Ye hua jab mai Maa bani | Koi bhi ye sab nahi batata | Motherhood and Postpartum

Well said Shona. I am south Indian, I had my mom and 2sisters all of them took care of the baby. But emotionally I had gone through all things u mentioned. But I had or most women face so many challenges, house situation, health issues. They don't really get time to reflect on all this. And we are also well trained to portray the feelings people want us to display so also we don't express. Good you spoke up on this topic 🤝

Same here

Totally relate. I am new twin mom feeding was a big challenge you can imagine the feeding schedule. Thank god time passed with my mom’s support

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I felt the same but I was judging myself more then others, felt guilty.....dint know what to do, sometimes I used to feel I I did any mistake as I was expected to know everything and bear everything inspite of people around me, people took full advantage to not cooperating during that period

Same pinch ❤😊

Wow shona...u r superb....❤❤❤

Same feelings and thoughts I had. But must say Shona you and Angad you both individually handled evrtg and was so well organised❤ hats off to you both💖 God bless⭐️

Tumhare liye shona❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤strong,.

You are absolutely right...very well explained 👍

Same to same feeling…. ❤❤❤❤

U r right sona it is very overwhelming but some hard things with it but when our family support us specifically our mother it becomes so easy

According to me all this emotional turmoil happens because initially you are too overwhelmed by the N number of responsibilities to take care of and the fear whether you are giving your 100% to everything around the child which ultimately create a sense of self doubt …. Anyway that’s all normal ❤❤❤❤and eventually everything falls in to place

Ek dum sahi baat hai.

Same thing happened with me Shona

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Aap bahot pour soul ho❤

So practical i feel the same ❤

Happy bday neevu🎉❤d cutest baby

Having in-laws around during postpartum can make things easier, but at the end of the day, they're still in-laws, which can make the situation feel a bit formal. I missed my mom a lot and often found myself wishing I could be with my parents instead. Care is good. forceful care is another headache. I am a mom of 10 month old and I second you. Right now i am struggling between managing baby, work and inlaws inclunding an 85year old Nanni saas. why does society not understand what a new mom wants !

nice

Happy birthday neevu🎉❤ lots of love and best wishes to your future

Sending so much love to this video ❤

I m agree with you sona me bhi vesa hi krti thi

Oh my God....wait a minute.... You said it all exactly the way it is .... Should I love you a little more now ... Great Shona mam

Happy birthday Neev God bless you beta🎉

I can totally relate to everything that u said

Happy Happiestt 1st birthday nevuuu baby 🥳🥳😘😘😘😘
God bless you betaaa 🤗🤗

Happy b'day Neev. Wishing you many many happy returns ❤❤

Keep sharing the untold stuffs we all need to share them so that women are not just known for being strong n keep bearing within but by sharing can make a difference to all ❤ Happy birthday to Neev ❤

Mere sath ho raha hai

Hi Shona.

Can I please get panditji ka number... It got mispaced by me.. Thanks a lot for all your help....

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The feeling you shared about not immediately falling in love with the baby is so true. I didn't feel anything when i saw my baby for the first time. It was like okay now what. But now that i am pregnant for the second time i feel more strongly for the baby in the tummy. Now I know what it means to be a mom.

Shona aapne ek ek point correctly bola h. Today is my 28th day postpartum. And I also had a C section and I am facing similar issues. And the initial days were so hard. And no one was there to understand my actual feelings. But now things are going better.
And apka har point sahi h. Aaj apne jab videos me ye sab mention Kiya To mujhe laga jaise apne mujhe puri tarah se padh liya ho. Thank you for mentioning it, now I am relaxed to know that whatever I was feeling , it's ok, it's just a phase. And things will get better over time.

Same 😮

I could so relate with the uncontrollable crying without any reason.

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Sahi bat h apki mere sath same yhi tha

Mere sath bhi Aisa ho raha hai aap bilkul sahi bol rahe hain .. mujhe to lagta hai mere sath hi Aisa aisa hota hai ...

Mere sath bhi Aisa ho raha hai aap bilkul sahi bol rahe hain .. mujhe to lagta hai mere sath hi Aisa aisa hota hai ...

Every word you said is absolutely on point.. I am a mom of 2 and have felt and still feel some of these feelings. ❤

Same mere sath v yehi sab hua or mujhe lga me depression me chli jaungi..but 2months ke bad dhire dhire sab thk ho jata hai..or fir bacche ko dekhkar sari chije easy hoti chli jati h 😊

Mere sat bhi esa huaa😂

Every word you said are true.,...i am totally agree wity your thoughts

So so relatable!

Beautiful Shona👌👌👍
Apke IQ, practicality & comprehending capacity bahut hi badiya hai👏 very nice & useful🙏🙏

Shona this is one of the best video..❤ thanks for sharing this side of the motherhood 😊

Maine mere family ko aise bataya to vo has Rahe the even my mom and hubby ,,, vo soch Rahe the ye sab c-section ke vajah se aisa ho raha hoga

Hamari society me kuch myth h , marriage must h , baby must h . Agar ye nahi h to society ka pressure bana rehta h