Being Lonely in Your 30s

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WHY CAN'T WE, SELF ADMITTING LONELY OR LONELIEST HUMANS COME TOGETHER, MEET UP, CATCH UP, TALK, LAUGH & CRY TOGETHER WHETHER IN PERSON OR ONLINE? WHAT'S STOPPING US??? GOOD CLIP JAY!!!

I'm 32 and lonely too, but in my case I straggle away from my friends, I finish college but have been unemployed for a few years, still relying on my folks, ashamed, embarrassed, I avoid people so I don't have to talk about it. I basically hide in my room.

Ironically most people your age with a family & friends are way more lonier and insecure inside

Even Ryan Gosling is lonely :(

It’s not easy making friends, especially when you have been hurt so much. It’s not easy to find genuine and honest people anymore.

You nice

Don't worry about it one day you will fine the right person

Hypergamy

I feel this because it’s really hard to find friends without kids and I’m getting really tired of that. Specially when I’m told that 55 percent of millennials not just millennials, but also GenZ now aren’t having kids and it was a 2% decrease of people who had kids last year versus this year so why can’t I find any non-kid friends

I’m 30 yr old woman, also single live with my parents. But have a job and pay my own bills. I don’t care about making friends I just want to get married and have kids 😅 best of luck to you ❤ don’t give up go dating

Man, I am 38 and always felt the exact same way. People don't realize that after school, your social life starts declining, you meet people either through work or others. you can't meet people through others if they either moved away because of relocating or a job. Let's be realistic, work is sometimes not the best place to meet friends because it's prone to drama. I work from home, which makes it impossible to meet people through others, and everybody I know moved out of state, which means they have to visit me or I have to fly to them. It becomes also sociably awkward to toss your number at somebody who you just met without coming across is weird.

You're no longer a kid that you could just say: "my names so and so" I live two blocks away. Here's my number without looking like a psycho. Keep in mind that I am Social but I'm limited because I meet people rapidly when I go out shopping or buying things for the house. It's not exactly a place to meet friends. Loneliness isn't just about people that are antisocial or don't try. It also hits people who are social but just stuck in situations where they can't meet people. I've been fortunate enough that my friend stay in contact on the phone, maybe jumping a multiplayer game which I'm grateful for but they're not physically present.

And what's weird is that the loneliness starts making you anxious, and making you think there's something wrong with you when there isn't. For example, I've had a couple neighbors in front of me and nearby, up the street move in same age younger home owners and no matter how hard I try to reach out to them, social, etc. they seem content with their circle friends and don't need anymore that after a while starts making you think there's something wrong with you?

Same thing here. Im turning 30 this year. Ive been losing friends left and right, from distance because i moved cities, a long relationship that made me distance from them.
Family is out of picture as well, for my decision and my mental health.

Now i just have contact with my coworkers wich are just plain fucking awful and a nigtmare to work with. Ive been thinking of unsubscribing for a while now, hanging by a thread to test if its even worth keep fighting.

I play on PC but if you wanna play some games, let me know.

Never related to a video more.

Almost 31, don't know how it feels to have friends, never had one, nor a girlfriend for that matter. However, having faith in God and trying to be a good christian, I had learned to love myself and embrance my solitude. A wise man once told me " God protects his chosen ones by isolating them from evil so they won't get tempted". I do believe that God is protecting me from people who might harm me. So, if you ever feel lonely, even though you have what it takes to make friends. I know, I do. Don't ever feel discouraged, because it happens for a reason. The reason is that, you're not the problem, you are good enough for everyone. The bad people around you, think they have acomplished something by having fake friends and fake girlfriends/boyfriends, but in reality, they are envious of you for embracing solitude as a king, thus, with all their power, want you to feel bad. Don't let them win. They aren't strong enough as you. They have a weak mindset. Trust me, you are special. I hope, someday, I will have the privilige of meeting you and be friends. God protects his people. If you don't have any reasons to not make friends or a girlfriend/boyfriend, but you still can't. Then we are indeed living the End TImes, from which the Bible predicts. I don't feel lonely, I feel protected. I don't care about having a girlfriend. The wise man also told me" The Man who conquers his earthly temptations, will be the most Powerful and Succesful Man in the World" So my main mission is to be part of that category.

I know how you feel I'm 38 single live on my own with no friends and no family support I don't work i have autism im just surviving its so depressing

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I’m glad you decided to film this… it’s courageous… many of us feel the same, but isolate ourselves even further.

I understand that feeling lonely is a bad feeling for many, but let's face it.

If you don't embrace yourself in the beginning, how do you want people to embrace you?

My point is: Find your own meanings in this life and work on them, projects, goals and plans that will serve as your anchor on this planet as long as you live.

