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I used to score infj on the test consistently for about a decade, till about 2 years ago when I started to consistently score infp. I find it interesting and to be connected to my personal development journey.
ОтветитьThis is the best explanation.
ОтветитьINFPs are more family oriented as all philosophers types. INFJs as all templar types are about "the world out there."
ОтветитьI still can't tell which one I am 😅
Can one be a mix of infp and infj?
When I was young, I behaved more like an INFP, but as I get older, I become a INFJ-T (tested twice a year apart)
ОтветитьWe also pick up on emotions as INFPs and then we relate by thinking about the time we experienced the same emotion. You need to interview a few more INFPs. We write better than we speak for the most part as well. Maybe make a survey for INFJs and INFPs
ОтветитьINFP-T here. I appreciate the insight on INFJ and INFP. I feel resonance with a few INFJ traits. My zodiac is Pisces so I find myself absorbing the energy and emotions of the people around me. I’m not psychic I think but somehow I am??
ОтветитьDoes ambivert exist?
ОтветитьI was really in between the two, but this is the only video that made it very clear which one I actually am, thanks !
ОтветитьOMG, as soon as you mentioned the obsession with a particular topic, I finally knew I am an INFJ! I can obsess over a subject matter for months and months, and when I finally feel that I've absorbed everything I could with my intellectual capacity, I move on to another. I am extremely discontented if I don't have an ongoing obsession with a topic. The motivation is Curiosity.
ОтветитьFor a long time I resonated more with INFJ and my results whenever I took the test would waver between INFP and INFJ. But this really cleared it up! I really do feel more like an INFJ- for example I’ve always considered myself ambivert-introvert-leaning, but my (more introverted) friends always are like “you??? Introvert??? No way? You talk to so many people” and I realized that’s because I see people standing alone and I go to them and include them (especially when it comes to this one club)
ОтветитьLol, my INFJ daughter freaks out whenever I get up on a ladder!
ОтветитьINFP are value driven and can be quite selfish. INFJ are givers who want harmony and to feel good inside for once. It’s subjective sensitivity versus objective sensitivity. INFP are much more conventional than INFJs who feel outsiders most of the time.
ОтветитьI'm an infj, people think i'm weird
ОтветитьYour infp romantic partner prone to judge you as spineless for your tendency(the cameleon act) for social harmony. Keep that in mind
ОтветитьYou know you’re an INFJ when strangers start telling you about their dogs and what type of snacks they feed them.
Ответитьinfp
ОтветитьI test and I go back and forth between INFP and INFJ, and now I realize why. I'm both. It's exhausting.
ОтветитьIf your still trying to figure it out, your an INFJ. INFP's know who they are. INFP's are very strong in what they know and believe.
ОтветитьAs an INFJ, I am proud of my analogies, ways of explaining things to different audience accordingly.
ОтветитьIm an infj and my little sister in infp. I have to say that infps are some of my most favorite favorite people.
Even tho im older by a year i was painfully shy and my little sister held my hand through our younger years.
She taught me to ride a bike, told me about tampons, was my friend in school when i had none.
Infps you are precious❤❤❤
There should be another video like this but INFJ vs INTJ, because some can't tell the difference wisely
Ответить‘Following the herd’ is more Fe thing than Te. Te is about doing what works and most efficient vs Ti which is about accuracy and conceptual. Fe on the other hand is about what is most accepted or desirable to the people, about the feelings and values of the people aka mainstream/herd, compared to Gi which is about individualism.
ОтветитьI've never had anything more true to who I am than being labeled an INFJ. Through and through.
