How to Balance Self Improvement with Friends and Dating: Work-Life Balance | Hamza Ahmed

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Can you make a video about how you find good friends?

Hamza be choking ever girl he sees

Thank you,Hamza
Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it

brilliant advice mate I actually suggested this kind of stuff to my mates recently before I had even seen this video but with no success I said to a load of my mate's let's go camping let's go fishing let's go kayaking but no fucking interest whatsoever from them all they want to do Is hang around town or visit some shitty club or dingy ugly town pub or watch porn goddamn pathetic man. so true what you said about video games I was once gaming way too much every day but I actually wasn't enjoying it whatsoever but it was just normal it was I just guess like an addiction but now for a long time I have limited myself to no more than 4-5 hours of video games a week usually all on one or two days.

basically a bitch or not

the thumbnail lmaoooo

Question what if your the only inviteing people to hangout but they never invite you to hangout do you still hangout with them or are they just using you

This is the key part that soulless productivity gurus miss

just what i needed

Adonesssssssssss😌😌👌.

Quality over quantity.
For social effort .. dont waste time.
Spend value quality time with quality peoples, only...

what if u have no social life

I don’t think this is talked about enough, I especially liked the part of the vid where you talked about preparing for instant gratification rather than just screwing your future self.
Great video!
Better than the new oversaturated with edit videos even though those are better than the phase before that.
This earlier hamza had the most value

Tbh, I’ve never been to a club, or done anything like that and I’m 22. It’s never been my thing. I’d much rather go for a nice meal with friends and have a chat.

Tbh even now... when I engage with others it’s either to exercise (cycle or hike), talk or get food... and talk.

Never been a party person, tbh I’m glad.

having a gf is haram tho brother hamza..

Man I don’t get the wolf memes at all 🤣🤣🤣, tho man…i feel like i cannot give details to my friends on this journey…cuz i know i will get the applause and then will put it aside

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adonis

I disagree. Rule 10. Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. Hanging around losers puts you at risk for infection.

Hamza, I live in Houston, there is no elevation

Imagine having that one homie who sends Hamza videos in the group chat, imagine that one homie who invites all the homies to go to the gym or to play sports. Sad that its me, and sometimes even if you try to elevate with your homies they don't listen, they laugh at you. ''It is what it is''

I need to stop watching these vids cuz I need to improve myself

What if I spend a lot of time(more than 4 times a week) with "IG buddies" while doing delayed-gratification activities

Yo what's up with that death grip on the lady's nick in thethumbnail?

bro that thumbnail

Choking a woman in your thumbnail.. and you wonder why feminism exists.

why u chok her?

He’s gaining 100k subs a day

Meditating on top of a mountaic actually could be a cool thing to do

One of the underrated videos in hamza channel

yo hamza whats that thumbnail buddy XD

I wish i had a older brother like you.

ok bro why were you staying her in the thumbnail

I hope this video has an Indonesian translation because I really need it

Then when it comes to the question of for example, resting proper time at night to optimize gym gains and going out and improving social skills, what do u have to choose, because in my mind what u first need to do is priorituze the gym until u have reached a decent progress because its gonna level up the baseñine of your social game

Right video at the right time

THE DESCRIPTION OF AFTERS WAS SO SPOT ON IM CRYING

This is engaging material. If the topic appeals to you, I'd direct you to a similar book. "Dominating Your Clock: Strategies for Professional and Personal Success" by Anthony Rivers

but even when I play only on for example friday the time I have put into videogames is not going to come back because I could read instead or do something more productive // right now I have a dilema one online friend from another country wants me to play with her again and I don't really want to say no because she has helped me alot during the past years of my life so I am not really sure if I should cut her off too since she is a jeffrey because she plays videogames but even tho we can't see each other often we used to get on facetime like every other day before I got onto self imporvement and it used ti help me alot she even supports my self improvement understands it and motivates me to do good stuff even to stop playimg videogames which I have already stopped but now she wants to play together again // do I cut her off or what do I do?

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Dot Points:

1. Use delayed gratification activities with friends to double up as social time, as opposed to instant gratification.

2. Be the mf to invite ppl (and rock up no matter what) as opposed to the loser who always waits to be invited

3. There is no making up for missed workouts. Plan ahead for instant gratification.

4. If you wanna play video games, play a marathon once a week (builds hype) rather than everyday.
<- minimal consequences; maximum gratification
<- you become more scarce in your gaming friendgroup

5. Surround yourself with people that want to self-improve (whether new to it or further along). Not gendered, but manifests differently in males and females

6. Still have the Instant Gratification group of boys when you need to forget the other stuff (max twice per week)

7. Spend max time with high value people, as long as you get return on investment

8. Best group of boys are the boys you do Delayed Gratification with (DG > IG)

I love you hamza thank you so much I really needed this frl I don’t know why I didn’t come here sooner I’ve been overthinking on friends and shit but you always have the answer

Brilliant

Yo this video was super impactful, probably your best one yet. You should make this an intro video to most of your self improvement videos because the tendency is just to isolate and actually just become a dick. This is really important and healing

EXCUSE ME.. ehmmm I’m a crystal bitch, whose in the gym 7 days a week, 5 of which are for strength/weight training but I also dance and do yoga, and eat clean, cook good and look good lmao going for my masters degree and work full time THANK YOUR SIR.. lol no but fr I get what your saying and loved it but you made my head tilt when you automatically assume there’s no girls out there who are doing what your doing or even doing more. You got your shit together 👏🏼💯 I’d like to say I do to and I know plenty of women who also do ❤… oh and I can do a pull up (just one but one nonetheless!!😂)…. I know all the Jeffries are gonna come for me 😂