No one will be your friend unless you befriend yourself and avoid relying on others, whether in your feelings or life affairs.

Are friends important? Yes
Should not having them make your life hell? Absolutely not

If you help yourself and help the people you can, trust that happiness will come to you and your friends as well on a golden platter.

I wish everyone all the happiness 💫

You are not alone my friend.. Let's meet in Belgium

I'm 34 I feel you

So many of us are in this boat; maybe the problem is we just dont ever get a chance to find eachother. And where does someone go to find a quality friend you can trust and rely on...? You make those over years and years of time... You dont just find them. And some of us just dont end up in an ideal situation that allows us to grow open enough to be able to make friends later in life...

Everytime i try i get robbed or jumped or ghosted or insulted... and ive honestly just given up.

if u come my gas pump I tell f.o. u are lonely.

I'm 35. Going through a tough time. It's nice to hear I'm not alone.

I hope you come to know Jesus brother. God bless you

Here we are once again with one of these videos. How can we all be here and still be alone. Why!?

I know this is two years late, but im here if you want to talk about anything. I'm a stranger too so you can say anything because who cares what I think, ya know? I struggle with PTSD so ...I get it.

Appreciate the bravery. I feel the same way

This is me

Very brave of you to say out loud 🫶🏽

this is me right now. ive just booked a trip to thailand just to feel something.

im 33 Years old. I got a family and just stay at home, i feel lonely sometimes but i am happy with what I have. peace of mind is priceless, i can do whatever I want to do and no one will judge me coz i am enjoying what I am doing. keep going! Peace of mind is better than having friends that is fake.

True is 'friends' only want you to be their clown or to make their life easier. If you can get used to being alone and enjoy it you can really win in this life. How did your boxing class go? Are you still going?

I'm 37 and I'm quite lonely. I've got a great wife and kids, but so many friends moved away and others had some crippling mental health issues. I'd like to make more friends, but I no longer have any time to make good ones. I'm building up new relationships now but these things take so long. Sometimes I think about all of my oldest friends being gone and I have a total breakdown. I'm quite successful in my career but I feel like an utter failure in my social life. I just have to keep marching forward every day hoping that one day it will be better and I don't really have anybody to talk to about it. I talked to my therapist but eventually it felt empty because ultimately I was paying him to listen. I can't put everything on my wife because it's not fair to her. I can only put so much on the limited number of people nearby and hope that things change one day.

i had friends now i feel better alone

Find a good Colombian woman.

I'm 35, a single mom with a son, i have stayed single and alone for 3 years now after the death of my ex but lately it's getting hard to stay single and alone cause i just want a good man with a good heart to love me and be good to my son

It’s the way the housing market is. It’s effecting us all. The world has changed.

It is objectively better if I never existed in the first place.

Im happier living alone and no friends has not been an issue im 36 now

I never feel lonely because my time alone is either relaxing or fun last night i went to the cinima solo and had a blast ❤

Interesting that you’re into boxing. Is that indicative of your energy, of your approach to life, to others? That, in itself, might be key to your challenges. Being combative, always ready to fight, to protect yourself or feeling that you have to be combative might be at the center of your issue. (Imagine the difference if you had said that you were planning on taking a class in watercolor painting!) Men are so f*cked up. They always feel that they have “to be on top!” What madness! Additionally, society has us all feeling that we have to be better than we are. What’s wrong with just being ourselves, and enjoying our lives? Be alert, young man, that you don’t fall prey to “feeling sorry for yourself.” It’s emotional quick sand! I wish you the best.

Try knitting

I always thought it was just a myth about 30s but damn friends that I've known for most of my life just don't wanna know anymore either they'll make up some bs excuse or worst of all read my message and never reply I have a close family but everything just seems so bleak couple that with my grandparents passing lifes really not great anymore sometimes I just feel like saying fuck it and just buying a plane ticket and run away from it all but I don't think that'll really be positive

Have found you feeling like shit, so... thank you

Hi men! Because your alone for long its going to your head. You are absolutely normal and human. No shame for that. I can tell. I think only putting yourself out there or let someone do it for you then it will be fine. Your lovely

About to turn 33, I have social anxiety and can't talk to women, have never had a long term job, no career worth bragging about, I've been single since 2012, and have no friends currently. I want a wife and child so bad and I am starting to feel like it will never happen😢

I’m a 31 year old guy who’a never had a girlfriend, am a virgin, and have no friends. I also feel younger and less experienced for my age. My dream is I’d love to go back to college, make new friends, get a girlfriend, and have a social life.

Ryan Gossling?

Been truly humbled by the sheer amount of people going through the same struggle.

One thing is clear - we're not alone.

Thank you.