How Far Is Too Far in Christian Dating? (When Is Kissing a Sin?)

Wowwww so insightful

So basically, the church has just been making shit up and adding their own rules to Gods. Nice guys, very nice. Good job.

Stupid disobedient religious “leaders”. Proverbs 30:5-6: “Every word of God is flawless; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him. Do not add to His words, or He will rebuke you and prove you a liar.”

I'm 15, i never had a girlfriend thanks for showing me that all sexual activities done when you're not married are a sin so I have to wait till I'm married 😢 😢 😢 that's like when I'm 25 or 30

Edit: well then I guess confessing to my crush, or even having a crush is also a sin🤔😫😫 does that mean I'm evil for feeling lust+genuine liking to her=crush(aka sin)💀

I need answers😣😣, I shouldn't confess, or think about sexuall activities right, I should die inside 😑🤧🤧🤧

I know if I am engaged in an open mouth kiss, that would ignite a fire of passion within me, so I would avoid that. A simple closed mouth kiss or a peck that lasts no more than a second would be my limit. The old saying goes. “A kiss, leads to lead a lick, a lick leads to a suck, a suck leads to a f***” .

maybe a good standard for when kissing becomes sinful is when it causes both of you to become aroused..

So sometimes people in culture sometimes greet with kiss on a lip is that a sin

Very well said

Yes a sin 💯

Would you kiss someone else’s wife like that? That’s how we tell our boys to think about it. If you’re not in a covenant relationship you should consider the potential that the person you’re wanting to kiss could be someone else’s wife (or husband if your talking to a daughter).

I also would not do that with my gf when we get married Infront of my parents so that don't answer me anything

I think we schould show an affection to the future partner, but in a controlable manner, because God says no sex outside marriage, so that why. Oh and why no sex out of marriage? Well just imagine what it could lead to, i would like a good conversation with some of the comment guys

I am an old man. 82. This nonsense sounds like something out of the 1950's. Any sexual activity between consenting people is good sex. I know this because God told me so.

So would you call making out a sin?

Jesus loves you guys

Thank you so much for this message I had been struggling with where to draw the line and this completely changed the game for me!

I really wanna kiss my christian bf but at the same time I don't want to aroused him or myself, I feel like making out is a way of a turn on, and I don't want that. But a peck should be fine. I just care about him so much in affection that I wanna peck him as my bf. I just hope a peck is okay and not seen as a sensual thing.

Thanks... I needed to hear this. It's been 15 years of being celibate and I'm in a very committed christian relationship right now that is leading t marriage but I'm worried it is getting too handsy. This video helped get my head straight.

i have always loved having sex outside of marriage! wouldn't have it any other way. you guys are missing out, i promise you.

This is so good thank you…

What a helpful video!! Thank you so much and God bless you 💜✝️

Well, I don't believe that dating was a thing in Biblical times or even the middle ages and most of modern history in general because people used to die at a much younger age in those ages and as a result, people generally married at a much younger age than we do today but I would encourage all who see this to just don't engage in behaviors that you might regret in the future and to avoid temptation whenever possible so you don't risk causing an unwanted pregnancy and whatnot!

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You know what, I feel like the only reason why everyone is on the fence is because they simply can't accept that yes it is a sin. Preaty much if you are sharing flesh. Yah... you know what I feel like Mark preaty much confirmed this is a sin obviously and clearly, even if you took out all those things that Mark preaty much said.. its still nearly impossible to kiss outside of marriage without breaking the foundational commandments Jesus commanded us. Yes I DO BELIEVE it is possible to kiss outside of MARRIAGE without sinning, GOOD LUCK but NO, your not going to be capable of doing that. Kissing outside of Marriage is really HARD to do without sinning. ALSO think of this, even if your NOT MAKING OUT, and just doing occational kisses, now your tempting yourself to MAKE OUT. I know this may not sound pleasant because of the FALL. But in order for kissing to work, I feel like you would have to do alot ALOT of Engineering to get it to work outside of marriage.

Best advice I can give is that most people don’t realize that if you throw sex out of the relationship what does the person actually offer? It’s best to know if you can truly be happy in the relationship without sex.

Please is a kiss on the forehead bad as a Christian to give to a dating partner?

So timely💫

Here's a tip also, make sure people like your friends are present. My roommate and I agreed that if a girlfriend or girl that's a friend comes over, we make sure that we are both there. It is an accountability thing, and you are much less likely to engage in sexual activity if someone else is around other than a significant other! Great video, Mark! God bless!

I just want to know why God allow Solmon ( I spell it wrong lol dang ) to have 900 wife's?

Have a good day god love you

God bless

Our whole body is covered in cloths 😭

There is no God except Allah and Muhammad final messenger of Allah and jesus servant of Allah and his word

VerY correct on point informatiVe info 🙌🏽

LoVe ❤️ it 👍 totally in agreement 😊

how is anything you do any different in pubic if your married or not that's sexual in nature? or would you let your parents and your pastor, into your bed to have then watch you and your wife have sex. its same analogy

Is it a sin if I kiss a girl before marriage

Amen God Bless Thank You✝️❤️😇

What is the definition of sexual desire, though? I feel like there a lot of aspects of it that are frequently taken for granted, for example the concept that it’s something we need to “control”. My idea of sexual desire is so far off from this that I often dont feel human...humans are confusing to me.

This is my third day without p0rn and I'm trying so hard to not see it

This was super helpful

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True.
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Touching and kissing someone anywhere in front of third party can be embarassing/considered unproper, even if it's chaste. Question of privacy and comfort. Are married christian couples allowed for makeout sessions with someone more in the room, like their priest?

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Giving an unwanted kiss on the lips could place you in front of a judge for sexual harassment, as opposed to just harassment. An unwanted kiss carries with it a different kind of weight than say an unwanted handshake. Autonomy is to do what is right in your own eyes. Obedience is submitting to authority. Before the expected phrase, you may now kiss the bride, ministers pronounce a couple husband and wife under the authority of God and the state.

Is it okay to cuddle when you're dating someone?

The fact that God did not give easily defined answers says a lot. And Paul was a frustrated single man who knew nothing about relationships or sex, so he is not the person to look to in the bible for guidance. Basically, don't have sex before marriage, but outside of that, there are no scriptures defining the actual acts of sexuality as to what is right or wrong, and if it were a huge deal to God, he would have put it in more severe terms such as the 10 commandments. Gods law, and societies moral laws should never be confused.

Amen!Thank you for explaining this clearly and openly God bless😊💓

I appreciate your thoughts and efforts Mark, God Bless you.