Reactive Abuse Is ABUSE (Reactance) (Neuropsychiatry and Mental Health Conference 2025)

Aggression is a reaction to a threat.

The last 30 seconds of the video... Damn you're good prof❤

I really really needed to hear this today. How did you know? I think it’s the zeitgeist. Thank you, professor. ❤

Hard truth.

Two wrongs don not make a right. Hard truth.

I've been asking my parents hard questions about the past, but calmly and respectfully. You know where this is going... Thank you so much for your research and helping us heal.

Its the thing what narcisst Wait you to do IT. To react so That he he could blame you AND Had his version of a story against you.
Isn’t??

So what is triggering narcissist to be agressive? It s it something in us what they can not accept.
My Np would always make fights ot of nowhere and Blayming me to stop do it!!!!! And I never knew what he is thinking. To do what?? Never get an answer. Maybe to disappear???
Opinion please

You are correct. I have known of several instances where a person in an abusive relationship who stays in that relationship and has learned to be non-reactive, later in life suffers with dementia/Alzheimers.

Had anyone gone no contact with family? That's what im thinking

Life with Billy

It's a sad truth. I hate the way I became someone I'd never seen. It was abuse in both reactions... But I have never , ever acted like that with any other man I've loved. He turned me into someone I didn't recognize.

Psychopath + oral sex + male child = cringry stupid

Reactive abuse is 100% abuse the only difference is being accountable for the abuse and walking away from the situation and the person as to not be the worst version of yourself. I was in a relationship with a narcissist as someone with bpd he was 100% a trigger. I vowed that no one would make me like that again. I set strong boundaries and walk away or communicate my displeasure now in calm manners. Reactive abuse was a learning lesson bc I did not like myself when I did it. But I refuse to blame it all on him because while it was a reaction to his actions I still chose to crash out on him

I think it’s important to distinguish between a reaction of anger to the abuse, and an abuse reaction to the abuse. The former is a natural human reaction as a victim of abuse, and the latter is a victim gradually becoming an abuser.

Yes I just to think I was crazy my mom make me feel like that and then she go tell all the family I was the crazy but thanks to you tube Chanel I’m better ♥️♥️

I didn't know i was losing so much of myself through reactive abuse😢💫

That reaction formation perfectly describes wokeism. They cover up a moral failing by preaching morality.

I'm an abuser 😂

guilty