.
ОтветитьIt would be nice if we could see the diagrams, too.
Ответитьwith this said, paid parental leave from work during the infants first year should be a human right.
ОтветитьComo dijo Juan Gabriel: Si tú estás bien, yo estoy bien.
ОтветитьQUACK!!!!!!!!!!!!
ОтветитьVery interesting talk.
It's a shame that none of the slides he talks about are visible...
I'm a psychologist. I'm treating people with my Attachment Theory (more neuroscience oriented now) Psychodynamic Psychotherapy. Dr Schore's book is still with me. I really enjoyed this video. Thank you.
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