the brutal truth about why your love life sucks (and how to fix it)

Im 25 and only had ina situationship so😅

Some men can shower you with affection and gifts in the first few months or years but the moment you deeply fall for them, you start to see their red flags and rude behavior. You keep trying, hoping you get them back as they used to be. Eventually, you realize they were just wearing a mask to get you hooked.

Morning from Hawaii good advice on dating

If a person can't meet their own standards for a romantic partner, don't date them.

Gracias que buen video

🔥🔥🔥 Great IRL Advice

Thank you so much for the tip ☺❤. I have a Question. what should I put on my bumble dating intention section? Should I put marriage? Does it sound desperate if I put marriage? or do you think I should put long-term relationship instead?

How do I communicate my needs and boundries (he has to make the plans, pick me up, check in again, pay for the dates ..) without sounding needy and too demanding?

Very useful!!❤

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Such a helpfull video. I went thought a lot of things my life but I would rather to hear these advices before.

love the window analogy

Theres lots of good advice here from the looks of it but i dont think it answers the title. I did admittedly skim through the vid but fully watched the last two chapters. The changing perspective chapter i agree with it all, but the more critical thing for this segment would be to encourage reflection as to how it came to be that these perspectives exist. Like it's all well and good to consciously focus on changing that perspective (and maybe what im about to say is discussed earlier in the video which if it is, this comment means nothing but i find this unlikely), but my point is that if the perspective isnt understood, i think this hinders the ability for the perspective to change. Especially if the reasons the perspective exists just gives you more ammo for not changing the perspective and just reinforces the one already there. This is actually one of many key problem areas in dating to the point where if a man aware of dating dynamics, which is probably at the very least approaching a majority of men now, when we hear "men suck, wheres all the good men gone, fk men", this is a red flag...

As what we actually hear, is "i continuously pursue men i have extreme attraction towards, oblivious to the fact that i'm just one of many, and im an idiot for continuing to pursue these scenarios and refuse to acknowledge whats happening and why, because i am unable to be introspective and will happily ignore relationship red flags at a chance to satiate my desire which surfaces for reasons i have no idea of",
or
"guys dont pick me because i am unable to make myself a better relationship prospect, i may have X or Y traits that make me unappealing but society and my friends all tell me im a 10/10 queen in all facets so why would i work on myself like that? it's the mens fault for picking other women with qualities they prefer those pigs"