What I Learned From Approaching 10,000 Women

What do you think is better: Cold approaching random women, or building a social circle and meeting women through said circle?

You should make a video about that.

Thanks brother, a brother from Senegal 🇸🇳

It’s incredible how much you can learn from just putting yourself out there. Your experiences and insights will definitely help others feel more confident in approaching women!

Getting laid is Good. Untill she ends up pregnent

This approaching women nonsense is HARASSMENT!!!!! This guy should have got locked up for HARASSING!!!!! women. 😡

That 9,975 aren't worth approaching.

WTF??? What is you saying bro? ..... girls want the guy that look like a marvel super hero looking guy. Real talk . U dont know jack.... stop mis leading peoeple.... maybe 10% of the girls want a fat belly dad body. But most girls want chisel six pack dudes with muscles.

@A.G. Hayden but how do you end relationships after sex? What do you say, something like "ok, it was nice meeting you, now I have to approach other girls"?

this video is so good bro

Here's a simple way to have amazing interactions with women and be in the moment:

1. Use Non-Verbal Cues: Signal your intentions from a distance with a simple wave or another friendly gesture. This non-verbal cue allows for a natural reaction and can add a spontaneous feel to your approach.
2. Adopt a Playful Attitude: Embrace a flirty and teasing demeanor. This light-hearted approach can break the ice and make the conversation more engaging.
3. Be Warm and Welcoming: Start interactions by being exceptionally friendly and non-threatening. This sets a positive tone and makes people feel comfortable and open.
4. Engage with Specific Questions: Instead of relying on generic questions, ask about specific interests or activities they're involved in. This shows genuine interest and can lead to more meaningful conversations.
5. Express Interest in Future Meetings: At the end of your interaction, suggest another meet-up or a casual hangout. This will then be a good reason to exchange contacts and follow up message.

When closing, if you give her a hug, you can add something like, wow, your hugs feel like (funny quote), again very flirty and personal but not scripted.

These tips are about keeping her smiling, feeling safe, makes you be who you are and keeps the interaction enjoyable.

Fuck this video all crap shit

FUCKIN. EYE. OPENER. VIDEO.

Some girls I know sometimes give their numbers to get rid of a guy, out of politeness, or because they feel intimidated. So, it is true if you try hard enugh some girls will give out their number.

I like going direct because it's more authentic to me. And to me, it's less about the content I am saying and more about the fact it feels better for me to be more blunt.

You are handsome

Lol. If you approached 10,000 women, which one were you actually attracted to?

Imagine being a simp times 10000

It depends on girl definately looks matter 😅

So, it's a numbers game. The law of averages and a thick skin. Got it.

Wasted a lot of time

The girls can have you, dude.
But they won't get me.
And that's their problem.

Relax em. Make em comfortable. Mindset is everything. Nothing turns a woman off more than negativity. Good luck.
Ugly. Jobless. Have to 💔 hearts since we don't live in a polygamist society. Just try. Rejection is your superpower. They're doing you a favor 🙂

I'm 44. Back in 2018-2019 I made it a point to approach 3 women per day and wrote and kept a journal about my experiences. I approached everywhere except the gym. Was surprised how many women rarely get approached. I approached about 2000 women in total. One of the best things I did for myself and for my life yet I got the lesson. My main problem was I was out of shape. At 41 I got into the best shape of my life and that was the game changer. Look up Rom Will's Body Game. When a woman lusts your body, all you have to do is be receptive. No stupid lines or techniques, put all that effort into building a sexy fit body. All the Instagram hotties are working out, so should men.

Big noses catching a stray.

first of all I should look like you to fail less

Giving very direct compliments as in "I think you look absolutely beautiful" has worked pretty well for me over the years. Many women don't hear this very often and are longing for it. Other girls are longing to hear that they are intelligent/creative/fun or whatever. It can be a bit of a shortcut if you aren't creepy or clingy and can manage to switch into normal conversation. If she wants to have a normal conversation with you after a heavy compliment she already gave you the green light to continue flirting with her. And you avoid the indirect crap where you basically come across as dishonest, weak and a little creepy. I mean at some point you have to show her that you are into her anyways, so you might as well do it from the start and avoid the "oh thanks but I thought we were just friends".

"creepy" doesn't exist. Period. Creepy just means you are unattractive to her. If Brad Pitt came along and did the exact same thing, she would wouldn't be creeped out, she would be so excited she would pee herself. So, yes. Some women will call you creepy, but that's just what happens when she isn't attracted to you AND you make your intentions clear. But the solution is NOT to "stop being creepy"
It's to become more attractive, become better at game and approach different girls.

I find the 10k number completely ridiculous.

I only need 10 to realize that i rather live alone

Even if assured that some positive results will come after making the attempt often enough, I still always found the whole idea of making an approach so exquisitely uncomfortable that I can't really put into words. I guess I fall under the category of guys who mostly gave up trying after several rejections because when something doesn't work, and is so internally painful to even try, then why go on bashing one's head into the brick wall? I'm positive there are better ways than a nerve-wracking cold approach to a stranger. Ways like maybe meeting someone you already share some common interest with. I find that our culture in America is very lacking in any conducive environments that would make social introductions more natural. One thing I know for sure: the very WORST way to improve one's chances is to ask women how they prefer to be approached, if at all. They give answers that they would never follow in their real life.

This is garbage, its what you look like if you're ugly you will get less interest, if you're handsome you will get more interest, its that simple

Looks only play a factor in getting a woman's attention.

Excellent video

lets hear what learnt from talking to made up women

10000 in let's say 10 years are 3 different girls a day.
Divide that by 50 or 100.

Just say hi. If shes interested she will say hi back. If she ignores you, move on.

If u meet a girl a day u need more than 27 yrs .what a fraud

I had a friend in his 30s who would approach the most attractive women in a room. He made sure they were single in each case. He only approached good looking women. He was average looking at best and was under six feet tall. His success rate was 1/15 women he approached said yes leading to a date.

The bottom line is, if you are a 5 or over it’s a lot easier than being a 1-4.

You can't start out being full of shit. You are good looking enough and charismatic enough to be believable as a movie star in a bad movie. To sum it up, the average looking guy can learn nothing from you.

He approached 10,000 women and was rejected by 11,000.

"Game" is silly. Your goal should be finding some that you're attracted to and compatible with, getting married, starting a family, and staying married to the same woman throughout your life.

Life Lessons

Lol

Main rule I learned: don't take rejection personally. For whatever reason, you are not what she's looking for. It's not that your game is bad, or you're unattractive, or whatever. You're just not her type. Move on & keep your chin up.

I'm gonna try to be more vulnerable to see how it works, 'cause I've always had the impression that being directed is not more than a quick way to get their ego inflated. Thank you for bringing something different.

Bullshit. You're too young to have approached 10k women! No way could you physically do that.

True wisdom bro. Women, especially 8-9-10 are going to make you less happy after your first nut or two with her. Women, with few exceptions, are a liability and a distraction. They will fuck up your life lightning quick. If you want the experience, hire a 10 who will give you gf experience. Otherwise get a good German shepherd, work on you, build your career and enjoy your freedom.

Dumb