The Ex: To Call Or Not To Call?

How To get rid of my girlfriend because I have some family problem

Advice? What if your behavior turned your ex off and made him lose faith in your relationship and led to his breaking up with you? Should I still not pursue after being broken up with?
My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago and after limited contact via texting with my initiation, and two periods of no contact that lasted one and two weeks, he began to warm up to me. He even agreed to get together with me three times, but it was simply physical and he was still emotionally shut down and not ready to talk about us. However, he hasn’t been dating anyone else and he’s just taking time to be alone. I feel that since I pushed him away with my anxious behavior, I thought it might be better to build a positive rapport with him again. I also don’t want to make our relationship only a physical one.

What if your behavior turned your ex off and made him lose faith in your relationship and led to his breaking up with you? Should I still not pursue after being broken up with?
My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago and after limited contact via texting with my initiation, and two periods of no contact that lasted one and two weeks, he began to warm up to me. He even agreed to get together with me three times, but it was simply physical and he was still emotionally shut down. However, he hasn’t been dating anyone else and he’s just taking time to be alone. I feel that since I previously turned him off with my anxious behavior, it might be better to build a positive rapport with him again. Advice? I also don’t want to make our relationship only a physical one.

I've been watching your videos and waiting for a challenge I can do to move myself forward... Guess I'm asking out 100 women... feels terrifying. Will update in 20 days



Well shit, that was a much MUCH more difficult than I would care to admit. I only managed to walk up to 58 women and get 6 numbers. At the very least I'm grateful that my anxiety towards approaching gorgeous ladies has diminished greatly

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Hello Coach, how if your crush or your ex giving you an invitation for her wedding? Should I come ? In fact of matter I totally walk away, but I'm confused cause her family is well known to me, her brother is my mentor? Anyone can suggest? Thanks coach @coachcoreywayne you are awesome!

where the hell s the"contact me"??

Pleading NEVER works but walking away does

Thanks coach!

Hi I have a problem guys.. I went no contact on a girl that blew me off, what I mean is she cancelled dates, took time to respond me. From being very hot she went very cold. After 10 days she texted me saying she misses me and she doesn’t like the fact we are not interacting like we used to. I texted for few minutes and asked her out on a date. She said she is ill and can’t make it. So I said it’s ok and told her to come back when she will figure out her schedule. After 2 days she again wrote me basically saying that I went cold on her and she thinks that I’m mad at her. I told her that I’m really busy and don’t have that much time and asked her why she is thinking that way. She responded that these just her very weird thoughts. I’m strong, i’m dating other girls and I can resist the urge of writing to her. But did I miss the opportunity to ask her out again after those 2 days? Should I ask her out in few days? Or should I JUST WAIT UNTIL SHE REACHES OUT AGAIN and If she does I’m just going to ask her out . Guys out there, give me a hand please :))

Leave the door open is #1 if they dump you. If someone doesn't contact you after dumping you after no contact it says a lot about their ability to love, forgive, and reflect. Basically their capacity to love you over time and how important you are in their mind from day to day. If you act before them you will never be sure that they care enough to maintain a second go around, and it will cloud your new relationship with insecurity and doubt. Think before you give in and contact them. You may get them back, but it does have a cost. And that cost may haunt you. Better to maintain no contact and work on yourself on your own timeline than to count down 30 days focusing on them and the past.

I’d love to ask out 100 women in the next 90 days if I could run into 100 women I’d want to ask out. Where is this vineyard of attractive women? Lol

Damn bro your.. After reading your book twice and watching over 70 of your videos... I was kind of sceptical.. But now.. bro your on fucking point. Very impressed my guy. Good job and thank you for everything and making me see things cleary for the first time in my life.. And I use to think I was the man lol after taking in as much of your knowledge as I can thru your vids and book ive become a bull. Thank you agian.. Going to be booking a paid phone session soon, looking forward to actually meeting you. Keep up the good work.

The most amazing encouragement not to be weak. Thank you Corey.

