BPD - Person A + B

Thats everyone genius.

"Person B is drawing on a DIFFERENT TOOL KIT" (A DARK NASTY TOOL KIT!) OMGGG I SEE IT NOW, LOOKING BACK. UGH Makes complete sense now I'm my now ex-husband.

Everyone gets triggered, but not everyone lashes out when they are triggered.
2%? More than that!

Seems like once dishonesty is in my relationship my BPD comes out.

BULLSH*T GUY
PLEASE
DISAPPEAR.

🙏 so true

My trigger is the way feminism has turned modern women into sociopaths... women i've never met before would accuse me of things i've never done... 3 times women have tryed to have me arrested... thank god for wittnesses... the number of dirty looks i've gotten just for asking directions, was on a bicycle, what was i going to do kidnap them, i've lost count...

Their arent a Person rather They are The Personality Disorder. Really contemplate what the difference is, they have no self. When they are nice they are manipulating, when they are happy they dont allow for themselves to be happy so they internaly cycle through dark and evil thought. They didnt grow uo rather they got stunted as a child and never fully developed. The next worst thing is a Narcissist, the borderline and a nracissist are internally extremely colsely related. Borderlines have no real friwnds nor are they capable of being an equal so to speak in a rwlationshio so they have to pretend and hide what they really are. If you read this and end up getting hurt by one i hope these words haunt you. You wont know they font care about you in the begining and if you are emotiojaly immature enough to get involved with them then you deserve what you get. These people are no different than a Narcissist just a different level of emlathy & compassion but never enough even when it seems they ate the perfect friend, or reltional partner. I am experienced, they will ruin your life. You have been warned.

It's NOT just childhood trauma-- adult relationships having prolonged and repeated traumatic events and behaviors does CAUSE CPTSD. You can be a healthy, stable mentally strong person and someone extremely manipulative and controlling can find a way into your life and destabilize you by influcting all kinds of trauma, to keep you and control you for THEIR personal purposes, hijacking your life.

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Absolutely true.

My mother was perfectly normal until my father died.
From that moment on, she was a completely different person. A crazy, pathetic person.

It’s called “ I’m tired of your crap “ fit. Not abnormal.

Very well explained

This is what I live with everyday.

Omg they know your ways when they do the same shit when they get mad

If you something I don't like you yell at me for no reason im your ass out for sho disrespect you want to

Im disrespect your ass back I guess the whole world going through this

I have a "friend" who calls this Person b a demon.... can she be right?

Ahaha I’m moody all the time!! 😂😂

Two completely different people.

I have a serious question. Isn’t this what everyone does when they get angry though? People get angry and they do things they normally wouldn’t. Those things beings “tools” if you will. So does that mean everyone has bpd?

Sounds like my ex, occasionally he would show another side , 100x opposite of the man he showed to me in 11 yrs. When he broke serious promises and I left. I saw the full spectrum of his anger. Very sad. But he put his friends over and above me too long. I dont think he thought I would leave.

That’s a milder definition - I’ve seen where it controls everything they do- everything they think and it comes out on a regular basis but you are correct it is magnified 100 times in intimate relationships for sure.

That's not that's the other me

That is called quiet, high functioning BPD

give this man a RAISE

Heeeeeere's Johnny!!

more than 2 percent .. my mother is borderline .. far more than 2 percent

I thought my ex had split personality....nope it was bpd. And now im here with c ptsd.

That doesn’t sound like a personality disorder at all, it sounds like pain.

What's the difference between BPD and bipolar disorder? They sound similar.

Ohh i think this is happening to my beloved husband. A different person has emerged to destroy his life.

The question is when the demon comes out can we put it back in the bottle or is the relationship over?

This really doesn't capture the pain of being abused by these people.

Relationships turn me into a psycho

Excellent description 🎉

If you like magic,heres a trick.
Snap my finger,I'm a lunatic.

I thought is normal that 2% to go out of "normal" when you feel insecure în a relationship. I thought everyone does this till watching this. Wow

Its still your responsibillity to learn and manage your triggers and behaviour to the best of your abillity.
And some ppl with NPD can also be missdiagnosed. I have close friends with BPD diagnosis who mange well and learned what triggers them and do theyr best to not harm others. I also have a Mother in law who has no conntact with most of the family anymore cuz eventualy she just went to far for too long despite yeara and years of therapy. But guess what, you can tell your therapis all you want and they will take your side. If you don't actualy see the need of working on yourself, there is nothing they can do. And your loved ones will have to leave you to protect themselfs and/or theyr own children from your behaviour. And tht is what me and my husband did. It still breaks my heart when I think about her, but she is not save. And that is the end of the disgustion when it comes to my children.

♥️ You Tim. Thank you. It so bleeping unbelievable to ourselves let alone those we attempt repair with after a big one. Cycle is reborn. ❤️‍🔥🥵💔

Yes exactly that way

You're absolutely right!

I feel like when it's the trigger so the borderline personality it's like a completely different person from how I know I am if that makes sense. Like I can be out going happy than in a second I'm anxiety and depressed

They are ok 98% of the time, nope, that’s BS

Yeah right 2% of the time lol

I asked my therapist, why my bpd didn't come out in the other relationships but with the person i loved so much, he replied because you never loved anyone so much before, your emotional intimacy never grew this much with anyone else, your wounds were buried deep down inside you for dacades, now with this person you were emotionally naked, so now you can see them

Complex trauma therapist here: what this video is describing is CPTSD. Borderline personality means the defenses become persistent and impermeable. When it’s a personality, it’s not a symptom, it’s who they are. We can’t treat true BPD, only manage it. This goes for all personality disorders. People with cptsd only lack insight when in an activated state. Not everyone with cptsd has BPD but most, if not all people with BPD have cptsd. High overlap but definitely are important distinctions in therapeutic approaches