HOW TO KNOW A PERSON: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply with David Brooks

For the past four years, New York Times columnist and acclaimed author David Brooks, author of "How to Know a Person," has been trying to learn the skills that go into seeing others, understanding others, making other people feel respected, valued, and safe. Such social skills may sound trifling, but mastering them, David believes, could help us all make better decisions, enhance our creativity, and maybe even repair our nation’s fraying social fabric.

02:05 🧐 *Morality includes daily interactions with others.*
03:22 💡 *Treat all with patience, empathy, and curiosity for a profound impact.*
07:22 🌟 *Paying genuine attention transforms relationships.*
11:27 😕 *Egotism, anxiety, and narrow viewpoints hinder understanding.*
19:46 🕊️ *Seeing the soul in others reflects love and goodwill.*
21:38 🗨️ *David Brooks emphasizes seeing people as individuals.*
23:01 🤝 *Radiate warmth, genuine interest, and care in conversations.*
25:48 🗣️ *Practical tips include "gem statement," avoiding topping stories, and "looping."*
28:08 🤐 *Don't fear pauses in conversation; they show respect.*
30:47 🤔 *Asking big questions leads to meaningful conversations.*
35:05 💬 *Teach interpersonal skills, like flirting and storytelling, in schools.*
42:24 🧠 *Balance analytical and narrative modes when understanding people.*
43:40 🌟 *Perception involves predictions and checking for understanding.*
47:46 😔 *Rising mental health issues call for rebuilding trust.*
49:38 🌐 *Lack of recognition leads to societal breakdowns.*
58:36 🏡 *Rethinking community design for deeper human connections.*

• David's new book is How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen (https://amzn.to/3ScRlvm)


• Learn more about Weave: The Social Fabric Project at weavers.org (https://weavers.org/)


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