Call your Ex? Hell NO !! ...why? that's why she your Ex ! My Ex try to contact me from time to time, I never give her the time of day, I never will, ...wish I never met Her in the first place !! Best thing that ever happen to Me is getting her out of my life, keep it that way !!

Why you want to change anybody mind? She either love you or she don't, .. there's either chemistry or their ain't. Nothing can MAKE chemistry, it's there or it isn't. When it's there it's magnetic, & even if you drive each other crazy & don't want to love her. Damn you just love her anyway. Cause real love is crazy, (specially the first time..lol) ain't no formula, first love is deaf dumb & stupid.... But Corey Wayne giving great advice, he's on point. Wish I knew the stuff he talk about years ago, time & money saver. Men get your life together like an Alpha do, & you won't have to worry about any woman, you'll have options. Love just come at the right time, & believe in God, find your purpose.

I get it. It's sad I'll still think about her but it's time to move on.

Thanks for the advice Corey. This is just what I needed in a time of weakness.

But Mr Wayne what if they get back with an ex and get engage?

My ex invited me to her house to help her fix some stuff I went and render her help.we made love and she started telling me how much she miss and love me.That she wants me back.She confess that her Ex actually came to the house the reason she broke up wit me and ask me out of her place But claim they had quarrel and she didn't allow him touch her.she ask me if I still love and still want her to be my girlfrd.i responded by saying i have always love and wanted you but we have to take things slowly.she said she won't chase me instead incase I don't bliv her confession and want her back though she already knew she has lost me.i left her place n told her I would check on her some other time though she never wanted me to go that night but I insisted. Is been a week now we haven't call each other since I left her place and i just discovered she blocked me two days ago on whatsapp. PLS WHAT SHOULD I DO?.SHOULD I BE THE FIRST TO REACH OUT TO HER AND TAKE HER ON A DATE.? IS SHE TELLING THE TRUTH? WHY DID SHE BLOCK ME NOW?

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say definitely fucking not.

Problem is that in India you don't find too many girls that easily. I am stuck with this disrespecting girl and I get back to her just because I don't get to meet any girl on a scale equal to hers.

I waited two days after she suggested a break up. "Sorry you feel that way. Give me a call WHEN you change your mind!" 2 days later... "im sorry babeeeeee" hahaha

I told her what I wanted and walked away. This shit sucks, but I know I'm not wasting my time anymore.

Hey everyone, I have a special situation that I would like to share with you, I'm gonna try to be brief. (sorry for my broken english!)

I’ve met my ex for 20 years, since we were children. She is my best friends sister (now he has also been my housemate for one year, we also know each other 20 years ago).



Now I’m 30 and she is 26. We have been very close friends since then and we have always liked each other, we have an incredible connection and a lot of things in common and are very similar people in both our beliefs and life styles. We were together for the first time 10 years ago and then we have always been flirting and kissing sometimes during this 10 years of friendship, in between relationships (I've even been in trips and parties with her exbfs and my exgfs).



Sometimes we have been without knowing about each other for 6months or so, but everytime we get to see each other is magical.



She asked me for some space about 3 months ago but I kept contacting her and talking and seeing each other because we have been super close friends all our life and it's natural. We have a very healthy and fun relationship so we have never really argue or get mad at each other, we rarely disagree, the troubles were more related to functional things or personal mindsets.



About 2 months ago I was starting to try the no contact technique but it was my birthday and she was super nice to me, we kissed, she was with my family and everything was going okay so I thought we were going to get back together for sure and I aborted the no contact. One week later her grandfather passed away suddenly so I had to be very supportive and there was 2 weeks that I was with her all the time being very lovely and making her feel good, taking care of her and her family (he was also very close to me, imagine 20 years)



After this 2 weeks she got quite distant again and suddenly told me that she really needed the space so it was like someone was shaking my head, I got clingy and needy, I made a beautiful photo album with lots of written stuff about our 20 years human relationship, I called her, I told her that I needed to talk to her and that we should have another opportunity, etc.. so after a few weeks she started getting a little overwhelmed and mean, I felt that she was feeling drowned and after a few times she told me we needed space (always in a very calm and caring mood but tired) I made the decision to go into no contact.



