Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

telling people that you have a disorder is a pure example of seeking attention

Something that’s help me- TRY THIS> create a journal and write 4 questions (you can also add questions)
1) how do I feel? ( can be simply or get deep into it)
2) why do I feel this way? ( it’s okay to write “idk” and “this is my mental health and I’m having a chemical Imbalance”
3) Can I do anything to fix this or change how I feel?
4) has writing helped me today?

Yes , you are in pain but you cause others pain . DBT has 50 percent success rates.. yet there’s no line outside the therapy clinic .

I don't want attention but life is sucking the reason to live out of me

What is this? I don't recognize the name?

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People with BPD are not looking for attention... people pretending to have BPD are looking for attention.

People that think that haven’t looked into the condition.

what is BPD????

So many professionals don't like BPD's, I've heard "they take alot of time" and yes the attention piece. STIGMA

Not crazy?

My ex would create situations specifically to trigger my BPD so he could make me out to be psychotic Game Crazy in front of all of his friends families or Associates. It worked until my CBD and DBT therapies were set in place. Then it showed whom her really was/is and that I was 100% working my therapy.

But before your help you fuck over everyone that cares for you

Thats just a victim mentality to say im ill, its just the way it is and others have to accept it.
Change your self , everybody can chanfe,or you will die alone

BPD are like Victimhood ppl
Ohh Sad n Tragic where it nodoubt FISHED it out of some clearance bin... GET A JOB BPD!

Feeling immensely sad and afraid. I m diagnosed with IFS recently

When I first told my friend that I had BPD she looked at me and was like what is that so I explained it to her then when school started back up she told litterly everyone that I was basically lieing and she was the one that had it and all this stuff so this message was very heart warming thx 🤍

I really hate when people call me crazy, it feels really hurtful especially when it’s a lot of emotions and thoughts that I’m trying to battle through on my own. I’m trying to do my best and that’s “crazy”. Idk it’s really difficult.

THEY ATE BATSHYT CRAZY!! RUNNNNN.

BPDs are effing crazy stay away from any BPD as soon as you recognize it, they will ruin your life.

So…in what ways is there support? :/

“We are in so much pain” is a very borderline thing to say, you dont know real pain

I don't even tell people I have it

Wrong…

The lady in the video is so correct. We are in constant emotional pain so much to the point that it will affect us physically. ailments etc. So, if we come off the wrong way vs. snapping at us and embarrassing us just confidentially give us a heads up and we will adjust the outward process as much as possible.

The attention that we seek is not because we really want you attention but its because we were invalidated as kids growing up and we want to be validated we want to feel real we want to feel a live..

Thank you for this

I show more distress when no ones around than when they are there so this notion all people with it at eattentionseeekrrs is so wrong plus I think I have bipolar as well but the nhs doesn’t tend to do more than one disaffiliated at a time it’s mental health system is a joke

but I do want attention. Like a lot, I need more attention than the average person due to me being attention deprived.

BPD is a mental health disorder.

I felt so selfish for feeling the way I do

yes, we are looking for attention. But because we can't feel connected. Or because we constantly socially fumble. So we create a cycle

I'm waiting for therapy for over a year and I'm losing it I'm getting worse

I have bpd, and i want the opposite. Attention causes painful situations.

keep up the work - one step at a time - "keep pushing forward"

That’s part of it lmao like are you serious? Seeking attention and validation . They are monsters

My parents Inc others sexually abused me 😢 im 58 bk under mental health 3rd time

I fucking hate living with bpd

Ive got bpd wnd its hell!
Now apparently i have anti social personality disorder.
Im the opposite to that. Misunderstood massively.

My daughter has BPD and I have a hard time trying to help her she had like someone to talk to then he dropped her because she missed some appointments then she got a new person and they said they wouldn’t drop her if she missed appointments but what did they do at her last appointment they dropped her she needs someone to talk to but sometimes when something is new like the last one it was on Monday afternoon and we just couldn’t remember that she had an appointment she was working as a live in nanny at the time the dr lied to her she said she wouldn’t drop my daughter and then she did what can I do

Get therapy...

I don't want attention I want help so I can sustain a Job and keep my relationships healthy. I wanna stop being so angry to overly happy within minutes. I want to stop impulsively acting. I hate it.

Yoo you guys need just chill and not taking everything seriously

At this point, whenever someone asks what its like to have it, I tell them "it just hurts to exist at varying levels at varying times under varying circumstances."

I broke up with a girl who had bpd, she called the police on me with a made up.story

Thank you

One if my family member just told me she has this i was like wtf is this shit now i donr know how to talk tk her she gets fucking mad ass fuck sometimes then she be happy so fucking confusing then she will get drunk and get worse so fucking stupid so sick of this stupid shit grow the fuck up here in America they make so many shit up and people believe this shit back in my country i never heard of stupid shit like this so what do you do your crazy is that what it is im so fucking tired of this bullshit she does therapist helps then she doesn't i dont know I think is just all in her head

Hugs! 🫂

Your lovely, keep opening up and sharing this it's so helpful

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