不對的人就放手吧！如何讓感情順利？ Let go of the wrong person! How can we make relationships work smoothly?

In regard to the second question, I think the difference between admiration and liking someone is there can be an imbalance within that relationship, whether its romantic, work, friendship etc. A lot of the time admiration is one sided and if your in that kind of relationship then no one is on equal footing. Liking someone is wanting to be around that person because you make each other happy and hopefully will lead to a relationship where everyone is an equal and that you help each other become better versions of themselves, to grow your love together. Admiration can also lead to dangerous behaviour in that you want the other person to be happy etc but at the expense of your own well being. Romantic love is where you both want the best for each other whereas admiration can lead to you putting the other person on a pedestal and ignoring their red flags or flaws which can lead to harm for the other person.

謝謝你們的影片與陪伴❤️，想看吵架直播🤣

Thanks。。。。其实在马来西亚呢，如果是在大城市像，kl, 梹城，新山。。。等地方都是蛮开放的，但最重要的是不要牵涉到马来民族（如果是有就要偷偷摸摸咯，因回教是不能接受plu的）至于其他种族他们也是敢在街上牵手，哈！但不能在大庭广众接吻，如有人举报或被警察发现那是犯法的会被罚款。其实在kl或其它大城市也是有同志的酒吧但不会像台湾，泰国或其它国家show出来，而它是因为可能很多同志会去那一间那就成为了同志聚会的地方，其实在马来西亚很多人都敢承认自己是gay的了，可能刚才那位同志他没有朋友是gay的，所以他不懂要找谁谈。其实马来西亚也是有非常多同志的人。只是千万不要牵涉到马来同包，我有一位朋友他的男朋友是马来人，所以出街就像和朋友出去逛吧了咯，但在家你要做什么都没人管，然后出国旅行要做什么都可以。他应该多认识其他同志朋友，然后开始新的生活，不然就会一直被绑住。。。。。
谢谢您们的影片，其实你们给的意见蛮好的 ，永远支持你们的江川。。。

You guys are couples right?...... but the channel is not showing couples things, like prank, play time, watching this channel is not fun and I love the three of you guys

This episode was so interesting...
Firstly, being rational/ logical , to me, is wonderful. When dealing with the problems of others, one must stay objective to remain impartial.

That being said, I began watching bl dramas when some of my grandsons came-out to me. I had no experience or point of reference and wanted to learn and be supportive. Thru some of these dramas, many new topics were discussed, things that as an old grandmother I had no idea of. Such as in the usage of "he or she" in conversation, the displays of affection, the health concerns, the reality of sexual concerns. I still consider myself ignorant of so many issues, but shows like yours are helping me more identify with those members of my family. Very grateful for your candor.

I think queer movies can immerse people in the LGBTQ+ world, but BL it's something like romcomе, not about reality, it's something as near to fairytale.

崇拜就好像我们三明治们崇拜欣赏你们3人的感情可是我们都知道自己不可能可以参一咖变4人感情，最多变朋友，没有非分之想。喜欢则是想要变成第4咖不只是朋友。 😅

the videos of answering the letters are going very well. i am sure that thanks to you a lot of people's confusion is being solved. i felt very sad when you read the last letter. i had a friend who was in such a situation and now her life is in a very horrible phase. i can't help her. please if you see this comment of mine don't continue in such a situation again. you are a wonderful person and you should be with people who love you. 9 years is a very long time and you have to stop.

很理性的分析(Very rational analysis.)

祝福💛🧡也期望大家的問題都能順利解決

i'm sorry guys that it took so long for me to watch this. but i honestly believe you 3 handled it awesomely. it's very difficult to do that. i did not envy you on this one. but well done. love, Daniel 🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈. and Happy Pride Month. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Comecei seguir vocês agora, ja tinha visto vocês no Tik Tok acho lindo a relação de vocês três ♥️

I feel like Jeremy’s ideology is closest to mine. While Adam and Grayn have very solid points, Jeremy is saying exactly what’s on my mind
I think you guys should check your personality types. It’ll be fun content
Jeremy seems like an INTJ to me

This is my perspective. I watch a lot of BL'S. For many reasons. But the thing is, everybody is born romantic. How they choose to display their romantic side is on them. No matter how many bl's I be, in your relationship you have to decide how romantic you want to be to your partner. That's the bottom line.

Hindi the official language of India is also very gender specific like French. Regarding gender specific traits in a BL series is just to portray difference between two same gender artists to give more happy moments to viewers who want this to be specified.

他们很好？ 继续制作有关关系事实的视频。 例如，共存、住房（如果每个人都住在一起）、家务、旅行计划。 预先感谢您🇧🇷❤️（使用谷歌翻译😃）

🇮🇳 and 🇰🇷 will celebrate their Independence Day on 15th August.

