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Oh no bro
ОтветитьThis is going to be a crazy and banger
ОтветитьI wanna come back and like my comment
ОтветитьYea Jealousy happens but it’s how you handle it will lead you to the next step
Ответитьaight im hyped for this
ОтветитьClassic static W
Ответитьhad a few times I felt envy but yea after a lot of soul searching I try and understand why something worked them that person so I learn form them
ОтветитьI’ve been envious of others, only because I would look at the quality of their videos or thinking I’m too far behind and I NEED to catch up when I see how old they are, that’s where those brainworms started originating from 😭. But I finally took a breath and realized I have PLENTY of time, and should stop tweaking.
ОтветитьWith jealousy, I just to keep congratulating the person I tend to be jealous of (even though that feeling rarely ever comes up). By the end of it, it’s success or luck that got them to that point that I could’ve gotten already but procrastinated or just life in general hit. Keep up the uploads Static 👏🏻
ОтветитьI don't worry too much about jealousy I just do my own thing and improve at my own pace to better and get things done.
ОтветитьNeeded this video!
Especially liked the part about seeing new creators just run circles around you
Most people tell themselves that noone starts on the "same" level, everyone is a product of their background before getting into Vtubing
But the negative feelings persist. It's a good message to transform that irritation towards something productive
Never goon Minion wasn't something i expected to see
ОтветитьI always define jealousy as the sudden awareness of lacking something/someone that you desire. Jealousy is not a bad thing, but how you react to that feeling is what makes or breaks you.
ОтветитьI could write a thesis on envy with how much I've experienced it towards other people. Even now in my own areas.
Envy is a green-eyed monster that'll eat you from the inside and laugh in your face. And, if intense enough, can make people get real desperate like their lives depended on it.
If I can give 1 piece of broad advice, run your own race. Improve your own time and push your own limits. Don't worry about the other lanes. You never know someone's circumstances or what they got going on. The only one you ttruly know will be your own.
If you got a goal, work hard, have fun and take it easy on yourself.
When I'm jealous, I congratulate them. I keep doing what I'm doing.
ОтветитьWhen I feel jealous I try not to show it, cause 1st I don't want to make the other person feel awful for their achievements or for having a great time, 2nd I take it as a motivation to improve myself and not to show off to others that "Oh look, I'm better than them" or this kind of shit. If I feel happy with my improvement, I won't start yapping to show off and drag the other person down. If I'm not satisfied, I'll keep working hard to improve.
ОтветитьMy jealousy or rather envy comes a lot and it's mostly if I don't have friends around or other content creators I can talk to and it's a shitty feeling cause I'm someone who barely goes out, takes meds including xanax, plays video games everyday without an ounce of sunlight and I start getting envious and upset over stuff I don't have and of petty bs online which isn't normal at all, I want to be a vtuber myself but I just can't be envious of others who make it big or else it'll ruin me.
ОтветитьFor me personally any negative thoughts from jealousy and envy I immediately tell myself, to not think like that, be happy for them and I use it to get to (and last) their level so we can win together
ОтветитьI hope jealousy and envy challenge/inspire people to be more active/creative in their endeavors. If you feel entitlement to accolades without distributing the work, you won't get far in the long-term. Being hateful is easy, but being better for yourself is so much more rewarding. 👍
ОтветитьI’m sorry this is going to sound like a bad take you got a model and your partner I should be jealous anyone would be happy to be in that position but I won’t say being jealous take over your judgement but look past it and keep moving your time will come forward and if you feeling jealous don’t tweet it write it down to calm down those feelings my friend blew up and I’m like argh but I am not here bashing my friend I’m supporting them
ОтветитьI've definitely been envious of people and continue to be tbh. however, I have to remind myself that even if I might not have what I'm envious of the other person for, I have to remind myself of two things: 1, I've got my own things going on. They're my things and I should take pride in them. 2, even if I lack something, good for the people who do. So long as they aren't pricks or use what they have to do bad shite, I'm not gonna lose sleep over them having it.
ОтветитьTHANK YOU. Jealousy and envy are normal feelings but its what you DO with those feelings that matter.
It breaks my heart to see people on social media call themselves 'terrible people' for feeling these emotions. You're not! It's normal to feel these things. How you act will determine your character. "Let envy fuel self improvement, not self doubt" is a fantastic way to put it.
refraining myself from writing a very unnecessary essay in a very long comment that nobody asked for 😿
Ответить4 the question, i usually deal with envy or jealousy by either A. screaming into a pillow or B. express how i feel privately. i dont like telling people my feelings upfront mainly because i dont wanna hurt them.