ОтветитьIm infp but i also can feel others
Ответитьi love comparing INFP and INFJ with overlapping stereotypes.. as example, INFP 2w1 vs INFJ 4w5. this is a very interesting subject and helps me understand much better what makes INFP an INFP and so on. in most case, healthy and functional INFP would looks outwardly agreeable to the point they looks like Fe aux such as IxFJ
to rly tell them apart we need to fully understand its motivations behind their thoughts since healthy INFPs also able to be accomplished, logical, and cautious. you are able to 'felt' their motivations and core personality is inspiration-based; related to their personal ideals. as example, if they idolizes nice-saint-like figure and inspired by its values they strive to be something like that (unconsciously or not) for themselves. Fi-Ne, right? to rly consider something as 'inspiration' you would unconsiously see their values matched with yours
for INFJs, i just felt these kind of person is intimidating, intentionally-or-not, poking someone with certain 'true-yet-uncomfortable' truth. actually INFP also able to poke someone, but the impact is higher when INFJs doing this. it's like.. certain strong impersonal truth lies there. INFJs motivation mostly collective-based; directly pointing out 'I want this community to be like this' for everyone's sake and its execution mostly not rly understood by everyone (their idea execution often seems a bit unusual; people just did not get it, but gets the job done as it should)
both INFP and INFJ able to adopt both motivations, but as long as i see, what comes first would be different (since INFJ lead by Ni). sometimes it did not figured out easily but someday you will understand
tbh after i learned this, i did not understand cognitive function community still categorizes them stereotypically-based. i still understand if it's 16p would be stereotypical but not the cognitive function.. since it's 'cognitive'. i remember heard INFP said 'i am INTP in everyday life since i am logical' when in fact seems Si-Te enough although not dominant. INTP logic isn't outwardly-based, you mostly see them blabbering about things based on their mind
anyway im an INTP hehe
i thought i was an infp bc i'm not good with finishing projects and i procrastinate a lot... but then i got diagnosed with adhd and discovered in reallity i'm just an infj with adhd, since all the other aspects of the infj personality align with me instead of infp...
Ответитьinfj has many faces but infp has one.. if this is true i am infj but what if infp are also chameleon because even if infp has Fi they constantly seek for how they are going to fit in...
Ответитьthere is a problem because:
i feel uncomfortable if someone is uncomfortable around me.. like i don't know what to do and i can't make them feel comfortable too..
i indeed obsessed in one topic but also fail to complete in near complete. like I am very sure that the result will fall into what i analyzed.
i do care about what will happened, I planed before going, but also it's not a strict plan but to have basic idea, steps or to not get lost and cause confusion what to do...
i indeed lack information about real world from my state riot news to my school subject and i don't really care (it's Te) but also i lack being in the present i often lost in thought and didn't hear calling me and what's is happening around me, i got so many scolded from this.. (it's Se)..
past indeed hunt me all the time.. INFP didn't care about past?? isn't INFP suppose to remember the feeling from the past????
i like creating scene in my head and applied it into the real world's problem not physically but within my head and research about it. also i like taking in real world problem and analyzed the it..
i can say i can be chameleon but only for sometime and i am just me with comfortable people...
i don't care what others think but also I analyzed why they think like they did... i care what they feel about me in the sense that they will not be comfortable around me.. also I am aware of my feeling like how I feel, how I am comfortable and uncomfortable...
i feel like i am INFJ and INFP depends on the situation...
I’m absolutely convinced you can be both bc I absolutely am extreme INFP on some topics, and extreme INFJ on others. Every single thing he goes over, I am either one or the other, but never the same one. This is the best video I’ve found that compares the two, but honestly,I’m fell so defeated bc I just want to know why I am the way I am, but I’m not sure what I am bc ‘yes’ to both infp and infj. so exhausting.
ОтветитьWhen you said Jack of all trades, I really felt that.
ОтветитьI'm both I feel like...literally almost everything he said for both of them I'm like yup thats me😅
ОтветитьNot sure if this is an infj thing but I hate imbalances of any kind. Whether it's imbalances of power, justice, fairness, and even an imbalance picture frame hanging on the wall!😂 if it's more tilted to the right, I will be sure to correct that. Everything in the house and at work has to be neatly and properly organized.