Hi three brothers we lovely 🧍‍♂️🧍‍♂️🧍‍♂️😘💕 video super

Hi three brothers love you please Mini vlog video😘😘🇮🇳👨‍👩‍👦‍👦🙋‍♀️

Hi three brothers Tamil Nadu India Indian Wednesday
ThursDay😊😊 happy India
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Привет я тоже соглашусь вы очень классные продолжайте снимать,видео такой тайной пары я хочу сказать иносказательно треугольник ещё не, известно и очень интересны сами отношения вы троя очень интересны и чувства, которые идут они многогранны и эта очень интересно я новинки,на канале прошу не обижайтесь что я не знаю вас по именам но я постараюсь вас, запомнить по именам я знаю что с моей стороны это как-то не много,не культурно но прошу прощения заранее спасибо за понимание буду ждать, вашего выхода видео удачи ребята. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Vocês são fofos do jeito que são. São formas de amor, e isso é tudo💚🌎🌏🌍💚

Regarding BL dramas, one must learn to distinguish between Reel and Real life. While Reel is a concise adaption of situations of several hours and days into limited time period, whole real life is 24x7 with all ups and downs. One must watch BL dramas for their entertainment value and give good vibes when endings are happy. They must not be inspiration to be adapted in real life, but work out to bring best effects.
Each country has its own response to relationships. For example in India, two boys or two girls holding hands is just a common sight without eyebrows being raised, but a boy and a girl holding hands is frowned upon. Each country deals with the sexuality differently.
One must learn to distinguish between toxic and real relationship.
It was good of you to take up problems of the viewers and give your output and responses. Looking forward to more videos. Love and blessings. ❤❤❤

論述的超好 做自己最棒

Adam❤

Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪. 👏👍👌. All the Best for you THREE🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

😊😊😊❤🌈🏳‍🌈Brilliant you are!🌟

Adam listening and nodding his 😂😂 head is so cute 🥺🥰🥰

♥♥♥祝你们在一起的日子快乐 😊

Jeremy...Where is your wedding ring.????

Jeremy's expression when Grayn said, "even their farts smell sweet" was the same as mine!

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É por isso que sou admiradora de vocês, por que são pessoas que são coerentes nos seus pensamentos e atitudes, todos colocara muito bem suas opiniões e com certeza ajudaram e muito, sobre a ficção e a realidade realmente é necessário distinguir pois as produções artísticas tem sua importância no que diz respeito a aproximar as pessoas a comunidade LGBT mas são feitas para nos entreter e fazer pensar e questionar sobre o amor sem preconceito, obrigada pelo vídeo foi incrível, amo vocês 🧡🧡🧡

Adam❤❤❤

錄一集吵架的😂

Très intéressant. On ne répète jamais assez que les dramas sont pour faire rêver. C'est bien que vous le fassiez. Vos point de vus et analyses dont fines et justes . Merci encore pour ce moment

對我來說，崇拜就等於接受對方的一切，並接受它，就好像對方是一位沒有缺陷的上帝一樣。 就像你不接受一切一樣，你可以看到缺陷，但你可以忍受它們，用這兩個詞來定義關係是很複雜的，和你喜歡/愛的人一起生活就是擁有更多並給予更多。 我就是這麼想的🇧🇷🫶

Hello guys. The last question was most troubling to me because that person has compromised his happiness simply to make a fantasy remain true.

In a country where LGBTQ rights are so restricted, this guy will definitely marry the girl and have children. He says she was waiting until marriage for sex. I’m not sure I believe that. I think he needed to justify himself for still having sex with that person.

For this to be going on for 9 years seems more unreal. But say that it is, he needs to move on and find the life that’s better for his in a mental state of mind as well as a moral one. Just because he lives in a country that refuses his rights as a LGBTQ person is no excuse for him to be living as a person “without a moral code”. After 9 years, I would have to ask the person who sent this question, “who are you”.

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I love how their emotional intelligence combines with rationality.

I think, it's not necessary to speak loudly about your sexuality everytime and everywhere, because that's very private matter, concerning only very close and confident persons 😊

一口气看完所有影片❤太好看了！锁死！！！！！太般配了三个人

Coitado do rapaz malaio, está num relacionamento tóxico, onde o pilantra só o usa como depósito de porra, que um dia ele possa se livrar do traste e ser feliz 🙌

Eu amo esses tres❤😂

No puedo hacerme miembro, cancele la membresía pero ahora no puedo volver a tomarla, alguien habla castellano que me ayude 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

I believe many relationships start with infatuation, based a lot on looks, less on personality. Once the "honeymoon period" is over what's left is about personality, and too often one realized their personalities are compatible. As you mature you realize that perfection in a relationship doesn't really exist, and that for a relationship to last you have to work at it. Even some more recent BLs try to show this - which is good.
About the guy in Malaysia, one point should be added, that once he gets married and can have sex with his wife, he likely won't need you - which is soooo sad. One other thing I thought of as well, about gays in many countries with family pressure to marry, even if they don't want to. It could be that this comes from family pressure too, but wasn't mentioned. There could be other reasons, too, that weren't said. I feel bad for both of them.

謝謝你們回答我的問題，讓我爆哭😭😭其實你們這樣自然地展現遇到的困難和幸福對我來說就是最浪漫