38 Year Old Female Master Opts Rural Bachelor? China's Leftover Women Weep in Despair

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I feel-as-though: too many just try to: "Do what their Parents & Family want" = (sacrificing their own happiness) as opposed-to: meeting someone with: morals, manners & respect . . . and that you genuinely Enjoy being with. Find someone that You are Attracted-to, that makes you Happy. Never Worship Money. Many Rich people are Miserable.

Mean, nasty, greedy. This is why men don't want these women. If they were nice to be around they would be married. But no... nag, demand, entitled.

When men chasing these women in their 20s, they look down on us, economic and physical. But when the roles are reversed, these women can't accept it.

A 35+ women, one sentence to destro* them: You are already near 40s, what value do you bring to their table, other than your economic status. We men don't care about your accomplishment in the work place or your useless papers. So what value do you have at the age of near 40.

A second question to destro* their logic/confidence: A 35+ yr man, that has ALL the desired qualities for a partner, why would he go for left over when he can go to a uni campus, where all of these women are less than 23 yr old. These young ladies might not be accomplished, but we don't need them to be. We want them to be less educationed, simple minded, very little opinion, like plain yogurt so we men can flavor them as WE PLEASE. 18 yr old provides body and 35 man provides economic stability and raise her.

I am Interested in marrying a Chinese woman, age doesn't matter. But I am black

I think these women are condemned to marry westerners.

My girlfriend in China was a "leftover woman" in her 30s and beautiful. We were together over 3 years and I asked her to marry me and come to Japan with me, where I wanted to live. She said that if I bought her a house/apartment in her hometown and gave her parents $15,000, she would marry me and come with me. Sadly, I left her behind.
So far, dating in Japan has been mostly wading through the unhappy married women looking for a side relationship. Now, I'm fighting cancer and my situation is much worse than the Chinese woman who doesn't have someone to bring her noodles when she's ill. I don't even remember the last time I got a hug. Sigh. It's never easy, is it?

Although there are many more women than men, there are less quality men that all the women want, so they pass on almost all men. So a nice looking guy has huge advantage.

Someone please explain to me why a master's degree is categorically better than or superior to someone with experience at effectively growing food or raising food animals in bulk. Because frankly if I'm picking desert island people...

Ha...Ha.. Chinese never cease to amaze me from morally bankrupt society to using gutter oil, exploding EV cars, fake foods, tofu dreg projects, fucking up environment and eating anything that moves or not moves, shitting everywhere, hog aunties, censorship, fake nationalism, pink CCP, illegal organ trade, toxic materials, etc. etc. etc...

They are not labeled "left over women" by the outside world, that phrase is from China nowhere else!

so left over women want man to take care of them when they are sick. What can they offer to the man? FOr single and mature women, they need to offer bribe price to man!

IM looking for a girl, that just turn 18

Im looking for a 18 yr old with C/D size

Im looking for a girl that is less than 165cm

Im looking for a girl that has very little education

Im looking for a girl that has a co-cola body glass shaped body

=im still single!

The outside world does not call them " leftover women".
Only the Chinese use such a horrible term.
And the pressure to marry and the concept of arranged marriages is completely medieval.
But the rest of the world IS medieval.
However the one good thing is the people are beginning to question the culture that is holding them back.

Don't forget, those extra men in China are mostly men from rural areas, in big cities such as Guangzhou, Shanghai, Beijing etc, the gender ratio is more balanced, or probably there are more women than men in China's big cities. And most of those women in big cities doesn't want to marry men from rural areas, due to them being poor and less attractive than guys from an urban area, thats why most of those males in rural areas are single, whereas men from urban areas are not. Also most women (including women born in rural areas) move to China's big cities for a more better job opportunity or a better life, which is porbably the reason why there are more women in China's big cities, but more men in China's rural areas or countryside.

It’s really sad that deleting over 30 million female babies didn’t even lessen the misogyny one bit over there. The men whose future spouses were aborted and/or neglected as babies until they expired aren’t considered leftovers, but the women who survived the genocide against them are? Why would any Chinese women get married when they are hated so much?

"I am 38 years old and a high quality woman".

Bullsh*t. If you were a high quality woman you would've been married and have children by now.