ОтветитьI don't get why people are so caught up with "infp can't reach their goal cuz they're indecisive". Our "goal" is the journey cuz Si. For example, Ni goal might to get good at guitar while Si goal is to play guitar as often as possible.
And being open to many ideas is not inherently worse to lockin in to one (tho like everything, balance is needed), since we're more likely to jump into opportunities when they (usually randomly) come.
Are Infps normal? 😁
Ответитьright its spoken in the abstract but its very concreate but anything powerful in the wrong hands is a problem to many people are making a mess of it with no natural talent or gifts in psychologically (mbti) but socionics is way better way more in depth but always look to psychological types and conscious orientation carl jung and van der hoop
ОтветитьOne of the better INFP/INFJ vids I've seen. Thank you!
ОтветитьOMG I literally hit my head with the wall or walk in doors and doorknobs like everyday my mom makes fun of me 😭 I always thought I’m just weird 💀
ОтветитьThis was the best breakdown of the two traits Ive ever seen.
Ответить"Maybe you run into door frames" shut up 😂😂😂😂😂 i always end up doing that, i miss a step in the stairs as often as i can...
ОтветитьOk so we INFJ are autistic and our friends INFP are ADHD. Basically 😆
ОтветитьI love INFPs, because they will tell me when they are not happy but they can also see if they are wrong and apologise for it as they understand what my feelings can be. Some of the best people around me are INFPs because I know i can trust their words. ❤
ОтветитьGreat video. You explained it so well. Thank you 🙏🏾
ОтветитьI randomly got obsessed with Spyro Enter the Dragonfly for seemingly no reason. Found the documentary on its development, got hooked on the music for the game and downloaded its soundfonts so I could mess around in Studio One.
And I’m still confused as to weither I’m an INFP or INFJ. 😆
I’m pretty sure I am an INFJ, but I have a lot of trouble identifying and expressing my own feelings, and I also struggle to read others’ feelings, too. I do try to find ways to relate to others’ experiences in order to connect to them. I’m socially awkward lol. To say the least.
ОтветитьI'm the type of person who has trouble with getting a consistent type. My more consistent types are the intuitive introverted ones. It's hard to narrow it more, though. I'm narrowing down to feelers, because I think I tend to worry and focus a lot on society and human relationships, in contrast to people who are amazed by data, structures and theories related to objects or non social aspects.
However, between INFP and INFJ is hard to say. I don't feel the mom of a group of friends. Though I see myself watching someone cold and asking people if they wanna go home because it's cold even if I'm not cold myself.
I feel like I have strong opinions and values in certain topics, but I feel I have trouble seeing my worth without others. I feel conflicted between keeping harmony and staying true to myself. I feel bad lying about my opinions for others to feel ok, and I feel bad sharing my opinion if it makes others feel uncomfortable or weird out. Ultimately I tend to not share, because I'm going to feel bad both ways, so the choice is about making people uncomfortable or not. Rather not.
I also feel like I'm the type of person who nobody loves and nobody hates. Because nobody bothers to know. Though part of the problem is my strong tendency to withdraw.
I also wonder if I value harmony because of Fe or is a personal value developed from Fi. I remember as a child kids getting angry for stupid things midplay, the harmony being disrupted, and not agreeing with any part... and going away from classmates and go play with kids from the other class because they were playing without stupid arguments in between, craving for harmony, and scaping from the conflict of choosing a side.
I see traits of both INFP and INFJ in my... sometimes even some INTP... rarely INTJ.
It's like I know who I am under specific contexts, and sometimes test are very general, and it's hard for me to know my general behavior, because a tiny change in context can make something align better or worse with who I am and change my willingness to engage with people, be open about ideas or be organized.
As an INFJ, early on I learned how to read patterns. As a result, I can take multiple choice tests and deduce the answer, without knowing the material.
