lets talk relationships, break ups, & turning 23 | answering questions i've been avoiding...

Thank you for always considering your community and being open, quite very open in my opinion, and transparent with your life. I could feel your apprehension in sharing some information but what I found most inspiring was that "you did you!" You shared what you wanted and kept what you wanted (cheers to boundaries👏🏽🥂)... Now community, please leave little Fern alone, everyone is entitled to whatever privacy level they deem for themselves.

You’re such an inspiring and wonderful woman ❤ I really hope you get the best out of your healing journey 🌸

i'm so proud of you. i feel like i have been watching you since 2021 or 2022 i don't remember but since we are the same age i honestly feel so happy for you and your accomplishments. also, you have the same good energy. you are a blessed human being, you deserve the best. 🤍

We miss youuuu new video pleaaase ❤

Girl the way i was sitting there nodding, saying “yeah” “yes girl” “absolutely” while you yapped 😭 I’m a newer sub but seriously you are so strong and beautiful! Everything happens for a reason and I know you’ll continue to find growth through these opportunities 🫶

You are my literal inspiration. I was in a hard time in my life. I was so detached from myself that I almost felt nothing, suicide thoughts would creep in but they weren't that strong and on 22 December 2022,. I watched your videos and I loved your energy. I connected with it, the creativity, the love, the friendships and inspiration. I wanted to be that, I took baby steps just copying you until I figured out what I wanted. Watching you makes me happy to see how far you have grown. If this is who you are its, okay. I just want you to know that your voice is soothing, your adaptability and how strong you are. Honestly your parents did such a good job. Your such a lovely person all round, even if you have shown us 1/4 of your life. 🥺🥺🥺🥺😍😍😍💝💝💝💝💝💝

Love you fernanda❤

Which basic settings do you use for canon m50? 😍 I am trying to make colors like on your videos but can’t figure out how😿

I'm 18 and I've been in a relationship for 2years and it was all toxic but we still had fun times and we just broke up and i always watch your videos to feel better and start taking care of myself and stepping into a new chapter of my life, sending you hugs!!❤

SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE BROKEN UP!!!! Girl, me and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up too and I am heart broken. But yeah, look around girl, sooooooo many people have broken up idk what's going on!!!!!!!

love you and your videos so much fern!! keep being your authentic self ❤️❤️

I love your podcasts so muchhh it's so relaxing and fun to listen to while I write my school record ( which is very long) and I could sit for hours hearing all of ur podcasts and not procrastinating
LOVE IT!!

LOVE YOU FERNANDA

The video was so short

I've been watching you since 2020 and knowing about this saddens me. I hope you both find your way back to each other. I love you🩷

I‘m a libra too and I have the same struggle with showing feelings in person and not knowing to deal with empathy from other people 🙈 I feel you sm⭐️✨

what lipstick are you wearing?? xxx

You can literally write a book on this video gurll!!!
I'm 18 and it's soo inspiring <3

Girl where the hala u are we misssss u 🙂❤️

Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life, He is able to carry all our weights and burdens, He loves us more than we can understand, He sees our hearts, He sees our pain, and He is more than willing to carry us through everything, if we let Him. Only Jesus can completely heal us, only He can truly satisfy us, He doesn't want to judge you but to love you back to wholeness, He will never leave you, He knew you even before you were formed in your mothers wombed and He truly loves you, open you're heart up to Him, He's lovingly waiting for you. John 3:16

Wait omg I was not expecting to hear that your single wth

Single looks great on you🫶

Can you make a video on how to adult!!! Like tips on real life adult things that we need to know in our 20s and things we didn’t learn in school that we need in real life and things you have learned! Even in a Canadian pov

Sending love!! You go girl!

Fern trust God, not the universe 👌🏻❤️❤️

I guess no Europe Vlog then :((( We are lucky to get the Birthday vlog, because christmas content will start soon. Imma cry, we need yooou.

When will next video come it's been almost a month

as a soon to be 31 years old woman. i would to say thank you to you cause, its okay to embrace change and feel discomfort when we're in uncertainty era. and believe about my own perspective even when its feel weird or unreal. love love , xoxo

No youre definitely better than me.....id be crying 24/7

Random question, but has someone Some movie/ series recomendations (Christmas related)?

i really loved this video, thank you so much <3 ly

You're so beautiful🌸💕✨🌹💜

luv you sm fernie,so so proud of u,dunno how but you inspire me as you open your mouth🩷

Loveeee the girly intro!

I love this video!!❤ In this video I feel you are very mature, and you've made me realize that I am a woman!! Not a girl anymore. You are very inspiring. I feel you very brave and I love how you embrace new eras in your life. Love that. Loving this content😉

i loved this video so much i feel so validated 🥹🫶🏻❤️

girl, I don't know If I can really relate with you as I have never been in a relationship. But I am feeling sad as I am remembering some emotions that I bottle up inside me which are now coming out of me. I am tired of these emotions. I wish I could just get rid of them.

Hey Fernanda! I've followed you for a while now and completely understand how you feel. You don't want to feel your leaving people in the dark and brushing over things, but don't also want to have every little detail out on social media. Know matter what you do or don't want to put out into social media we will always support you. We love you Fern!

I really appreciate you acknowledging the privilege it takes to be able to live a certain life and that not everyone is in the socio-economic-familiar context to access this (without minimizing the hard worker that you are, of course, because you ARE). I really see your growth and I celebrate it. I’m sending all the best your way for your twenties and siiiingle 🥹 guuurl 😍 I understand how right now it holds a certain weight to it, it’s natural, live in it. But just wait, once you discover yourself as just you, single, and really allow yourself to embrace it and open up to its gifts, you’ll thrive, I can already see it for ya. Much love Fer!❤

Where did you buy the top you’re wearing?

thank you so much for sharing Fernanda! you are such and amazing and strong woman and we appreciate you and love you! 💌

I just got out of a 1 y relationship, and he was also my best friend. I want to move on & cut him off completely but I can't since we're still friends. Idk what to do :(

i totally agree! it always feels nice to have someone by your side, but it is very important to grow by yourself sometimes. you have to love yourself to be able to love others

this video is so comforting and helpful, thank you fern ❤

"because i don't know yet..."
so i actually really love and relate to this so much. it is okay to not know yet because we are still so young and have a whole life to live. we have the rest of our lives to figure things out and find out who we are. right now, all we can do is just try our best and go through our days with love and confidence. thank you fern for recognizing and addressing this!

please read the description of this video!! <3 love you all so much