Young Divorce - My Story

Kinda getting gay vibe

Marriage sucks. I married my high school sweetheart. We loved each other. genuinely. But she developed some hereditary mental health issues, she hasn't worked in 7 years and we struggled majorly, financially, i drank too much and we grew to the point of contempt around one another. we both have tried to save the marriage and it sucks to call it quits, but we cant stay together just for the kids. too much fighting and I've decided I want to be alone, have my space and time with the kiddos. ALl i will say to you guys thinking of marriage, remember, it doesn't make you love your spouse anymore. Its a legal and financial contract. thats it. more often than not, it pulls in family that you don't wanna be around, brings up old trauma, creates depression and highlights major personal flaws.. we're talking over 50% of the time... so do some analysing. Look at the bigger picture. Relationships are not the be all and end all. Become self sufficient. Marry for parity and equality, not co-dependency. Stay Strong!

Andy, my heart goes out to you. I had a similar experience. It can make you question why you even exist. Be strong and I hope you find the woman you were ment to be with.

She was a lesbian, i think my wife is the same.

I wish i never married.

Dude married a 304 and expected her to change.

She was not ready for marriage. As you said, you guys were too young and u guys might not even know what exactly you want. She didn’t know what she wanted for sure.

Being the good guy and doing the right thing with her wont work, and nothing can change that.

Don’t pick the one you have to pursue. Pick the one that pursues you! Thank you for being brave enough to tell your story. All in all you will be a way better man than you were before when it’s all said and done.

Thanks for sharing. Same situation 31 divorced. Hard for me to talk
Bout it but what you said has really resonated. Also can’t believe this is 8 years ago. Seems you’ve found someone else and had the family you wanted? That gives me some hope

Simple lesson is just dont get married! Its an un-natural act invented by humans! No need for it at all

My brother God removed her from your life. Thank God for you. Follow Jesus, repent of your sins and believe in him.

The biggest take on this…is… you can never really trust someone… cuz they can change in a heartbeat. And ur story is the perfect representation how why ppl go through divorces. I’m pretty sure she cheated on you. Unfaithful=other guys/3rd party

You were happy, was she? Funny how narcissitic people blame others for their own mistakes.

Hey you dated her friend and dumped her for your wife. Karma

Bro what kind of crack were you smoking???… HAHA SMH 🤦🏿‍♂️

yes she was cheating on you, i would cheat on you.

Thanks for sharing.

Dude, you can thank all the men who came before you in history who treated women like shit throughout the centuries and even now, because the women of our time have learned all these bad behaviours from the men and are acting them out in a sort of revenge. Whatever pain you dudes are enduring now from women mimicing men's bad behaviours is your wake up call to evolve as human beings and also teach your "bros" to evolve because men tend to not follow women leaders but women are more gracious and will follow men leaders. I hope the newer generations of men will collaborate with the new women to make a better world.

let go and let your heavenly father do his work. we are in a spiritual war, marriage is the enemy's target, and without the spirit of our creator, we all perish. return to the father. no idols, no graven images.

She cheated on you, she'll cheat on AP

I wonder if you remarried and divorced for a second time? 🤔
I personally don't think love is real. I think it comes with conditions.
However I don't want children or marriage. I'm just looking outside in.

You’re also very young , a man, and have a variety of choices . Women do not . I hate this and I didn’t ask for it .

also you never told us why were u in love with her? like what qualities and character traits did she have other than beauty and made me laugh...

Blinded by beauty? all u guys go and wag your tails around extremely beautiful women, without ever thinking deeper. Is deep thinking is profoundly lost on this generation...

I'm 24 going through divorce had plenty of red flags during relationship but then he changed and I was convinced, so I married him but he didn't really change just hid his affairs and drugs better. Sucks a lot of trust broken, I at least know what to look for and what not to look for. God has someone out there for me regardless I have 2 babies.

I'm sorry to hear your story. You sound like a genuinelly good guy. A bit naive though tbh. The girl you have choosen simply didn't have womanly wife qualities. It sounds like she was more about looking for fun and "exploring her spirituality" rather than investing in building a relationship with you and a family

I’m 23, I’m now realizing she isn’t where I’m at mentally in a prioritized manner. Then again I don’t wanna start over with nothing….

So how’s it going now man? Did you get married again?

