Core Truths Narcissists Can’t Grasp

Narcissism is akin to insecurity. And we all have insecurities. Being coddled/enabled by a parent makes it dangerous. Those kinds of people are told that rules don’t apply to them. It becomes a bigger issue for society, their victims, themselves. Lying to yourself, your children, and thus, society, doesn’t serve you well and becomes an obstacle for everyone involved.

Psychological laziness ❤❤❤ Bingo

Everyone wants and deserves to be free from their abuse.

Beautiful job at a summary once again! ❤👏💎👍

This is why you can't give narcissists personal information. It's just used against you for their drama. If I have to interact with them, just Gray Rock – brief, factual, unemotional.

Very Cool

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Impeccable analogy well rounded equations but you said it can a
narcissist really wrap their head
around around core truths as they
relate to their emotional psychological
disfigurement I’d say even if they can
we will never ever in a million years
know was it received by them as a blessing or curse from us the latter
was is and will forever remain in our
horrendous sequels , no contact is
not our idea of punishment it’s the
all inspired wisdom of God sending
his spirit to protect us from proud
wickedness notice I could have used
the word evil but wicked is more in
line with the narratives behind the
way evil is a manifestation of an
truly unnatural disregard for a
person human emotional life and
if the narc had contact with their
.now 40 year old victim and no
rude conscious awakening occur
but their are still healthy remnants
of living deceiving triangulation &
gaslighting and grandiosity and
no accountability and you have
more mental and medical problems
as a result of their inflicted trauma
bond RUN DON’t walk unless waking
work better than running for what’s
left of you poor life !!! NIO DON’t WORRY
about what they think I know it’s hard but tell yourself they don’t it was all in your mind they won’t get it they won’t or they
can’t ask yourself which one feel better ?

Neither now run for your life !
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Dr Carter, you are such a good, decent human being. Thank you for giving your thoughts. How I wish more human beings could think and act like you.

By punishing others instead of embracing differences they are missing out on gaining security for themselves!!!

It is very hurtful when someone punishes you just because you're different than them.

Let's celebrate The Dreaming day 🎉
Thank you dear doctor!

Targeted Justice Team. Targeted life's matter the targeted justice team is in the early stages of putting together a lawsuit against the US military government thats involved in narcissism and targeting US citizens of the United States of America. God-bless.

This man is aways spot on

Good stuff. I needed all of it.

Thank you ... thank you very much. Someone understands. Woww. Amazing

I've been constantly punished for almost everything in narc relationship. I tried to tell him all of these for so long but at one point I realized he knows it but he won't stop abusing because it is fun for him.
So good bye. No more.

Thanks for this video

I'm so happy with pulling my own little red wagon! ☺️ not real happy with some who hop on that should in their own wife's wagon. Nwim?

Thank you for this video.

The toxic group makes up Rules for me to obey....which is illegal/criminal abuse to my life, to start with. Next, they must punish me for not obeying their Criminal abuse to my life. I waited way to long for them to behave like honest adults....they only got worse. The only way to care for them, is surrender them over to God...and stay out of God's way. And stop being in their "Circus".

A narcissistic individual is apathetic - they simply don't care. A pathetic human being, indeed! Know healthy! Keep healthy!

If you don't agree with them or go along with their plans, you will feel their wrath. They throw a temper tantrum if you say "no."

"But we can dream"... I like that, haha, that was funny. You made me chuckle today. Thank you. ❤

UNFORTUNATELY THESE MALIGNANT NARCISSIST ARE CASEWORKERS & HER SUPERVISOR, WTH GOD PLEASE SHINE UR LIGHT ON THESE DARK AREAS

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Facts

Well my Bf kids mother refuses to punish her daughter I'm not sure where you're going with this but she's down for punishing her kids father for no reason but when he tells her his daughter gets out of line with disobedience she wants No part of it All she does is enable her behavior and tells him she wants no part of punishing her like she wants to continue to show the daughter that she's on her side and her savior 🚩

Any chance of you all uploading your videos and shorts to Facebook publicly?

Human being, not human doing. That's very good.

And giving the affirmation you'd prefer to receive rather than relentlessly trying to extract admiration, that's my take and experience on it, and I think that is probably the MOST characterizing truth of all for this disorder. The inability to give to other what you demand from them; I believe that is the core of the narcissist. And the internal recognition of this deficiency, combined with the outward over overcompensation, is essentially the definition following the "highlighted term" of this basic core truth.

That's their problem not ours

Psychological laziness 👌🙌

That what my husband does to me

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He must be describing the current Obiden Administration.

Love and control don't get along and never will.

Its like a voluntary separation of the corpus callosum.

Thanks for the laughs

So true.. Better stay away..

It's a human don't the dream is OVAH~~~

I live with my sister, who called me a narcissist because she described our dynamic and situation to her therapist who then said I was a narcissist and our mother was an enabler. I responded to her that I didn’t think a therapist was allowed to diagnose someone who they have never seen before.

But I was completely taken aback by this statement and began to wonder if I am truly a narcissist or if I have some narcissistic tendencies?

I started watching these videos to understand narcissistic behaviors and try to work on myself ahead of going to a therapist. I also went to Reddit to try and get info there.

The more I watch these videos it’s actually describing my sister completely and now I’m wondering if I’m actually the narcissist or if she was projecting or are we both narcissists in different ways and we are unable to see eye to eye?

Either way, I am completely grateful for this channel. Thank you.

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Yes.😎

Not a human doing but a human being. I just love these words, thank you

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Well put!
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Thank you.

Excellent, Dr. Carter.

I was dating a covert narcissist for two years I saw it from the beginning and people question why would you even want to be with somebody like that but she was on the spectrum she lacked empathy and was a taker, but I am extremely strong so I set boundaries out of the gate I saw something in her that was a bit different that started realizing some of these truths, but even though they can see it, it's like a person that needs to lose weight. There's some psychological effect that doesn't allow them to do it, even though it looks pretty simple to do. No matter how far they're on the spectrum they're usually trying to get more than give and they lack empathy and even though I'll call them exterior most of the time almost stoic when conflict arises, they become childish and it's a huge disconnect from there outside personality. The reason there's some balance is because I'm a very extreme high end of social hierarchy she wasn't I'm older she's younger, and my confidence is a hundredfold hers in almost every aspect of life, even then, she was still question my authority like a child. Some of us aren't innocent when we see a narcissist especially if we don't want a super serious relationship because we can kind of breadcrumb them but if you're really good person you would have to ask yourself. Why do I want to do this and even then eventually you're going to get worn out

So true, my mother is constantly telling me how difficult it was to have me as her child because I’m different from her!