HE'S NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

Reuben your conversion rate is top tier 4 goals in 4 games fam

Loving these series very informative keep up the work 👏

You might as well release a book my guy

FACTS!!! Absolutely spot on in my opinion

Continue to Preach 👍🏾

Girls hold on to the hope that he will eventually come around. Setting yourself up for heartbreak.

Yessss!! Awesome words of wisdom as always! My dad is getting back into the "dating game" after 33 years of marriage (my mom passed 5 years ago 🙏) and he has no idea what he is doing lol...I told him about you so he can watch your videos because he needs help out here dating in 2020 😂😂😂...looking forward to more great content!

Nothing but straight facts mon gar ☝🏾

That stepping away & allowing them to figure out what it is they want is key...

Giving us more gems 💎

You should do a video on how mandem should and shouldn’t approach a girl on socials

Originally you had expectations , morals, calibers then some how you started to settled for some half hearted promise ... it’s long... ladies don’t do it 😤🗣even men please .... 🤧

Cmonnnn gang shiii

Had to rewatch. It's just pure facts.

Honestly everything ur saying is facts!!! Girls really get lost in the sauce & fail to read in between the lines.

I agree that as women, we can tell from early that it’s going to be a situationship but WE !! Looove to think about the potential but not remembering that potential is a possibility of what MAY happen down the line and not what WILL happen. So you’re right, most times it doesn’t work out in the end.

Love these vids 📝😆

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A video on long distance relationships if possible

Wisdom 🤝

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I’ve been in this position one too many times 😭 like bruh was it crack? Anyway this spoke to me and I’m glad you touched on it. Could really be an eye opener to many girls out there. Really happy I’m now dating someone willing to commit and risk it all. ✨

I hope to come across more guys like you 😩

Love your mentality 👏🏾

I met a guy literally 2 weeks ago. Casual situation. But very quickly he was acting like it was more than that so I could see his feelings were becoming conflicted with what his original intentions were... he asked to postpone us next seeing eachother because he’s scared of how much he likes me, he wasn’t expecting it and he’s just not ready after his last relationship/messy divorce which was around a year ago.
I took online advise! (Because I’m clueless about men) and I’ve stepped aside saying he needs to sort himself out, that I’m disappointed because I like him but I can’t hang around for uncertainty.
It’s only been a day but I’m glad you said what you just said! It reminded me that I made the right choice and if he bounces back then great! But if he doesn’t then I saved myself a lot of grief.

He was honest and told me didnt like the calls of worrying hes with someone else and that doesnt like the co dependent stuff. So I think I just need to chill

I was chatting to a guy for about a month or two, we eventually went on a date. Just a coffee date. I didn’t want anything to fancy. The chemistry was there, the laughs the jokes. Everything went really well. Although he was out a three year relationship he was getting married next year moved out the house him and his ex bought. (His ex cheated on him for a year and a half). Sitting back in his car, he looks at me and says “I’m taking you out this Saturday, wear something nice but casual” when I was leaving his car he kissed me. The closer Saturday was approaching I asked him “are you still looking forward to sat” he ended things. He was nice about it, the usual; I was funny, nice, great personality and very attractive. Everything just went really well, but he’s still in limbo basically. If I wanted to date someone with potential I got his approval for that because he didn’t know when he was going to be 100% ready! I told him I’m sorry you feel this way, you need to do what’s right for you, I can’t make you spend time with me or force that. He says “I’m sorry, I hope you find someone that can make you happy” my reply was “I’ll miss you, I want to regularly be dating someone. Thank you” it’s been three days nothing back. He drove past me yesterday after work hours and he looked at me sad like. But I had to acknowledge that I didn’t see him.

a guy is doing this to me saying he is not ready but he wont even text me back for days and wont even come see me. i just texted him that i will leave it up to him if he wants to continue talking to me as i dont want to always be the one texting first and waiting around. i dont even want to get in a serious realtionship myself, just dipping my toes but i do like this guy just dont know were i stand with him.

