If He's Not Ready For A Relationship, Do These 5 Things - LIVE With Dr. Antonio Borrello!

I got caught up in being too available for three years😢. I can only think of him, yet I know he can’t be in a relationship with me. I’m messed up emotionally and need to heal. How can I heal to be available for the right man?

We have been talking for 7months
So a month ago I was going to have “the talk” with him basically breaking things off and letting him this situationship isnt working for me anymore, two weeks after my attempt his father passed away. They just buried him two weeks ago, and im trying to be there for him, but I am sooooooo annoyed and frustrated and dont wanna do this anymore. Im trying to figure out when!! Please help.

Hey Helena, what should I do if I'm exclusive with a guy and he starts pulling away and being distant? I might be at a point where I want to keep my options open but I'm not sure how to bring that up to him. I like him but I like me more. Thanks for all your amazing videos 💕

Wow! Thank you! This is exactly my situation and you answered the questions I've been ruminating on for the past 5 months. I will try to let you know what happened down the road.

U nice

How does #4 change if you're friends and things feel romantic?

So you dont talk with them I pull back no comminication? What do you fo when they call come over Help!!!

Please link the video where you talk about how to get him to invest in you! 🙏🏻 ❤

He is right 💯 the more you do what a Man told you to do for him he will treated you like a cheapest thing with no values.. thanks for your advice Doctor Antonio 🙏❤️

I could have used this video like a month ago....Now I know better though.

This video has filled a gap of what I HAVE NOT heard yet. This specific topic has been so helpful. Antonio is awesome.

These are my 2 favorite people to listen to for relationship advice. I love Dr. Antonio & Helena!
So stoked to see them both chatting together with us! 💕

Ok , should I tell him I’m going on a date ?

Should I tell him my options are open

What about a long-distance relationship when you started great but now you can feel him pulling away

Confirmed thoughts and answered questions 💯💯 TY so much ❤

He ignored me for a short time. He comes back with a full understanding of a misunderstanding. But he still says I love you. ❤ this is a message from Charlcie Lott not Bobby Russell. Just using his phone. Customer I love to watch Antonio.

I have a new boyfriend name Matt, And we have been dating, for seven months. And we have talked about settling down, with each other, he told me, that he does not want to, rush into it. And I told him, that I agree with him on that. I would like to know, what you think about this.

I'm from Malaysia n my bf n me broke up in March n I told him we need time to cool down n if he decided to find I wish him luck but until now I can't forget him..I still love him so much...😢 what shall I do

What if he say the word "Understood" respond it means it over?

I think I like the chaperone date idea! So it keeps the crazy stuff out 😂

Omg this is the best video I have seen this sounds like you all are talking to me. The other day my boyfriend made a comment saying that he feels like I'm dating or seeing other people. He also made a comment about me acting different with him when we were on our date. I wonder what made him say that. Can anyone answer my question

This video is everything I need it to know… thank you so much guys.

“KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN”. A reminder to all of us going through this bs.

I love my boyfriend whom I’ve been with for one year. I keep asking him to move in with me so we both can have a bigger place. Cause we both live in SRO’s (single room occupancies). But he tells me he’s waiting for his son to move down here so he can live with him and I tell him I worry I’m going to be pushed out once his son is brought down here. How do I convince him to move in with me?

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Can a passionate intimate sexual connection of around 4 weeks duration become an emotionally intimate connection? In this case it’s been long distance - about a 5 hr drive one way - and we haven’t actually met yet.

I have been in a long distance relationship for 11 years and he still won't commit....he lives in England and I live in New York.....what can I do?.....he gets mad every time I mention it......but 11 years...help!

I wish I would of seen this before now I have to live without the man I love and now will be single for the rest of my life because I will always be I love with him

I reconnected with someone from high school. we did get intimate a few times but I took that off the table because he doesn't want to have anything exclusive right now so we both agreed to take it slow and see what happens. We walk every morning during the week before work but the weekends are for him and I don't usually hear from him until Sunday but sometimes he surprises me on the weekends.Him and I have had many missed connections over the years. I have decided to try and date others even tho I don't really have the mental bandwidth for it.

Best video I ever watched. Thank you very much !!

If he's an narcissist, it's not going to work. Period!!

Loveddddd This❤❤

I am going through this now...he told me this 2 days ago....we established ground rules on how we will continue see each other but I am still uncomfortable with his decision so my behavior and actions (I pulled back a bit) are different... now he is having nightmares I am with other guys and texting and calling more than usual...wanting me to meet his family now...we are still seeing each other but he feels my energy...definitely setting a timeframe in my mind...then the talk

Should women plan the all the dates? Is it okay to hangout with him everyday after the first time you meet him?

I'm in a Relationship But he keeps blocking me and leave me for 4 weeks at a time
He is 64 ...I'm 76 ???? 76 ??

I am somehow in the same sit but LDR..can u give some advice

Probably the best podcast i have ever watched

My uncommitted “friend” told me all along he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Now I found a wonderful man who asked me for full commitment and I told my “ friend” about it cuz I can’t see him anymore he says “why are you leaving me”? REALLY DUDE???? Wth I can’t leave someone I never had!!! I replied.

Best video EVER!!! Please make more of these !

He hard core pursued me asked me to be his girlfriend then 2 weeks later said he’s not sure if he is ready for a serious committed relationship just last week said he’s falling in love and gave me a key to his home so confusing … I was upset but in the end I said ok I want you happy go do you I said do you want your key back he said no I said ok you don’t want us together but you want me to keep key he said he still wants to see me from time to time and he’s afraid I’m going g to tell him I’m
Done with him help

If their failed past is more important to them, than present and future success with someone new, they are not ready and trying makes you a rebound, so let them go. Go find someone who ls ready.

I know him for 5 months. It started that we had sex from the beginning. After 4 months I asked him if we're exclusive, he said, yes but still see eachother once a week. He never meet me on Saturdays. I told him, I want 100% of the relationship but He says that he has to spend time with his mom or son and he has time for me only once or twice a week. Should I move on because he can not do 100%?

What happens if you were always TOO available for him though and last minute ? How can you switch it around ? Is it too late?

I've done so much work internally that when he said it wasn't ready... My interest in him, just naturally fell away. We're not on the same page. I respectfully and quietly moved on.

Amazing, thank you

My partner and I been following each other on Instagram for a year and now unfollowed me, while we still talk to each other on there. My partner prefer to keep their dating life private or not see a reason to post their love life on social media. We think that for the moment it is not good to be together. We are not into long distance relationships. This lends itself to misunderstandings. He lives an hour and a half away from me, but will live in the same city next year. His mom and family also lives here that's another reason why he wants to move in the same city. It’s better to take it easy and next year when my partner is alive we could talk about something serious. At this time it is not advisable to maintain any relationship because he has things going on such as work. It's not the end of the world because next year we can formalize a committed relationship that we want to be in. 🥰

I met someone who said he already has a, "friend with benefits", and doesn't know what he feels for her. But he told me that he loves me - although I don't bump into him anymore because I avoid him. But I am in love with him..... Should I wait for him ?

There are two men that I've been in sexual friendships/relationships previously. We are all VERY mature people and none of us have been in relationships for years. I have realized however that I want more. I want to possibly get married again. However there is one man I want more than the other but they both seem to only want friends with benefits still. I want to know how to broach the subject of more and another thing, how do I decide between them. Do I bring up exclusivity with both and decide then based on their reactions?