You need a red pill so bad, one day you will look back and cringe at this. (I hope so)

My rule is forget about how much they love you. How much do they love God? How much do they love their family? How much do they love your family? The answer has to be a lot for all 3. When their love for you is shaken its the love for both families and the fear of God that will keep them true. A person might be willing to hurt you but will rarely be willing to hurt other people they love. That connection between families and that fear of the consequences both family wise and spiritually is a large part of whats missing in today's marriages.

Have one been divorce n get back together,share experience pls

I'm so sorry you were put through that. And did not deserve it. I'm going through almost the exact situation. So thank you for sharing your story. It helped to know there are other people with similar situations.

yes this is very common in the blue pill betasimp world, its only getting worse, come over to red pill migtow n save urself

Thank you for your testimony! 🙏🏼 The pain is very much real

Dang i wanna see an update ♥️😇

Online dating is great, honestly as much as people hate on it, you just need to be selective with your time and the people you meet. If they ghost you, move on and delete their number. And I agree, it's hard to meet people through mutual friends nowadays.

Reading the title, automatically thought that was your rapper name.

I wish there was someone who would fight for a relationship like you did. This shows what a good man you are. You deserve so much better and I hope you'll get your deserved happiness ❤

Redpill in a nutshell

I got divorce 8 years ago... she was secretly engaged with other guy while being married and she got married within 2 months after divorce.. till today I stayed single..!

I bet it was your wife that wanted that house too!! Never listen to them THOT!! Lucky you gave her back to the streets bruh!! Plenty of fishes in the sea.

So brave and sending you hugs for your experience! I never got married in my lifetime cuz I think it kind of freaks me out or I grew up in a bad environment from it I never got married in my lifetime cuz I think it kind of freaks me out or I grew up in the bed environment from it But I think you're doing such a great job! don't forget another avenue to meet people is to join groups with similar hobbies, or maybe watch pick up a new school like playing guitar something and you can meet people and network beyond where you work or were you going to school which limits you finding people who are alike you. Big higs

Now at my age l am hearing & seeing things that is beyond my teenage years half a century ago. Hardly heard of cheating & divorce in my family. However, it is not the end. Just move on with the church you are attached to. Believe me, it is the bible tht will give you the answers you are looking 4. How you talk in this video, just present it to the Lord. That becomes your prayers. So don't be discourged. Turn your heart & your life to God. Keep busy, build up a career. If you have a hand to mouth life style every month any women will feel insecure. So don't depend on pay cheque to pay cheque policy. Create some cash funds to tie you up during these uncertainties. Trust the Lord. You are a man. Be a good provider, not the other way round. If she's working & has her own money it is a bonus 4 you & the Lord. Nothing belong to us. We are made stewards, it has 2 b yr mentality. Work on your savings.

she was cheating

Genesis 2:18 - And the Lord God said, for the man to be alone is not good (the point of women being opposite physically and mentally) I will make for him a EZER KENEGDO (HEBREW WORD FOR) helper as opposite to him (See my video "JESUS SAYS MANLINESS MAKES US UNSOCIABLE to know what makes women opposite and how every man around the world can get a wife thats opposite/most erotic, attractive, and can do oral, vaginal, and anal sex as often, long and deep as you want).

1 Corinthians 2:14 - But the natural man receives not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness to him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritual in nature.

(Jesus says ) John 10:10 - The thief comes not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

Proverbs 19:14 - a prudent wife is from the Lord.

1 Corinthians 1:18 - For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but to us which are saved it is the power of God (see what being saved does video).

You’re a beta. You can’t be too nice to females.

Hey man. Thanks for the video. Our stories are VERY similar it's crazy. I'm 30 years old and going through this and have the same feelings you do. Thanks for the encouragement and hope in Jesus during this tough time.

I went through the same thing with my ex-wife
The first red flag is she doesn’t want to go through marriage counseling
I don’t think marriage counseling works anyway
I got my ex to go to one session but she turned everything around anyway
Move on and you’ll meet someone better eventually
Take care of you and take time out for you for now

Of course she was cheating... she was riding the carousal

If you dont want kids dont ever marry. If you do, marry young, have them and assume you will get divorced. The emotional loss is easier to bounce back from as a younger person and the financial loss is likely less even with child support. Dont wait to get married because as you age even if you can find a wife, she is likely been bent over by so many men or is divorced or has kids(dont marry single moms) that your marriage will be even worse not to mention if you have started making money and are well into your career and having kids isnt as easy as you age.