HOW TO SET SYSTEMS INSTEAD OF GOALS | a system that will change your life

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I can't connect the three bubbles into a cohesive idea/sentence 🤷‍♀

Thank you! I’m going to finally launch the podcast I’ve been wanting to start for years

Can't wait to get my planner in mail. Should be any day. I can't get enough of your videos!!

My goal this year is to move on my own and have a beautiful place :)

My goal is to selfpublish my first novel in April and my second novel in November.

Just found you the other day and it's like the universe sent you! Im going to the pdf planner, and im super excited.

I set up tasks insyrad of goals

Thank you for this video. What if I can’t remember things from my childhood? There are fragments but nothing enough to string an entire thought or feeling.

What I love about the Venn diagram is the unexpected result. My typical goal setting always has me focusing on weight loss and writing - goals I haven't been able to commit to for years. But the Venn diagram left me with this: "My life’s work is to help kids who grow up in horrible homes by helping them combat tall poppy syndrome by showing them how to do what they truly want to each day." Needs refining, but it was interesting that this seems more aligned with my job as a teacher (which makes me think I chose the correct career in the first place). Eye-opening!!!

Thank you 💜

Yep. Couldn’t agree more. -INFJ

Actually helped me know what I really want to zone in on. Thanks

I have always wanted to write a book since I was around 12. In 2025, I want to have my book written. Too many years have passed where I just think and talk about my dreams. I want to write 24 chapters, which may or may not change. Fantastic video! I can seem myself accomplishing my goals more now. Love how you connected each topic and explained the 5 to Strive System (this is a game changer). Never really had a system for my goals tbh, so I guess it makes sense why I hardly accomplish them.

Here's 1 of my goals for 2025:

By the end of Q1, I will be an author with a book by writing, at least two chapters, each week because I want to encourage others to tap into their potential, despite where they are at in life.

Ahhh! The good old systems technique

To be unconventional, self-reliant, experienced, expressive. But i need a job (cant do the career thing). Need money, lol. And i cant be too picky.

mindblown in the first 12 minutes... this is probably the single most helpful exercise I've done!

Keep going ❤️💜

Hi Alexis I could feel your enthusiasm and passion in this video. In fact I was so inspired I sat down and did a weekly set of todo’s and one goal to accomplish. I will have to rewatch the video.
You covered many themes! Excellent thoughts about emotions and how you feel. Seen many other videos about different topics but this underlining theme of how you feel, comes through. Hard to explain. Briefly: the goal is owning a racing car, instead you should see your self driving that car and the emotion you feel. Another video was like you said that special emotion you felt, now manifest that to how you would feel if you had that camera. I did try your planner two years ago, for me the first part was complicated. However the weekly planner part is excellent. Can you buy just the weekly PDF. I know it’s one system. Part 2 on my goals to follow cheers Vancouver Island Canada

Hi, I really like how dense and informative this video is. Unfortunately, and I do hope this comes across in the gentlest way, you speak quickly. I have ADHD, so I find videos presenting these sorts of systems particularly invaluable, but I find the pace at which it is presented to be very overstimulating which prevents me from absorbing it as I would like to.

I kinda love the mad libs approach to planning. It's very unique.

absolutely fantastic. you rock

🙌 thank you

Loved this entire video! Planning to read the book and I’ll complete the exercise this evening! I’ll be back at the end of Q1 to share my wins and to hear yours!! All the absolute best to you! ❤

I have done all the exercises you have mentioned here and actually made the whole year's plan by picking 1 out of those 10 things to make it happen. It is really useful dear. Thanks so much for this method. ❤

Hey Alexis, I'd love if you could do a video on how people can re-assess their goals if things don't go to plan. For example, let's say your goal is to write 12 chapters in quarter 1, what if you get to month 2 and only have 3 chapters written? Can you share an effective way that people can go back to their original plans and re-assess in a way that doesn't feel like failure? How can we adjust our plans on the fly while staying motivated that the plan is actually doable?