It has been 5 weeks of no contact now and I really need your help. It has been super hard, and the only contact I have had is to see that she sees as my stories on instagram (she is not a technological social network person so that has made it easier for me) I want to contact her again, I might see her on Saturday because it is my housemate/bestfriend/exbrotherinlaw birthday. I don't know how to proceed now, should I call her before? should I just keep no contact? I'm really in love with this woman and I don't want to screw up all the work and effort that this 5 weeks have been. Do you think I have any possibility? I feel that she probably misses me. I want to create another opportunity for us to be together. What should I do after this, I was planning on contacting her after 2 months of NC anyway.. any thoughts? tips? advice? I don't know how this is going to affect the NC missing feeling. Positively or negatively...?



I hope you can help me!! watching this videos and reading all of your stories has been very helpful.



Love and strength for everyone struggling out there!



Thank you very much!

Reaching out to her shows weakness which women really hate, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT HER. You must wait and there is a HIGH probability she will contact you. When she does dont freak out and be a beta or she will go away again...

No one believes that it can go for a second time?

I used to be the guy that Coach Corey talks about in the beginning. I've finally gotten to a place that I'm real comfortable with myself. It's taken about 5 years to get to this point. It's a great place to be. Hallelujah. :)

Great video!

Corey you came to my life at the perfect time...my 2 year old relationship was about to be over because of me chasing but I suddenly stopped after seeing ur videos. Now I’m the man in the driver seat again!! Thank you so much sir. I’m reading ur book.

Great video coach !! thanks

Your words are addictive, going through a rough patch and YOU keep me in a positive state of mind! Thank you!

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If your ex had BPD just forget her because once discarded permanently, you can be sure you don't even exist for her and if you do, it's definitely not in a good way. You wouldn't want the toxicity back in your life anyway.

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I love you coach! You keep me in the state of mind i should always be in! Give this man an oscar lmao

I love watching your videos the stories from people are so interesting! I am now on my Alfa stage of life, my ex cheeted so i left her I now have a fuck load of girls interested in me, my ex is saying she's not I retested but she keeps ringing and texting me asking to stay over I ignored her for 4 days and replied sorry I've been busy, she came over I had sex with her all night and in the morning she noticed my phone ringing and it was another girl that I was seeing and my ex asked is that a girl your seeing and I said not yet and she asked questions about the girl, I just changed the subject 😂 it's obvious that she is still not over me but carmas a bitch ☝ I feel great im meeting girls having good sex I'm on top of my game thanks to this genius guys videos and I strongly advise you to read the book and if you have read the book read it Agen 😊 got respect for this guy he's a legend 😎

Thank you coach. You literally turned my life around!

Corey, in three days is going to be my ex birthday who dumped me for some other dude. I've been in no contact for the past two months, since she dumped me.
I'll follow your advice and I won't with her, even if this is going to cost me. Btw, in 5 days is going to be my birthday and I bet she won't remember about it.

Clay Andrews is an “ex back guru” for lack of a better term and he has a coined term of “active no contact” where you work on yourself, your mental and emotional world and self control. My advice to guys reading this is if you ever did reach back out to a chick at the very least use Corey Wayne’s basic principles as your “active no contact”. You’re obviously breaking a rule though which I wouldn’t recommend, but hey, rules are a replacement for being present in the moment. Always just keep in mind whatever you do or don’t do in any given moment shapes the dynamic between you two and sometimes less is more and 100% of the time you should just go work on yourself. You have an idea generally what’s wrong with you if you dug and searched painfully deep enough. Good luck gents(there’s no such thing as luck; luck is preparation meeting opportunities)✌🏽

Thank you 🙏🏻

Well coreys advise is the way to follow.
But if you reach out after month or two without attachment and she blows you off. Then eventually it does not even matter if you called her or not. its a no go anyway

im in a small town and its gonna be quite difficult to find attractive women for me to start conversations haha…. I’ll do my best

Thank you for this coaching log coach, really powerful for me right now

There are SO many girls out there. Work on yourself, start seeing other women, and be centered. It will bring you joy and happiness