Jesus ...this was exactly the excuse he gave today ...he said his high school girl friend cheated on him and he was really hurt . This was a situation of over 4 years ago cos currently he's in year 3 of college. I knew he was just looking for an excuse to not get into a relationship then I told him that I can't go on with someone who doesn't see me as a priority ,I ended it ....now that I'm watching this video I'm really glad I did honestly ....this literally happened today
Then he asked if I would still reply his messages on social media ,I said yeah(I shouldn't have said yeah😭) but I told him that if I find someone new ,I would have to stop talking to him...

Ngl I’m in this situation right now. He said to me: “I really like you n I want to get to know you... but I’m not ready to commit or be in a relationship... but let’s see how it will go” he’s texting me everyday, telling me how he wants to see me, I can tell he’s a good guy, he’s so Cary ngl... last time I wanted to have s*x with him n he told me that we don’t need to rush things. I’ve been seeing him for almost 2/3 months now n every moments are so special. Best believe we never have sex yet... but now I ready to give up. What shall I do?

My ex said to me he not ready for relationship,some harsh things were said now I have leaned back so he can sort his head out!

Love this💯

Great video!

I really needed to hear this! So glad I found it. Even though he was acting like he was in a relationship it ultimately boiled down to the fact he still didn’t want one. Walking away is the best option!

So true! It’s all an excuse for he’s just not that into you. But of course as you like him and are willing to hang around he will use you to get all the relationship benefits minus the commitment and you will settle for breadcrumbs in return

I'm not ready to give what you are willing to give.

@Apollo M. Cheers! But you forgot, that some guys may feel her, but are "not willing/ready to sacrifice" etc. as you said, not because of her, but because of himself. Because he lacks the tools to be in a proper relationship that requires focus etc., which he is not even able to give to himself. I think some women also need to hear this and understand, its not about them, but about him. Nevertheless, step away and focus on yourself. Its his job, not yours!

If he’s not ready and you are, love and honor yourself enough to move on. You might have met the right person at the wrong time. This is what happened to me. I moved on.

If he’s not ready, Keep it moving, ladies!

Time wasters

You are so right ✅️ 👏🏾. I've been seeing this guy for 2 years now. In the beginning he said he wasn't ready for a relationship because he's too "busy" and I understood, and now that I finally asked him again, he has the same answer and says it's not fair to be with me when he's busy and he was hoping I would break off our situationship when I found someone I want to be with. 🤨 And also, he's busy but still has time to spend nights, do couple things and be intimate.

Thank you for the answer I told him the same since he always give the excuses that he wants me and really needs me on his life but currently he is facing difficulties so he is not ready for relationship but in future he will be so I should wait for him. But he will still treat me like a girlfriend calls me title like my love, darling and so many things. In short confuses me that actually brought me so much pain the fact that I started falling for him more and more due to being treated good with him. But then I realized he was manipulating me to be with him without any sense of commitment. So I told him he needs to sort out his problems and be sure to available both mentally and physically to me, for me to be with him and told him we can be friends and nothing else up to when he is ready. I had to broke his phone number every contact I was having with him so that to stand on my decision. To be honest after saying and doing those decisions I feel much better and happy. I realized that was the best decision for me and not him so guys don’t settle for something less than you deserve. I will wait to give the energy and love to someone who is ready to give the same efforts to a relationship as I do.

Just had this done to me 2 weeks ago you spelt it out well. Just don't waste your time. So true.
He said to me exactly whst you said my x was tricky it was a bad situation all those excuses just like you said... he said maybe in 6 months I may feel differently?
I just said I am moving on I wish him love and happiness I am going to date other men and get on with my life. Hopefully I will meet a man who thinks I am earth committing to 👍.

Well said👏🏻👏🏻

Are you willing/prepared to fall in love? GREAT QUESTION!

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