ОтветитьChaii is one of the most driven Vtubers I have the pleasure to know, she puts in alot of effort and not only that, she also does alot of her own graphic work to try and keep up with others in that field. She has the drive to keep going and has continuously inspired me and many others to continue going through her pep talks and regular raw conversations she isnt afraid to have with her friends. She is one of the most genuine and honest people I know and has balls of steel for being able to come forward and say all this without worrying about the image it may cast. Legitimately my bestfriend! ~ Mox
Ответитьknows about parsee from touhou just hope it gets not that bad
ОтветитьI usually don't reply much in videos but I've been having reminders of experiences I had in the past. Watching this video was one of those reminders. I was telling a friend that I used to be surrounded among alot of people who expressed jealousy towards me. They would blame me whenever a situation doesn't go their way, telling others what I did that frustrates them, and would always tell me "You're a influencer, you have control over people. You can turn people against us." In reality, I was doing my best to be happy, being myself online, and taking care of others. Their jealous words got the best of me which broke me down. They made me feel I was unwanted. I left behind a fairly large platform and wanted to be forgotten. I'm glad Chai didn't do what I did. Its not easy to work from the start all over again.
In the end, I found myself with better people and been hesitant about climbing again. I think jealousy is a very effective and strong feeling that is capable of being carried maturely. Use those strong emotions into passion and motivation. To put someone else down, my story and many others are examples of what could happen if you let those emotions boil over.
Based, frustration is a good techer if you aim towards trying your best, I do feel a little envious when friends get support and love and maybe it's a bad day for me but I love it too, so I end up fighting the worm hydra and use that to give me the energy to do more and better!
But hey, we won't learn if we won't fall o7
I have been both jealous and envy. It would be nice to have more fans, more friends and people who just love and accept me for who I am.
Here is how I deal with it:
"Be the vtuber that is here for 5+ years. Not many vtubers are here after 5+ years."
Ayo. Seeing Styx in a vid is great.
ОтветитьThere's a lot of Jealousy at the workspace too.
ОтветитьPersonally, the sooner you accept you can get jealous/envious, the easier it is to get over it 😊
ОтветитьBruv of all videos I've seen from you I've never seen a true motivational speech ANYWHERE on the web until today. O_O This doesn't just speak to me, this really made me finally understand what other creators mean when they just strive to improve themselves instead of feeling resentment toward the many surpassers we had to experience. This video was directed at me and me alone and I can tell. Not even the rest of my family could ever teach any valuable life lessons and you taught the most valuable lesson of all bruv. T_T
Thankfully I did start coming up with a pngtuber design (I'm drawing it myself!), and I'm actually getting closer to a bit of a Twitch debut. T3T I'll promise to do better. T0T
Brotherly love man, brotherly love.
Not a vtuber, or streamer, but had felt the same with my work. Seeing my talented and successful mutuals/peers is painful to me, and I don't feel like I belong in their circle, so I isolated myself.
After some time, I have come to terms that I will never get to their level, so I just focus on improving my own work, on my own pace.
Honestly I have both been on the jealousy side things and someone feeling jealousy over my stuff. To abridge it. On timelines on Tumblr when I used to go on there. I was make trends, or people would reblog things from me a lot to use as content for there blogs. It did bring me down, since they would do everything in there power to remove me from the reblogs to be popular, but I got over it quickly, since people who followed me knew I started what ever is trending that day. honestly funny to look back on that now, since it was just reblogs. XD
Jump years later when I am friend's with someone new, and him, me and another guy, made 3 different blogs with matching names. Some rando was mad at us 3 dudes for just...writing, and attacked one guy for having just charm, and smarts, which made him show his full ass trying to start something over that, and attack the other friend, cause he wasn't going to do anything to fill his ego or start the fire that was going no where. For me he just didn't try, since attacking the other two was biting him in the ass, that I am guessing it would have ruined his tumblr mini fame. Honestly now I am just in the middle ground of things.
Happy to help out people with making content or driving them on writing, and if they make it big with out saying my name, then that's it. Not gonna be mad over nothing. Tumblr followers are just numbers. You don't get money from people on tumblr or anything on the site. So really is nothing to be mad over.
heeeyy. that's my vtuber sibling. woohooo styx!!!
ОтветитьHard topic, one handled very well. Nice thoughtful video, I think it's important that we recognize these are human emotions and it's alright to feel them - so as long as we handle them appropriately. Thank you!
ОтветитьYeah jealousy is a bitch but my jealousy is hella toxic which im working on
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ОтветитьSelf awareness?? In my vtuber?? It's more likely than you think
ОтветитьI needed this
ОтветитьI kinda don't feel jealous of other vtubers cause I'm just doing vtubing for myself as a hobby. Even if I'm streaming to like 1 viewer, I'm doing it for myself. Sure being able to monetize and be famous would be nice but I'd rather do things my own way. I don't really get envy anymore because when i get envious i just start feeling sad and guilty. It's nice that she was open about this but jealousy and envy are natural human emotions and how one handles them is key.
ОтветитьReminds me of the phrase "Comparison is the thief of happiness".
It's one thing to feel envious of another person's success, but if they use to be your friend and y'all never had bad blood there's no reason to feel bad about it. You should give 'em props, reconnect, and support them as much as you can while working on your own growth....Or just be like me and clout chase
Ok what i think is i wanna know why your one eye goes black as i see that every now and then
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