ОтветитьI chameleon, but I feel like it's just me opening up my data input reciever unit and starting to download everything that I can from this individual, usually to immediately determine if they are a threat to me, when they aren't it seems I can help them with some kind of change breakthrough, where as if the individual isn't receptive to change I will just retreat and stop all downloading. I often will isolate myself from all people because I don't know how to half way interact with others no matter how much I might want to. I usually make people uncomfortable with my behavior but it's usually because I'm just displaying what I'm getting from them.
ОтветитьUntil now, I haven't been able to definitively determine whether I am an INFJ or an INFP. I understand that online tests aren't always accurate, so I've been studying the eight cognitive functions in depth. However, the process has left me feeling confused. I notice that I exhibit INFJ behaviors and thought patterns in some situations, while in other aspects, I definitely display INFP traits. By the way, in the online tests I've taken annually over the past 8 years, three times I've been classified as INFJ and once as INFP. Apart from the unquestionable "I," my scores for the other three letters (NFJ) fluctuate around 50-60%+-.
I used to firmly believe I was an INFJ. For instance, when entering a room, I could immediately sense the overall atmosphere and everyone's emotions. Sometimes, it even felt like I had some sort of superpower, able to perceive things that others couldn't. Another example is that many people might think someone is nice, but just by seeing them and having a brief conversation, I would intuitively feel I should stay away from that person. Although I couldn't explain why, facts would eventually prove that my intuition was correct. This sense applied not just to people but also to analyzing events and making decisions. like a human radar.
However, the cost of having this "superpower" has led to extreme mental exhaustion. Perfectionism has also made me very passive in doing anything, as I procrastinate out of fear of failure. Being overly concerned with others' opinions prevents me from allowing myself to make any mistakes. Disliking conflicts, I force myself to please others. All these factors have caused my internal struggle to worsen, bringing me to the brink of depression and even suicidal thoughts.
At the time, I didn't understand why I was so unhappy. I could hardly perceive my own emotions correctly. If others were happy, I was happy; if others were anxious, I became anxious too (and back then, I didn't even realize my emotions were syncing with others'). Expressing my own emotions was out of the question. Later, as my suicidal thoughts emerged, perhaps my body instinctively sought self-preservation, so I turned to many psychology books, beginning to face my inner self. I practiced turning off my Fe, focusing only on my inner feelings, and dedicated time to understanding myself.
Through continuous and deliberate practice, I gradually stopped caring about others' opinions, no longer feared making mistakes, and tried to be more flexible and spontaneous. After finally overcoming my internal struggle, I took the test again and found I had become an INFP. The intuitive "superpower" I once took pride in wasn't as strong as before. I started showing more INFP characteristics, though I still retained some INFJ traits. Occasionally, I would still be influenced by the emotions of my surroundings and people, but I could quickly refocus on myself. Over time, my sensitivity to the environment diminished significantly. I began to express my own stance and feelings, no longer just pleasing others for the sake of harmony, and cared more about my own feelings.
Could these changes have affected my Fe? And it seems my Ni has also changed. I'm not sure.
For example, I still tend to make plans because it gives me a sense of security. When it comes to new people, events, or situations, I still need to do a lot of research and schedule everything in advance to feel at ease. For most things, I need to clearly know what I should do and what the next steps are. And I'm very future-oriented, before all the changes, I almost never looked back. This is very INFJ, right?
However, at the same time, I don't have just one goal. I'm interested in many things, and although these interests haven't changed much over the past decade, they are quite diverse. I'll be interested in A for a while, then switch to focusing on B, then C, D, E, and eventually back to A. A jack of all trades but a master of none. And I start to think about the past from time to time, although most of the time I would think about how my past experiences affected me now (not sure if this kind of recollection is an INFP trait or an INFJ trait?). But anyway, this is still very INFP, isn't it?
I've seen many people say that personality doesn't change, but I seem to have changed quite a bit. This has left me increasingly confused.
I'd rather be an INFP! since I'm an INFj and ASD, I cannot stand conflict and feel as an infj yet I'm very unflexible with my values and cut contact quickly if people do not align with my inner values. I keep quiet though to avoid conflict. Thsi is quite uncomfortable actually....
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