These women are overthinking their situation. This "leftover" mentality only exists in China and some Asian countries. There are MILLIONS of other good men around the world. Go travel the world and find your man. You ONLY get one chance in life. For sure you are not coming back to earth again, break out and FIND YOUR HAPPINESS. It's that simple. My guide to finding a good partner:
1. They have a good relationship with their parents or family. (never talk bad about their parents or family)
2. Smart (handy person, knowledgeable about things, good common sense). A college degree is not required.
3. No addiction (gambling, alcohol, sex, and drugs)
4. Happy person (loves to laugh, make jokes, a little goofy, fun personality)

I have another option for the women. Financially support a husband, while he takes care of kids

The fact that "leftover woman" is a colloquial term just goes to show how fucked Chinese society actually is.

Those aren't men. They're selfish, spoiled children. Imagine the arrogance and immaturity it takes to have the girl pay for the date and then expect her to make him tomorrow's lunch. Who's tying his shoes? I wonder if this is the same mentality (narcissism) that is plaguing young men in the US - me, me, me. They know video games and not much else. They do the minimum then think they're supposed to be praised above all others.

First world problems

Come here in Cebu plss

"I'm a high quality leftover woman"
not even high enough to catch a man

Its a mistake in calculations....
If he has a car house money and job, then hes not looking for that, hes looking for what he DOESNT have a young hot girl. So you will need to find a guy who needs car house money bad enough that he doesnt care if you are not a hot young girl. Ppl want what they dont have, period.
This isnt a job posting where all your qualifications are important....

That guy complaining its 1 dollar more ON A DATE 😂😂😂, what a tightwad miser

Man those blind date guys are more shitty than left over women 😮😮, theyre obviously trying to get laid or paid by her cuz shes old, they're rude

Massive egos and heads up their 🫏

Delusional with an inaccurate grip on reality

لَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِٱللَّٰهِ ٱلْعَلِيِّ ٱلْعَظِيمِ

Npcs following the human script

Women chase careers thinking it will get them a better partner: Men DO NOT care about women's careers and are never impressed by any woman even if she's a quantum physicist. Women are attracted to men with high paying jobs, but men don't care if that's the case with women. Men and women care about different things in a relationship, and women misunderstand that fact and think that men will be impressed by what women find impressive in men.

If you're a woman, be feminine, be humble, be submissive, be gentle, be caring, be agreeable, be soft spoken, have good morals and behavior, have a good past of not getting ran through, and I can absolutely promise you that you will find a man that wants to marry you within a month's time.

You don't need to go study a subject that costs thousands of dollars, and waste thousands of hours on it, and find a high wage job that causes you to barely have time for yourself or live a peaceful relaxing life, to find a man, men do NOT care about such things. It has already been proven for thousands of years that women are 100% at their happiest if they stay at home and care for her husband and children, rather than working long hours and dealing with the stress of work, and it's something that many women are re-learning nowadays after ignoring what thousands of years have taught us due to feminism.

A woman's domain is in her house, and the house and property is the man's kingdom. He is the head, and she is the right-hand. A man has to look after and protect his kingdom, and the woman makes it a lovely place by adding her feminine touch to it, making it look and smell good, and creating a sense of love, peace and care within her domain. This has worked for thousands upon thousands of years, yet feminism sought to destroy this view and in turn created millions of women that are unhappy while fooling them into believing it's for their own good when in reality it has given them nothing but misery and depression.

Higher educated women equals as a man, who needs a man for sure a man not looking for another man 😮😂😂😂😂

How did feminism spread like this? How stupid and close minded did all these people have to be to not see these obvious consequences?

this is not marriage this is prostitution industry

most good men are bum because they know how to lower themselves and already accepted their life status there is less pride in them and they are harmless and they accept you whatever you are.

Either women can be happy or have it all, take your pick

They hit the great wall of china

This seems to be a problem in all modernized countries

The 35yr woman is being quite reasonable and could make a good wife

It's happening the same as in the Western world, interesting.

Did social media really do this to them?

They cry about their situation but aren't willing to accept that their situation isn't as great as they thought it was so then they're going to just be in worse situations oh well don't care good luck with that.

You wanted an education/career and got it. So be happy.

This is bizarre ... Some ugly woman have no future 😢 ... This should be stop

Bride price.. ..? you girls are joking.

All these women became powerful, rich, and took over the main cities? What's the problem?! Looks like they won.

You said the outside world thinks they are left over women. Not true, only the Chinese think this. Most everyone else couldn't care.

Women don’t care about what men want. They only care about what they want. The key is balance. No balance = you get nothing.

FFS Ladies. Have some self respect and stop being treated like cattle at a market. This is horrendous. Have some dignity and move on and forget marriage and children.

Hypergamy 😂🎉